Cock Confidence From Having a Piercing

I’m still figuring out if this is the right spot to post here or if it belongs in General Chastity Chat. Anyway, I was curious if any other members with piercings feel a bit more confident or serious about wearing their device after getting pierced, specifically to avoid “pull-out”? I’ve tested several devices, both plastic and steel, along with some painful pull-out prevention add-ons, using the tightest rings I can manage without cutting off circulation. Sadly, nothing really kept me in permanently… Well, except for a piece of steel going through me;) Eventually, I decided to pierce the top base of my shaft to help prevent pullout on my CB-XXXX devices, which actually worked (see link for details from the archived discussion). But ultimately, I went with a PA because it felt more like an official piercing to me. Now that I’m at 8 gauge, I’m thoroughly happy with the decision and know I could never go back to wearing a device without this anchor. With that said, I was wondering if other members feel it’s a waste of time to wear a device if you don’t have a piercing to absolutely prevent pull-out? I’ve tried many different devices for over 6 years now, and it’s obvious to me that I’ll never find one I can’t defeat or pull out of without a piercing holding me in. When I see posts here or on other forums where non-pierced members swear they can’t pull out, I know deep down that with the right amount of lube or soap, they could easily pull-out from the back. Does anyone else who is pierced feel kind of cocky about their piercing when it comes to taking the lifestyle seriously? The actual pain of the PA piercing was much less than expected; I can’t help but highly recommend it to anyone struggling to find a device they can’t pull out of. Of course, I started with 12 gauge, but over the past 3 months, I’ve comfortably bumped up to an 8 gauge where I plan to stay. It feels so much more real knowing that you will tear your cock up/experience insane pain if you try to pull out of a device requiring a piercing, and I love it that way:twisted: .

> The actual pain of the PA piercing was so much less than what I anticipated, I can't help but highly recommend it to anyone who is struggling to find a device that they can't pull-out of. Not for me. I've had enough holes put in my body due to my penchant for 'exciting' career choices and hobbies; I'll pass on intentionally putting in extra holes. > I know deep down that with the right amount of lube or soap, they can pull-out the back, no problem. Not true for all. With the smallest ring on the CB3k, I absolutely cannot pull out, no matter how much soap or lube is used... unfortunately, this causes so much bruising that it's impossible to wear long-term. In the meantime, until /unless I can adapt via a program of successive reductions in ring size (currently at next-to-smallest), my KH may inspect at any time. If I fail to become aroused when she requires it, unpleasant penalties will be waiting for me. Lately though, I've been thinking less about 'escape'. Even when I do think about it, my desire not to disappoint the Mrs overrides it. Although this is more mental/mind control, it is *still* control...and perhaps even more insidious than physical control, as lately I have found myself doing things she has demanded without using physical force which previously might have been necessary.

Yes, I feel exactly the same as you. In fact, you sound just like me. I absolutely refuse to believe that non-pierced people cannot get out of their chastity device. Many swear they can't, but I always default to "they haven't tried hard enough". But pullout is one thing to correct (and the piercing has), while defeating the locking mechanism is another challenge to overcome.

This may upset a few people. If you are not pierced and trust your device to be secure and want to hold onto that belief, don't try this; The pencil test - push the top of a pencil (the eraser end) into the pee-hole in your device until your penis is pushed out the back of the tube/cage. Of course, being locked in a device won't stop you cumming if you really want to and anything can be removed in seconds with the right tools. The simple fact is that we are in these things because at some level we want to be, and everything else is a conceit to make this fact acceptable or more pleasurable to ourselves. I am not pierced and Chatelaine says it's not on the cards.

> Of course, being locked in a device won't stop you cumming if you really want to and anything can be removed in seconds with the right tools. The simple fact is that we are in these things because at some level we want to be and everything else is a conceit to make this fact acceptable or more pleasurable to ourselves. I definitely agree with what you're saying. No device is foolproof. All devices can be removed at some level, doesn't matter what you do. No one should be looking for the perfect inescapable device. But that's not to say escaping shouldn't be *easy*. At the end of the day, chastity devices are deterrents. Like your locked front door; it's just a deterrent. It doesn't actually prevent determined criminals from entering your home. Someone could pick your lock or throw a brick through your window. But despite that, you wouldn't leave your front door wide open and put up a sign saying "please don't steal from me". No. You still lock your doors; you might install an alarm system to scare criminals off, you might put up video cameras to potentially identify who broke in if it ever happens, you might even put bars on the windows, etc., etc. If your house was repeatedly broken into, you'd find out exactly how it was being done and would find a solution to stop that from happening; for example, if a criminal is able to pick the lock - maybe try a different kind of lock and see if that stops them. In other words, you make it as difficult as possible to bust into your house, and as less-than-desirable as you possibly can. IMO, there should be only 3 ways to get a device off: 1) Destroy the device or the device's lock irreparably 2) Severely damage your penis trying to get it off (by ripping through a piercing, let's say) 3) Get the key Your options should be limited to those and only those. To go to the lengths of #1 or #2, you'd have to be extremely desperate and serious about getting out of the device, and you'd want to get out pretty much for good. But at the end of the day, like I said - chastity is nothing but a deterrent. If having your cock wrapped in a cb6000 that you know you can pull out of the back is enough of a deterrent for you, then it's doing its job.