The Strength Behind Foot Rubs

Here is an email I forwarded to Melissa earlier today. It made me wonder what other habits might be enhancing my time in chastity. How about you, or your partner? Michael Melissa, You know how attractive I find your feet. They really are sexy. I’ve always enjoyed massaging them for both of us—ha! But have you considered just how dominant it feels when I’m rubbing yours? When you place them in my lap, wiggle those toes, and signal that you want me to work on them? It drives me quite wild. Did you also realize that giving your feet a massage helps me stay under your gentle command? Absolutely. When the urge for you is strong, but I sense you aren’t ready for me yet, I request to massage your feet as a way to keep myself from becoming “whiny.” It’s a tactile reminder of who holds the reins. You see, it humbles me and keeps me compliant with what you want. Before MC, I would have pushed harder for sexual attention. Now, let you decide. I try not to push too much, though sometimes my mouth runs ahead of my mind—I know this about myself. So, before that happens, I ask to massage your feet. You enjoy it, and it costs you nothing but the effort to lie back and relax. It keeps me exactly where I belong: chaste and under your control. I must admit, I derive great pleasure from doing so. My arousal levels stay high throughout; feeling my cage secure while your feet rest in my lap brings me joy. Love, Me

Beautiful!

Thanks Kiki. M

As a man who loves feet, I can confirm that massaging my wife’s lovely soles is delightful. For me, the erotic quality of her foot massages rivals touching her breasts. So, when a wife allows her caged husband to massage her feet, it serves as an excellent method to keep him from becoming too restless. It soothes his urges and acts like a safety valve for his energy. Meanwhile, she just reclines and enjoys the moment with no effort on her part. A wonderful solution all around!

I also really appreciate my wife's feet. Massaging them definitely helps settle me down a bit. It tends to evoke submissive feelings in me, which makes the denial period much more manageable.:)

I enjoy giving my spouse foot massages too. Especially when she directs me to do it rather than waiting for me to ask if I may. It doesn't calm me down; in fact, I get quite aroused while doing it and yes, it does bring out submissive feelings. If she permitted, I would massage her feet every single day.

Michael, Wow, thank you for sharing! That is exactly what I love about this forum; listening to how others manage their chastity challenges. I particularly liked your comment regarding the foot massage helping with denial: "When I am especially wanting you, and I know that you are not wanting me, then I ask to massage your feet as a help to keep me from 'getting fussy.' It reminds me in a hands on way who is in charge." Beautiful!

She replied to my email and mentioned she had no idea I felt so deeply about it. She said that *I've* actually got *her trained now; whenever we sit together, she wants her feet in my lap! Michael