When Will He Be Allowed to Release Next?

What is preferable? A wife announcing exactly when her husband’s next release will be permitted, regardless of how far off it might seem, or letting him stay in suspense so he never quite knows if a teasing session ends with relief this time?

Which approach meets the needs of both sides? There are too many factors to declare one method superior. In my case, I have a 'not before' deadline that shifts occasionally (by mutual agreement) as we near it. -A

We simply don't talk about it much, so I suppose being kept in uncertainty fits us. I doubt I'd be content watching a calendar for a specific date. This way, release could happen any moment or not at all.

Whenever I decide! Honestly, fixed dates don't appeal to me. It hasn't worked well for us. We've tried a 'not before X date' rule which works fine, as does just releasing when the mood takes me.

Go Belle! My wife agrees with you on this point. So do I.

We have set a specific day for my next release, which is new for us. It coincides with our wedding anniversary in about eleven and a half months. After that, she says it won't happen more than once annually, and that's the only rule I know. So very few orgasms for me from now on in life. It works well for us, though everyone has different preferences.

My wife rarely uses fixed dates at all, and I love not knowing when she'll permit an orgasm...although she does give subtle hints as we get closer.

Initially, we chose specific dates - nothing rigid, more like 'around three weeks' or 'approximately two months.' Later on, we found it more thrilling for both of us if she held full authority and didn't tell me in advance.

Hi. Unless I am locked up for a predetermined period (which isn't very common these days), Sally unlocks me whenever she desires my attention. I admit this happens regularly and it's no issue for me. What bothers me is self-pleasure, which was the main reason I chose to wear a chastity device in the first place. I know Sally likes using her tongue on me, and I enjoy that too, but the device brings terrible frustration (which she finds amusing). bez