Introduction into Chastity for Women

Hi, I’m just looking for some advice before I dive into what my partner has finally come around to regarding her new role as a submissive and we’ve been seeing each other for about eight months. She is fresh at being submissive, and we have taken things slowly which she enjoys. She finds it tricky to communicate her wants and ideas; often we text more than talk. She only recently asked about getting a chastity belt after I jokingly showed her a picture of one a few months ago and said look what i’ve ordered for you. I don’t want to spend too much on a custom belt until I am sure it is right for her. Ideally, yes, but money doesnt grow on trees. As an introduction I thought a cheaper adjustable model that has flooded the market might be ok just to get started I cant go locking her up 24/7 as her job doesnt allow for such things, but on days she at home alone would be far more suitable. How long would it be acceptable for her to wear one for a whole day??? Ive not seen any guide on how to train for such things. many thanks

Homer79: Unfortunately, I do not believe that anyone here can provide you with the information that you are looking for. These Forums are dedicated to the exploration of Male Chastity (MC), and the ways in which it can improve the intimate sexual relationships of the members. Accordingly, the wearing of women's chastity belts is not usually discussed here. I would suggest that you go onto the FetLife website, and read some of the groups there that are devoted to Female Chastity.

> Mike Bekoff wrote:These Forums are dedicated to the exploration of Male Chastity (MC), and the ways in which it can improve the intimate sexual relationships of the members. Accordingly, the wearing of women's chastity belts is not discussed here. Not so fast there, Mike. The only reason we don't really discuss it much is because we don't have many female chastity participants around here. There *are*, however, some resources available, besides Fetlife. I'll post them as soon as I can look them up.

> member_c2f1ccdd09 wrote:Hi, > I'm just looking for a little advice before I delve into what my partner is what I think my partner has finally > come around to. We've been seeing each other for about 8 months. She is new at being submissive and we've > been going at things slowly and she's loved it. > She does find it difficult to communicate what she wants and her ideas, we often find that we txt each other > more than talk about it. Shes only just asked about getting a chastity belt after I jokingly showed her a picture of one and said look what i've ordered for you a few months ago. > I dont want to spend loads of money on a custom belt until I'm sure its right for her. In an ideal world I would, > but money doesnt grow on trees. As an introduction I thought a cheaper adjustable one thats flooded the market might be ok just to get started > I cant go locking her up 24/7 as her job doesnt allow for such things, but on the odd day she at home alone would be far more suitable. How long would it be acceptable for her to get used to it for a whole day??? Ive not seen any guide on how to train for such things. > many thanks Homer 79 just do a quick search on female chastity in the search at the top. There are a few topics on this in the depths of the site Here's one I found for you the archived discussion Whilst this site is mainly Male Chastity, we would encourage any and all discussions on female belts and approaches to the subject so please don't think we are soley Male based, we are not, it is just more widely discussed. Welcome!

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I'm working on getting my wife to take more interest in male chastity and be more cruel and dominant in the bedroom but I think i'm annoying her. any advice?

> member_0b12628dfe wrote:I'm working on getting my wife to take more interest in male chastity and be more cruel and dominant in the bedroom but I think i'm annoying her. any advice? Kind of tough to give advice when we know so little about you and her, and where you're at with this sort of thing.

> member_0b12628dfe wrote:I'm working on getting my wife to take more interest in male chastity and be more cruel and dominant in the bedroom but I think i'm annoying her. any advice? Stop annoying her.:roll: Have you looked into any of the chastity/keyholder books on the market? I know that Sarah Jameson catches some flack for being overly commercial, but her initial book "Be Careful What You Wish For" really is a good intro for chastity newbs, and explains to vanilla-ish women some of the whys and hows in an easy to understand manner.

> member_0b12628dfe wrote:I'm working on getting my wife to take more interest in male chastity and be more cruel and dominant in the bedroom but I think i'm annoying her. any advice? Though I live the vida vanilla, I have heard it said that "the cruelest thing a sadist can do is refuse to punish a masochist."