Chastity Vocabulary Guide
member34553b26f0 wrote:(From the Is it Unmanly? thread) We have a bunch of unsatisfactory terms to try and communicate a very complex emotional process and…
member_34553b26f0 wrote:(From the Is it Unmanly? thread) We have a bunch of unsatisfactory terms to try and communicate a very complex emotional process and roles. … We lack a decent lexicon to subtract something rather pure, fine and loving out of the murk of porn and negativity. I love the power of words and couldn’t agree more with CQ on this one. What words or expression do you use or would like to see added to the dictionary of unfucking? For example let’s start with while Keyholder is a fairly universal term for the person who holds the keys we appear to have no similar term for the man who is locked. Anybody fancy a stab at that one?
Happy -A
Content, confident, giving, but most importantly-mine.
> member_0fe7c9ef96 wrote:most importantly-mine. :)
Getting serious for a moment, the expression "chastized male" really irritates my inner grammar Nazi. "Chastise" actually means to punish or discipline, and as we all know, most of us don't consider this to be a punishment. However, it's an understandable error because the words are so similar; however, they do not actually have the same root. To chasten actually means to whip, and IIRC, is related to the word castigate. I've heard someone suggest "chastitifed" which is probably a more proper use of the word "chastity," although it doesn't exactly roll fluidly off the tongue. But maybe it's better than the alternative.:roll:
> member_381064b05f wrote:Getting serious for a moment, the expression "chastized male" really irritates my inner grammar Nazi. > I've heard someone suggest "chastitifed" which is probably a more proper use of the word "chastity," although it doesn't exactly roll fluidly off the tongue. But maybe it's better than the alternative.:roll: Could not agree more. It turns my stomach at times. As I have often said, Jnuts is my husband, not my dog. I do not need to punish, or "chastize" him but he is in chastity because we BOTH want it.
Is Chaste not the proper term?
Chaste is correct as an adj. Definition of CHASTE : innocent of unlawful sexual intercourse : celibate : pure in thought and act: modest a: severely simple in design or execution: austere <chaste classicism> b: clean, spotless — chaste·ly adverb — chaste·ness noun
I think "muzzled male" is sexy.
Sometimes I'll say something like "How's the inmate doing today?" but I think I'm referring to my husband's penis, not my husband himself.
> tcs wrote:I think "muzzled male" is sexy. I find it amusing as well. My wife just uses the term "caged". "Chaste", in my opinion, isn't *quite *right. There's a connotation, or at least, an implied lack of sexual thought and deed which seems incongruous with our idea of using these devices as sex toys, or, if you will, devices to enhance sexual and emotional intimacy.
Unable Semen?:D To open this up further; what phrase would be appropriate for a lengthy period of chastification? I've always liked 'monastic' but the more correct definition would be 'monkish'.
How about 'retainer'? As well as the dental usage, it can be taken to mean someone kept in the service of another.
**Chaste**: pure in thought and deed. Perhaps purely in action, but when it comes to keeping thoughts pure... I can't find a single one in my head.
Yeah, incredibly lucky to have a keyholder who actually cares for us
'cum-down': the post orgasmic slump.
Going off on a tangent: Wines are laid down until they become 'vintage'. Cheese is stored until it has 'matured' Whisky is 'aged'. What about us?
> member_4e3795d05d wrote: > Going off on a tangent: >> Wines are laid down until they become 'vintage'. >> Cheese is stored until it has 'matured' >> Whisky is 'aged'. >> What about us? **MU!**
MU? I'm reading that as 'messed up'. Hell yes! The rest of my life got corralled (there's a word that needs looking at) into normality - let me have this slice of stupidity. It isn't hurting anyone and it's even making some of us happy. Back to the topic: Pinion: an alternative for 'shackle' but what I really like about it is that it's what 'opinion' becomes when you remove the 'O'. It also works quite well as a noun and sits between 'minion' and 'pillion'.
I think it is Japanese meaning "nothing" or "non existent" but I'm not entirely sure...
Sorry, the questions reminded me of a Zen koan.:roll:
too many syllables for a haiku though.
Screwed?
i suggest: nub-locked...;-)
Stumbled across a TLA I just had to share; ELF: Extremely Low Frequency If not all of us (compared to the average) then it certainly can be applied to those that go long. Now working on one for goblins, pixies and fairies.:D
GOBLIN: Gets Out Because Lover Is Needing. PIXIE: Penis In eXile Intimacy Enhanced. FAIRY: Fantasy Arouses; Isn't Ready Yet.
Overlock: The period of time between when the pinion desires for **chastity** to end and the keyholder grants it.
> member_4e3795d05d wrote: > GOBLIN: Gets Out Because Lover Is Needing. >> PIXIE: Penis In eXile Intimacy Enhanced. >> FAIRY: Fantasy Arouses; Isn't Ready Yet. Ah, those must be ETLAs (extended three letter acronyms).
> member_5778b0d078 wrote: > Screwed? We recently got a Mature Metal Queen's Keep with the security screw options, and I've been starting to use "screwed" instead of "locked" for when Jake is wearing his device.
Keyheldee/keyhelder T-D-um: when it's not turning you on. Raven: One seeking permanent denial. (From Poe: 'Quoth the raven "Nevermore!"')
Lifecycler: Someone who is committed to stay in **chastity** for the foreseeable future, receiving orgasms as their keyholder sees fit.
Interesting blog post by the naked husband regarding the difference between **chastity** and **orgasm** denial which may cause us to coin an altogether different phrase or give an entirely different meaning to O.D.. ... stity.html
Dehorn: Prevent the growth of horns on certain animals. Absolutely genuine and possibly my new favourite word.
Weld: 'wed' & 'held' joined together. Further relevance if you are in a metal device and sounds like an olde English word for wife.
Onan the Barbarian: the Neanderthal that we turn into 24hrs after shooting our load.
lol!
Denialware: the stuff you put on to stop you getting off.
McSex: Easy to get, fills a hole but not really satisfying (see McJob).
Bluejob: being orally teased whilst locked until the balls darken.
How about keyed, simple but understandable.
My first thought was of scratched paintwork but it is very appropriate though to me sounds odd in use; I've toyed with 'lock' as it's short and obvious (perhaps too literal for me). I'm just seeding the ground here. What gets picked up and used isn't important to me as long as I'm not pissing anyone off by keeping on doing it. On that note: Hanker: desire stongly or persistently (and not a wanker).
Helding - as in 'gelding' (which is a horse that has been castrated). Sometimes the obvious eludes.
Subhand - it's a spoonerism of husband that you could drop into conversation just to see who notices. I bet your subhand will.
Found a thread in the Members Lounge: the archived discussion Which advocates the use of 'Chastify' as the word to describe the act of being locked in a device and recently I read the term 'KH and chastee' which seemed to go together well. Thrall is another word that has my attention at the moment. It's a bit slavish for most here but lightens up when one becomes enthralled as I'm sure many of us are to our Keyholders.
'Coq au Can' - rather than have chicken stewed in wine, why not dish up cock in a can?
I found this reading on another site. **Sundome** is a Japanese word. Sundome literally means "stopping the moment before", in sex it refers to being stopped just before ejaculating.
> member_75c78a1ec7 wrote: > **Sundome** is a Japanese word. Sundome literally means "stopping the moment before", in sex it refers to being stopped just before ejaculating. Ooohh... I like this one. It's perfect for what we've been doing lately, ourselves. 8-)
Sundoming... much better than ruined **orgasm** or edging
I'm certainly glad that no one has suggested using the word "eunuch!"
Celebated: The past tense of not having a **release** to mark a special occasion.
Due to the fact that it's a metal CD my Wife/KH calls it/me "Ironman."
From Twitter: **Orgasm** - the gland finale.
Is for the victim of the Keyholder the word 'The Belted' not sufficient?
> member_02d53d08e5 wrote: > Is for the victim of the Keyholder the word 'The Belted' not sufficient? Most of us aren't actually wearing belts.
Than the Penislocked?