My First Orgasm Since Starting Male Chastity
My wife completely surprised me today with an orgasm, my first since beginning chastity almost 2 months ago. I thought I had another week to go. She told me…
My wife completely surprised me today with an orgasm, my first since beginning chastity almost 2 months ago. I thought I had another week to go. She told me I had the date wrong and I was eligible last week. Regardless… It was the most powerful orgasm I’ve ever had. My voice was actually hoarse from such loud yelling when I came. I do however feel lots weaker than I have in quite some time. I can tell I’m a bit distracted and less focused than prior to the O. I took a nap right after. My wife locked me back up and she told me that she’ll be taking notes over the next few days so she can decide how long she’ll have me go before my next orgasm but for sure it won’t be until next year. I love that woman! She is taking to this a bit more than I expected. I’m excited and worried all at the same time. Many of you know exactly how it feels when your fantasy comes to life. I’m starting to understand.
Two months for the initial round is quite something. The fact that you and your keyholder are in sync is also a promising sign. I hope you'll keep us updated on your chastity journey as things unfold.
> member_632db65f4b wrote:My wife locked me back up and she told me that she'll be taking notes over the next few days so she can decide how long she'll have me go before my next orgasm but for sure it won't be until next year. I remember after my first "chastity" orgasm my wife commented about my change in behavior. Similar to your situation it was about 45 days after we started. I had read about the possibility of a behavior change in Sarah's book. I tried real hard not to be affected and had not discussed this possibility with my wife beforehand. She picked up on it on her own, not that that surprises me. This doesn't dictate my orgasm schedule but it does play a big part in her decision process. I actually see this as a good thing because it is a clear benefit to her of keeping me denied. > member_632db65f4b wrote:I love that woman! She is taking to this a bit more than I expected. I'm excited and worried all at the same time. Many of you know exactly how it feels when your fantasy comes to life. I'm starting to understand. That is a great response. It can be a little scary when they start to really see the advantages and get in to it. We fluctuate a little but she is pretty in to it. Where she isn't that in to it she is still very good at follow through. That is not quite as nice as where she is in to it but she is still meeting my need. At the same time there are a lot of things that I am doing to meet her needs. Not all related to chastity but our relationship is better than ever. -A
> member_35d756fb6e wrote:2 months for the first go around is impressive. The fact that you and your keyholder are on the same vibe is also a good sign. I hope you will continue to tell us of your chastity journey as things progress. I'm sure I'll have more of our journey in male chastity to post as we continue.
> Atone wrote: > That is a great response. It can be a little scary when they start to really see the advantages and get in to it. We fluctuate a little but she is pretty in to it. Where she isn't that in to it she is still very good at follow through. That is not quite as nice as where she is in to it but she is still meeting my need. At the same time there are a lot of things that I am doing to meet her needs. Not all related to chastity but our relationship is better than ever. > -A Thanks. I feel pretty much the same way. Our relationship has always been great but I think it's become even more intense and better than I thought it could get.
Well done. You are very lucky indeed. When we started my wife and I began slowly. I had been caged for ten days prior to making love to her. That session was great for both of us. I almost had her hooked on being a keyholder at that time with that session. 10 days later we tried again but it was not as intense. What I do remember as being hard was my third orgasm. I forget how long I had been locked up for but when she let me out I got a hand-job (she also squeezed my balls hard which I kind of liked too). While the moment was good, I felt robbed the next day. Being locked up longer(and then released) is better but the intensity of the first one is always special.
> Atone wrote:It can be a little scary when they start to really see the advantages and get in to it. We fluctuate a little but she is pretty in to it. Where she isn't that in to it she is still very good at follow through. That is not quite as nice as where she is in to it but she is still meeting my need. At the same time there are a lot of things that I am doing to meet her needs. Not all related to chastity but our relationship is better than ever. > -A When we first started, it was at *my* suggestion and she was a little hesitant. Then she started liking it. Some time ago, I gave her a 'certificate' that allows her to start a new session/game whenever she wants. The last two sessions have been *her* idea. Previously, she wasn't into long-term sessions, and I had devised a method of drawing cards that would give her some discretion as to whether a session would be short or long-term. She surprised me in this last go when she elected to take the maximum possible value of the cards.Our rules are structured in such a way that she has options for extending the game up to a predetermined maximum and she has already indicated that she may extend it. Unfortunately, the learning curve has been somewhat steep for her and she doesn't take as much advantage as she could, and she has a difficult time with denying me orgasms. Our base rules are supposed to be that I am not permitted more than one per month but for the last couple of months I was getting one every week or two. She really enjoys PIV sex and has a hard time not going 'all the way'. Lately though, there has been just about zero activity for about 3 weeks now...much of that due to the fact that she took a second job (despite my urging not to) and because my job changed at about the same time- I make more money and have more responsibility, but now I'm getting up to go to work at a time that isn't much later than when I used to go to bed, and by the time she's getting home from work I'm either done in and crapping out or already tucked in. C'est la vie. We'll get it sorted out somehow, we always do.
Chuck, Good for you! Sounds like you've had an excellent start. I wish my wife was as engaged as yours. She's more on and off, with a lot more "off" lately. It's amazing how fulfilling MC can be when the wife is really in control. Do keep us posted;)