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FindMistress

The wanted board

Looking for a Mistress, city by city

122 posts across 21 cities. Stage two of the route is knowing where dominant women actually are; this is what it reads like when they and the people hoping to serve them say it out loud. Pick the city you are actually in.

This board is lifestyle, not professional. Nobody on it is available for hire. No rates, no tribute, no sessions, no money moving in either direction, and no post that hints at any of it. The guides cover the professional side of this world honestly, including what sessions cost and why, because plenty of men are looking for that and deserve a straight answer. It is a different thing from what is below, and confusing the two wastes everybody involved a great deal of time.

United States

United Kingdom

Germany

Spain

France

Netherlands

Brazil

Canada

Australia

Russia

Stage one comes before this one

A board is stage two, and arriving at stage two without stage one is the commonest way to spend a year on the wrong search entirely. Four guides sort that out in an hour of reading, and the route lays out all five stages in order.

  1. 01 What the word means, and which meaning this board uses
  2. 01 Three different searches hiding in one word
  3. 01 The audit worth running on yourself first
  4. 02 Venue types ranked by how honestly each treats you

Who writes here

Three positions, and the first of them is the one people misread. Mistress on this board means a woman who leads in her own life, not a woman who works.

Women who lead
Lifestyle Mistresses, writing for themselves. They lead in their own relationships and have nothing for hire: no sessions, no tribute, no arrangement with a price attached.
Submissives looking
People hoping to submit to a woman who leads, saying what they want and what they will not do before anybody has to ask them.
Service and duty
People whose interest is usefulness rather than play: standing orders, errands, a household run properly, and being depended on.