Surprise Ruined Orgasms Await Me

Yesterday afternoon I brought up the idea of ruined orgasms with my wife, who acts as keyholder, and she’s already given me two—one right before bed and another in the morning. I told her that while I wouldn’t want this all the time, it was ultimately her choice to decide; she agreed emphatically. This afternoon she mentioned having a surprise for tonight, though warned it might not be entirely pleasant:shock: It feels like my unlocked period is going to involve plenty of ruined orgasms.

What’s your experience with them? I haven't had one in some time. My memory tells me it left a bitter taste afterward, making the whole effort feel wasted. Honestly, I'd prefer skipping an orgasm altogether rather than ruining one. That said, last night I proposed we give them another shot because my feelings might have shifted given our current situation. We'll find out soon. I'm mostly just wondering how you all react to them personally. Also, what methods do you use? Do you vary the technique?

I wanted her specifically because I needed to feel it myself. Physically, I wouldn't say I adored it—it was quite frustrating—but emotionally, it really got under my skin. For me, the point isn't just the ruining itself but what happens between us in our relationship dynamic. I wasn't bitter; instead, I felt incredibly aroused, which is exactly how I like it and enjoy being denied. The technique she used was straightforward: simple wanking followed by cutting off all stimulation right at the critical moment. I've done this to myself before, but having her yank her hand away just as I was about to cum left me with a puddle of semen on my stomach. That final ejaculation combined with an orgasm felt quite intense and overwhelming. It seemed she enjoyed it too.

I like them, but for me they serve as a form of punishment within our BDSM dynamic. Whenever she catches me getting worked up, she might slap my face or my cock. It feels quite special.