jaysf Our Journey So Far

Hello everyone,

I haven’t posted in ages, but I’m back! After some long discussions and plenty of thought, we’ve decided to trial two devices: The Bird Lock and the Bon 4. We’ll probably try the CB6000 eventually too, but for now—and to help my Caged Boy (CB) ease into it—these are the ones we’ve chosen.

They’re all paid for and currently on their way; he arrives in 31 days. Some of you might not know that he lives in the USA while I’m here in Ireland.

It’s been a long road, but I’m happy we’ve finally reached this stage for trials. Hopefully, he adapts well and we encounter no major issues. If anyone has tips or help to offer for those first few weeks, they’d be greatly appreciated.

We’ve also been testing out being naughty in public by sending him submissive messages, swinging a key around, and engaging in active role-play with code words that keep us both aroused even when we’re out. It seems to work wonders, and we’re really enjoying it so far.

What do you all do? Any hints or tips would be lovely. I just want the transition period to go as smoothly as possible.

Hope to hear from everyone soon!

Cheers, Guys

I am so excited, love! This will be a wonderful new step; I can feel it. My whole body feels energized just reading your words, and I cannot wait to see you again and hear that satisfying click. You are perfect at listening while also asserting yourself at the same time. I love you, darling. After all our discussions and hard work, I will soon be back in your arms and under your **chastity** *Kisses*. I hope we can gather some good tips and friendly advice along the way.

I am very happy too, hun. It is all here and ready to go as soon as you arrive—well, maybe a few days after lol:P I love you too, darling! I can’t wait for the plane to touch down and have you back:D

I cannot wait either, love; I am so very excited. You worked hard to pick the devices with me because you want me comfortable while you show your will as my KH and dominant partner. You are amazing. Even though our journey hasn’t officially started yet, I am thrilled—thrilled for this new chapter, for you, and for all the excitement ahead in your eyes when I see that mischievous twinkle.:mrgreen: I will do my best to ensure every day brings you what you want, and if I prove myself a good boy, perhaps I’ll be rewarded with something special!:D

All LOCKED UP and nowhere to go!:D I had a test run earlier in the week, but a slight issue caused us to pause for a few days!! Day 1 starts now after I finally figured out how to fit it properly lol:P It took a few attempts, but I managed. I was able to do it within minutes without any discomfort for my CB!:D GEDC0057 (256x191).jpg GEDC0057 (256x191).jpg (78.87 KiB) Viewed 10484 times

Well, we had our first outing last evening—a trip to the restaurant and movies!! He was locked up while I wore the **key** on a chain around my neck. I teased him occasionally by revealing it and swinging it round for a bit. It made him quite horny, but he got refused his release for that first night. Maybe I’ll let him have some fun later today? Not sure yet!:D

I had a lovely night the other evening and then started **chastity** with the tighter ring on the Bon 4 yesterday. Here’s hoping I stay locked up for a few more days!:D Wish me luck, guys.

Mrs. K says one of the highlights of **chastity** for her is going out to dinner with friends. She gets a real thrill from knowing that I am locked and deeply aware of my state pretty much the entire time we are out, especially since she can melt me with just a whisper, a smile, or a heel under the table—all without anyone else knowing. Enjoy teasing him, Jaysf! I can see he loves it.

My KH just told me that the plan is to unlock me tonight, then lock me up for three days. Afterward, I’ll be unlocked and locked again for four days, repeating this cycle with a maximum of five days in between. I’m okay easing into it because that’s what my KH wants, though I was hoping for longer lock-up times initially:? But ultimately, whatever my KH wants is best.* *Edit:* Just got back from the gym (my first time wearing CB) and it was interesting. I didn’t do a full routine but managed my running and elliptical sessions quite easily with the CB on; everything else involves mostly arms, back, and legs so shouldn't raise any concerns. Things are progressing well. It was a major turn-on to walk around bound up while working hard, knowing that my KH could trust I was locked and only his. There was some talk about this device not being quite secure enough yet, so I wonder if we will discuss getting a metal one down the road.

Starting our three-day round today. Got locked up before heading to the gym and also spent the evening at the lights festival here in Belfast. I think the device is handling well, though I seem to have developed a bit of chafing where the back end of the ring sits:(

Got locked up by my Keyholder last night. He’s on a six-day straight work week and wanted to be sure no funny business was happening while I’m at home. I am rather excited about being locked for such a long time, though he did trick me—I enjoyed it; it was a good tease. He told me I’d get one cum before getting fully locked in, then put straight into bed. Things are going okay otherwise. I’ve had some tough red scabbing under the shaft and two crescent marks on my tip from the breathing holes on the covers. I believe.

Just doing an update for Jaysf. We’ve been pretty busy with other things lately. When I went to see my now fiancé (he proposed!), we fully intended for me to stay six months, with money and tickets already prepared. Long story short: that didn’t happen exactly as planned. After a long interrogation of both me and Jaysf regarding our relationship and sexuality, they cut my stay down to three months and made me buy a return ticket within those three months—a monumental cost I was barely able to cover given the short notice (our previous ticket had been booked months in advance for the cheapest dates). As you can guess, this severely hurt us financially. We attempted to get a reply from someone in charge about what we could do to overturn the decision. We later found out my passport was improperly stamped by them anyway, so technically the verdict should have been null, but that produced little practical results. Over those three months, me and Jaysf had a happy Christmas plus both our birthdays—including a new birthday for our rescue cat! All while we attempted to get responses from authorities; we were stonewalled at every turn. We didn’t let this stop us from **chastity**, as you can see in previous posts, and we are well on our way to regular practice. On the day of my return home, I was finally given their verdict: they apologized and said that if I could purchase another ticket, I could stay. As you might guess, this felt like dangling a chocolate bar just out of reach for a starving man! There was no way we could afford even together at the last minute. So I had to return. We shared kisses at the airport and shed tears as we parted. Upon my return home a few days ago, I went back to trying to set up our home life again: returning to exercises (trying to get fit since Jaysf is Scottish-born and I’d love to see a traditional kilt wedding haha;) ) and day-to-day living. The past couple of days we’ve begun working on **chastity** again (thank goodness for webcams!), using what I believe is the Bon 4 along with some very convenient plastic numbered locks, and having a good time. Here’s hoping that distance makes our fondness grow stronger, just as my **lock** does. Thanks for reading; have a happy night, y’all! JohnDoeLock

A quick update! I’ve been back in **chastity** for about two days now using a plastic number lock on what I believe is our Bon 4 model (they both looked the same). It has been rather fun getting back into it. Having learned from reading other posts, Jaysf has started asking for random pictures of my CB and tagging along with the timing. I have to admit that seeing him get into it is a very extreme turn-on. Also great is his willingness to discuss longer lock-up times, which before were off-limits areas. I must say, I am a rather happy CB wearer right now—but I don’t want to count my chickens before they hatch (or clicks before the **lock** closes). Here’s hoping; keep your fingers crossed for me guys!:D

Well, as you all know by now, my other half and now Fiancé is back in America after the border agency messed up his visa:( much to my dismay. We started **chastity** when he arrived here in November. We sourced a couple of cheap CBs first to find the right one before buying our permanent device; we are still undecided, but even though he has returned home, we are continuing with **chastity**. He wears it at home using numbered tags and removes/replaces it while I watch via webcam so that no undue attention is drawn where it shouldn’t be. We also created our own set of rules (attached), which I hope he follows whether here in Ireland or away. I hope everyone else's journey is going as well as ours. Even with a few hiccups, we are settling into it at a good pace. Hopefully speak to some of you soon! Jaysf. RULES SET BY MY KH FOR THE ENGAGEMENT AND WEARING OF CB IN **CHASTITY**: 1) I am NOT allowed to touch the penis when erect or flaccid, whether locked up or unlocked at all, unless directed by my KH or while cleaning/using the bathroom. 2) I am ONLY allowed to cum as and when directed. If we are playing/teasing, I WILL tell my KH that I am close to ejaculation. 3) I WILL always lock/unlock ASAP when asked by my KH. 4) I am not to INITIATE or ACT upon anything sexual—be it physical, mental, or technological—in any way whilst locked. 5) There will be NO minimum or maximum periods of **chastity** or release. My KH has sole charge over this. 6) Chastity is NOT foreplay; release does NOT presume an orgasm will be authorized, but that my KH wants to play, tease, and may allow ejaculation at his whim/discretion. 7) I WILL NOT touch the **key** (unless in emergency) under any circumstances. Whilst home in Ireland, My KH has sole responsibility for locking/unlocking the CB. I WILL provide photos of ID tags—numbered, dated, and timed—when requested while away from home immediately. 8) If my KH requests ANY kind of sexual activity, no matter how big or small, I WILL adhere to it immediately. 9) I WILL IMMEDIATELY allow examination of any item of the CB as and when my KH deems necessary. 10) I WILL always be honest, open, and truthful to my KH regarding any unauthorized touching/Ejaculation that has happened. 11) I WILL maintain a level of cleanliness at all times. 12) I WILL NOT ask to be LOCKED/UNLOCKED arbitrarily but WILL report immediately any discomfort for examination. 13) When engaging in teasing and/or lovemaking, ideas and desires may be expressed, but authorization and execution remain at the discretion of the KH. 14) Discussion of future ideas, toys, and play sessions may be brought up but can be refuted or ignored. The KH reserves the right to Alter, add, or remove rules at any time after proper due discussion and consideration.

Well, here is another post!:D As you are probably aware, my other half lives in the USA and we continue with our **chastity** as though he were here physically. We use plastic security locks; I ask him for pics every day at any given time per our rules, and he sends them so I can ensure nothing untoward has happened (and so far, it hasn’t!:D). He has been wearing it for the past week, and I thought it was about time to allow him some fun. So I told him to switch on his Yahoo Messenger, and we made a start. I instructed him exactly as said; it was a very horny session with both of us achieving good **orgasms**. Afterwards, I immediately told him to get cleaned up and lock himself back in. Also, I haven’t yet told him how long he will be locked this time. So here goes for another hopeful horny session when I decide!:D Cheers all!

Well, just putting a little extra on!:D. I was very excited to reach day 7; I am feeling and still feel really good—better than expected. I can’t wait to see how far I can go. Used to think people going a month or longer were crazy, but now it’s a huge turn-on and goal for me to see how I’ll feel. Been working on cleaning which was an issue before; I think I’ve got a decent method down now, which is important after a run. I have to say, having an **orgasm** after being locked up so long, and seeing just how turned-on my amazing stud KH is made it even better—it brought out new record feelings for me. I can’t wait to see how long he has planned!:D Well, I’ll have to won't I? We even had a chat and worked over an issue we’d had before: he didn’t feel right cumming when I was locked up, but I showed him my view—how I didn’t want him to suffer—and that his cumming would make me extremely happy and turned on while locked.:mrgreen: All in all, it was an amazing lock-up! Can't wait to see if I can go longer; it is at the will of my stud KH Jaysf.

Wow! Big development today everyone:mrgreen: Jaysf has actually given me orders (plural!) for today and I am very excited. During the conversation, it made him hard twice;) . Order number one: Turn off the computer and have no internet access after 7 pm. This is a big deal to me since most of my life away from him happens online! The penalty is one week without any sexual interaction at all—no toys, no chat, and no videos. This is significant because I love watching him tend to himself. Order number two was different: I’ve been on a diet/exercise run dropping about 10 pounds since returning. He instructed me as follows: "You are to either just relax this evening, watch TV or read a book, have a proper meal, take some sexy pics for me before bed, then go to an early night so that you are bright-eyed and bushy-tailed tomorrow." This is tough because I spend almost all nights online, eat healthy but 'incomplete' meals, and rarely truly relax. The punishment for failing this task is a reduction of one hour from my internet allowance going forward, decided daily by my KH. I have to say it was extremely hot being given orders! Knowing the penalty for the first order is quite severe to me, as well as facing the second problem. We are also discussing sizing me for a trial on a metal device before considering getting one custom-made:D. I am just happy all around today! Cheers!

Well, as per the post above, here is the follow-up.:D After his orders last night, the first thing I did today was request a pic of his CB (timed and dated) to see how his orders went. To my satisfaction: he never used the internet at all last night! He actually had a relaxing evening, ate a meal, and got an early night. So his reward for today is one extra hour on the internet. He will get some more tonight that he must follow through; otherwise, he knows the repercussions. Tomorrow will be a much better reward, but I am not going to tell him what it is yet. If he fails, his internet will be slashed by two hours plus whatever else I see fit for his misdemeanors. More to follow tomorrow!:D

Well again, another daily update!:D Johndoelock was set a couple of orders last night while locked in his CB. As a reward for completing the previous ones correctly, he had been awarded an extra hour of internet usage time. He was given two tasks last night and had to fulfill both to pass. He passed them both! However, because he broke one of the fundamental rules (rule number 4), he has been penalized: that extra hour of internet usage has been removed. I know this was an unintended slip as he didn’t realize he was breaking a rule, but rules are rules—you only learn from mistakes. Again tonight, he will be set more tasks and hopefully abides by the rules (if unsure, just read them!:P). However, as a reward for passing the tasks—even with his slip-up on a rule since it was his first offense—I may give him a treat tonight. I have advised him to take a SHOWER—and he knows what that means. More to follow tomorrow! See ya all!:D

Hi everyone, Johndoelock’s second night of tasks went quite well. I gave him several challenges, which he completed correctly without breaking any rules this time around—a good thing because it reminds him that rule-breaking has consequences:D. Since he finished his tasks fully, he earned an extra 2 hours of internet time. He also received a special reward while locked up: we had a lovely little cam-to-cam show:D. Just to clarify for everyone, the internet sessions must not contain anything sexual and definitely no porn. However, he is allowed to read his comics (even if some have a mildly sexual side), as long as they don’t sexually arouse him! I need to decide on tonight’s tasks; I might make them slightly harder since I’ve been a bit lenient with him so far. It may be time to turn up the heat and see how he copes:D. More updates tomorrow, bye for now!:D

Hey Everyone, Apologies for the lack of posts over the last few days; other things took precedence. But here are some more updates. Since my last post, Johndoelock has been completing tasks efficiently and easily. I’ve asked him to provide specific items: pictures set up in a particular way, a story containing certain elements I established before our evening chat, plus other minor details. Since he’s handling these with ease, I think I may need to introduce more difficult ones soon, but my mind is drawing a blank:( Can anyone suggest tasks you give your CB wearer? Any ideas would be welcome!:D Yesterday’s tasks included completing a chapter of his story (no less than 1000 words), which he did very easily:D. He also stopped using the internet at 9 pm, another success. This makes me happy because he used to stay up much later; now he goes to bed reasonably early, setting him up for the next day. He can tackle his gym routine with more vigor and is running longer distances due to building up energy from better sleep. He’s being such a GOOD boy:P, which puts a smile on my face. Yesterday marked his 8th day locked up. For my pleasure, he removed the CB for me (he certainly delivered—I’ve never seen so much come out of him or shoot as far). He is now back in the lockup; I’ll decide how long based on when it suits me. Knowing he’s secured makes me smile (I walk around waving the key). More tasks will follow this evening, though I have a whole day to think about them. Have a good day everyone!:D

Hey everyone, Not much to report today besides Johndoelock remaining locked up and completing his tasks like a GOOD boy should. He was rewarded with an extra hour of internet last night, though I’ll have to decide on tonight’s arrangements later. Also, if anyone has good ideas for long-distance teasing, please share them! Cheers

hey guys, Unfortunately, we had to remove the CB due to some discomfort and pain:( Despite maintaining cleanliness, his penile skin has become cracked and sore. Can anyone offer suggestions to prevent this? Other than that, he’s been a very GOOD boy. Before discovering these issues, he was obeying all his rules well enough to be allowed out for playtime, which he enjoyed:D. Even though he is now released for a period of time to heal, he must continue to obey the rules as if he were still locked up. I trust him to do this!:D I’ll post more when I can. Any suggestions on the above would be greatly appreciated, especially from anyone else who has had the same problem and how they dealt with it!:D

Jaysf and johndoelock have left the building as they split up due to johndoelock's infatuations with a couple of guys he met recently. He decided to shack up with them in some sort of sordid relationship. Sad days:(