What is a full release like following a few weeks in chastity?
I'm 26 years old with a KH of 29, and we're just starting out. I've finally shaken off the issues from that overpriced jailbird model; my skin has healed up…
I’m 26 years old with a KH of 29, and we’re just starting out. I’ve finally shaken off the issues from that overpriced jailbird model; my skin has healed up after all the chafing, so now I can wear my very comfortable CB6K for extended periods without trouble. I want to know: once you’ve been in chastity for a few weeks (perhaps 2 or 3 on this first attempt), what is the sensation of a full release that isn’t ruined? Is it amazing? To put it in perspective, I think my all-time longest stretch has been about a week and a half.
It can be incredibly satisfying. On the other hand, it might disappoint you if your expectations are too lofty; watch out for setting them unrealistically high. I've heard that many people find their second experience better than the first one, so keep that in mind when planning your release. For us, we don't do multiple releases—it's just a single one (or sometimes none) before going right back into the cage. We both really like it that way.
When I orgasm a few weeks in, especially if I've been locked up for some time, it doesn't feel particularly remarkable. It’s not unpleasant; it mostly feels like pressure being relieved. Often, I get flooded with happiness and sometimes even laugh uncontrollably just because of how good that feeling makes me. For context, compare this to a quickie where the orgasm happens fast. That is hard, rapid, and incredibly pleasurable and satisfying—this is my benchmark. Personally, one reason I either skip orgasming or ruin them entirely is that while I still want some level of release, I don't always need the shift in brain chemistry. The feeling just isn't quite strong enough to justify it on its own, whereas sex provides more than enough satisfaction.
If you're aiming for a bigger payoff, try edging yourself (or letting your partner edge you) for an extended time before finally allowing that orgasm.
It also depends on how you achieve that orgasm. Whether it’s through hand stimulation, mouth, vaginal intercourse, anal play, or using a jacking toy, each method will feel distinct from the others. Approach it without any preconceived notions and you might be pleasantly surprised.