Chastity truths (for my part at least)

1. I find myself more content when I endure long stretches without release.
2. While point number one isn’t always a breeze, there is never any regret afterward.
3. My wife typically doesn’t view chastity as exciting. She appreciates it mostly for practical benefits. Occasionally she gets irritated if I become too self-absorbed or needy.
4. Even though my wife supports my denial, the responsibility to avoid slipping back lies largely with me. There are moments when I feel “locked out,” yet I must remain patient and resilient during these times. Mental submission works just as well as any other method.
5. When my wife encourages what benefits me, I feel profoundly closer to her, and I don’t wish to disappoint her.

I share those same sentiments.

1. Mostly self-regulated on my honour (roughly 20% of the time I am locked). No 'days off'. 2. Taking it one day at a time. 3. My game, played by her rules. 4. We are much closer than before. (Massive understatement!) 5. I should be doing the ironing.

> tcs wrote: > 1. I am happier when I go through extended periods of time with no orgams. > 2. No. 1 isn't always easy, but I never regret it afterwards. > 3. My wife usually doesn't think chasity is *hot* She enjoys it for practical reasons most of the time. Some of the time she can get annoyed when I am self obsessed or clingy. > 4. Although my wife nurtures my denial, it is mostly up to me not to slip up. Some of the time I am going to feel "locked and left" but I have to be patient and strong to get through these points. Mental submission can be as effective as anything else. > 5. When my wife nurtures and encourages what is good for me, I feel infinitely closer to her, and I don't want to let her down. Well said! Pretty much the same for me except that she is flexing her dominant wings ever so slowly. 8-)

I can also say this holds pretty true for me.

Here are some more: I actually have an easier time with chastity, when I have a high libido and feel closer to my wife. It sucks to be sick when on a chastity kick.

> tcs wrote: > 1. I am happier when I go through extended periods of time with no orgams. > 2. No. 1 isn't always easy, but I never regret it afterwards. > 3. My wife usually doesn't think chasity is *hot* She enjoys it for practical reasons most of the time. Some of the time she can get annoyed when I am self obsessed or clingy. > 4. Although my wife nurtures my denial, it is mostly up to me not to slip up. Some of the time I am going to feel "locked and left" but I have to be patient and strong to get through these points. Mental submission can be as effective as anything else. > 5. When my wife nurtures and encourages what is good for me, I feel infinitely closer to her, and I don't want to let her down. Point 2 is especially accurate for me. She loves the benefits of me being more attentive and loving. I'm almost a totally different person when I'm locked up. If it's been a while, she can and does notice right away my change in attitude, but I think she doesn't like that I have to wear that "thing" to behave like that. I'm hoping things will change over time though, but I'm not going to be too optimistic about it and I guess I'll just try and enjoy what I do have.