Finding erections less frequent?

Since the device arrived earlier this week, I’ve been wearing our new cb-6000s almost constantly. It’s been six days without an orgasm. During that time—and even a little before it while we were still using the honor system—I’ve noticed something odd: although my mind feels quite aroused, actual erections and attempts at them are rare inside the device.

Has anyone else dealt with this? I’ve stayed disciplined regardless of whether I’m in or out, so there hasn’t been much penile stimulation. It’s almost as if “he” understands the situation…if his wife isn’t actively touching him, he realizes it’s pointless (at least he has that self-awareness). As a newcomer to this lifestyle, these details are making me nervous; I worry that not using it enough might reduce its responsiveness or similar issues. One more thing: there hasn’t been much teasing so far. The only real playtime happened last night when my wife let me help her reach an oral orgasm while she kept me locked.

I appreciate your insights. Dan

Don't stress too much about it. I go through a similar phase after being locked for several days. Think of it this way: if you slept in a bunk with very low ceilings and kept bumping your head every time you rose, eventually you’d learn to sit up more slowly. The body adapts similarly over time. Each time the penis tries to rise against the tube's resistance, it meets that barrier. After enough repetitions, it gets the message. It might also be influenced by age a bit (I’m in my late fifties), but I'm not entirely sure.

I feel exactly the same. It seems like he just knows when permission is granted to swell up and when it isn't. It’s actually quite lucky because sleeping becomes much easier this way.

I only get hard if Melissa and I are physically together. We’ve also observed that when they do happen now, the rigidity is greater than ever before!

My balls agree completely.

Thanks everyone, that puts my mind at ease. I’ll just assume "her cock" understands the rules of engagement now!

During those first few months in a tube, I was getting hard almost constantly—sometimes as fully rigid as possible. It had its charm; I could get stiff during the most awkward moments and nobody would even notice:) Now, however, my experience matches yours closely: erections are rare, mostly happening at night just before sleep or upon waking. Recently, while performing oral sex on my wife, I didn’t actually swell up until near the very end. Even then, inside the cage, it was barely noticeable unless you reached down to check physically (though visually it looked obvious). It didn't ruin the pleasure for me; it simply wasn't central to the experience. -A

I've always felt this way too. He knows he can't do much while locked up, so he conserves his energy!

It’s very similar for me as well. Even when I’m out showering or shaving, it stays soft and relaxed. However, being with my wife definitely triggers more rigidity than usual, especially after a long period of confinement. In fact, she mentioned the other day that she prefers having sex while I'm still locked up precisely because my hardness peaks right after she removes the cage.

> member_4a6f85f8a1 wrote: > However, being with my wife definitely triggers more rigidity than usual, especially after a long period of confinement. That is absolutely true!