Staying Without Sex
Hi there, I've kept myself celibate for nearly fourteen years now. I've managed to keep my sexual thoughts and cravings toward women at a very low level.…
Hi there,
I’ve kept myself celibate for nearly fourteen years now. I’ve managed to keep my sexual thoughts and cravings toward women at a very low level.
Recently, while looking into Spiritual Discipline—having attended courses in that area and possessing an unquestionable faith in God—I read some articles on Male Training via dreamlover which really threw things off balance.
Everything seems turned upside down; my mind is going haywire. The idea of being chastised with a device and serving a woman has been weighing heavily on me. I haven’t masturbated for about a year, though I’ve also been single during that time. Now, I’ve decided to give dating another shot and have already approached a lady I know.
Has anyone else experienced this? Or is it a deeper issue I should bring up with my mental health provider?
Reflecting on the last few weeks, I realize I’ve been dominated by women since childhood. I’ve spent ages rereading all the articles here over and over again. Surely this must be what I truly want?
It’s confusing.
Just a quick question: are you certain you posted this in the correct forum group?
You really should talk this over with your Care Provider.
> member_381064b05f wrote: > Are you sure that you're posting this question in the right group? That depends... > malechastity214 wrote: > The thought of being chastised with a device and serving a woman...Has anybody else had this problem... He seems to be seeking reassurance rather than just an answer, since most of us here don't view it as a 'problem'. If he wants confirmation that things are 'OK', he's in the right spot. He admits to feeling confused, and his somewhat broken sentence structure supports that.
After being locked up for a couple of weeks without any teasing or other stimuli, I start to wonder if my KH/Spouse has confused Chastity with Celibacy.:roll:
> member_7f5b971d37 wrote: > After I have been locked up for a couple of weeks without any teasing or anything, I start to think my KH/Spouse has mistaken Chastity for Celibacy.:roll: There is an important distinction; celibacy is actually the normal state for the average married man.