I Just Got My Penile Anchor Piercing

Chatelaine gave me permission to have this procedure done this afternoon and I was finished in under two hours. I explained exactly why I wanted it to my piercer, asking him to prioritize strength over sensitivity. It felt a bit strange since this was the first time I’d discussed my fetish with anyone other than Chatelaine face-to-face, but it seemed like the right approach. The penis looked smaller than usual in his hands. After cleaning it well, he inserted a tube into the urethra and pushed the needle through at the correct spot. There was a flash of pain, a bit of blood, and within ten seconds the ring was secured. The next ten minutes were spent on aftercare instructions before I headed out. Now facing three weeks without penile activity. Ordering the PA fix to go with the Steelheart means that pulling it out will soon become nearly impossible.:D

That is pretty cool. I am still waiting for 'approval' from my wife; it might be a long wait though. Keep us posted on how the aftercare goes.

poor soul, I salute you. Reading your post made me feel squeamish:oops:

You're a stronger man than I am, 'Gunga Din'. I have no piercings myself, but I have quite a few tattoos....so I've seen the process. I remember watching a woman with what were probably the most beautiful nipples ever get them pierced...I nearly fainted.

What struck me most was how 'ordinary' this seemed to the staff. I chose an established place with a good reputation according to younger co-workers who already have piercings. It felt friendly and professional, costing about half what I expected (under £50). The worst part was navigating the city traffic during commuting hours and Christmas shopping. Turns out I'm prone to bleeding (apparently this is common or not) so the first few trips to the toilet were quite colorful. My first pee had a bit of sting, but the rest felt normal. No discomfort waking up with an erection just now, though the tip feels cold & wet as it has receded. The aftercare routine includes: a) keep hands off it b) daily mild salt bath in a cup c) keep it clean but avoid sanitizer/deodorant products as they can hinder healing. The piercer says there is practically zero risk of infection and these steps help the process. If I decide to get a fatter ring (this one is about 10ga or 2mm), I'll likely need to wait a couple of months.

For the first few days after the piercing was done, there were drops of blood each time I urinated or moved the ring/glans. Then came some localized bruising & swelling around the holes which was slightly sore (much like healing a cut). The piercer said to expect seeing some pus as it's part of the healing process. I was a bit concerned initially but it hasn't been worth mentioning because thus far there has only been a minuscule amount. It is all going well and the challenge will be leaving it alone since it feels ready-to-go already. I am amazed to have an anchor point that already acts like a lightning rod for the most sensitive square inch of my body. Best of all, Chatelaine said she likes how it has made her penis look.

I'm now nearing the end of the healing phase and there hasn't been much to report. If I get particularly dehydrated it stings slightly whilst pissing; also, learning not to spray while standing has been a curve that I mostly manage these days. Given that this will lead into the PA fixing for the Steelheart when it arrives, do I need to push on to a fatter ring to reduce stress on the tissue under pressure? I don't see it migrating but would hate it to 'cheesewire' out.

When I got mine done, I was told to wait six weeks before trying upsizing the gauge. I took it slow and worked my way from the original 10 gage up to the size 4 I wear now over the course of a year; I was advised not to rush increasing the size too quickly. It took me that full year but I had no problems and am quite satisfied with the result. I would also like to switch to a steel device but haven't had much luck with trapped ball setups. One quick tip on pissing: try turning your glans so the ring exits from the top. That was the best method for me.

I have had my PA for over 15 years and can now wear a very heavy 12mm thick ring. I suppose that will need to be reduced once the Steelheart is fitted.

Upsized to a 3mm ring today. Flash of sharp pain as it went in, burned for a few minutes and then no unusual sensation. This new ring needed pliers to close and I'm much happier with its security. There is little 'aftercare' required now but the piercer said it might be uncomfortable for a couple of days.

I like the idea of a PA. I have keyholder permission and don't fear the pain, but the pros/cons haven't quite added up for me to permanently mar my penis yet. I worry about lifelong urination issues or the potential costs of my keyholder's dental fixes due to it, though I have always desired that weight dangling there. It doesn't seem to make much difference in stimulation during sex.

Keep us updated; still working on convincing jaysf about getting one. He says he doesn't like the look and has seen too many gone bad, so we've been trying to compromise with a frenum piercing.

The guy that pierced me said that PAs are one of the piercings they don't expect difficulties with once it's done. "They almost look after themselves." My longest lock-up since having it was 10 days in the Steelheart; there were no issues and it came out of the tube looking exactly as it went in. It was actually an improvement on the overall experience because I hardly had any 'foreskin nip' at the pee-hole this time. The next step is to get the PA loop done (and a slimmer tube while we are in the shop).

well try saying that to the KH without getting sent into lock up haha, but seriously thanks for the info will carry it on.

I had one done about a year ago and haven't had any issues. I was afraid of all the same things but did it anyway. I would recommend it to anyone interested. The pain was nothing at all. The worst part was seeing the blood; that was weird but stopped soon after. I was really bummed about the peeing situation initially, but after a year I've learned enough tricks that I pee just as before. It takes a little more concentration, but I can do it in all ways and just as quickly. I'm at an 8g now and plan to stop there eventually (currently aiming for 6g). I take the ring out for weeks (have had it for 13 months) and put a temporary 10g in for a day before going back to the 8g. While it is out, everything feels exactly as it was before. There is a small hole that starts forming; when I pee there might be a little drop of urine but rarely does it even drip once. After a day or two nothing comes through unless I want it too while peeing. I would recommend waiting about 6 months before using it for CD security, though. The only time I've had pain was trying to use a pa5000 too soon. Thought it was going to hurt like crazy but what really happened was this: my penis got smaller than ever; I looked away, felt the guy cleaning and prepping, felt him put the receiving tube up my urethra, and then was told I was done! I couldn't even tell you exactly when he pierced. Being scared and shriveled up in front of another man was the most uncomfortable part. Second worst was inserting the receiving tube. My wife still mentions that she's never seen it smaller than when I got the PA.

Hello all! I tried posting some questions on a new thread about getting a PA, but it seems it didn't make it through the spam process......new member here. Soooo.......I've been interested in chastity for many years and my recently wed wife is very keen on keeping me locked up. I've tried several units over the years, including the CB 2 or 3000, the curve (I had to upgrade from the CB because I'm a tad bit larger than average there; even flaccid it's quite a tight fit), a Birdlocked, a spiral metal unit from Lori's site, an Exobelt Extreme and there's one more I think I remember but can't recall the name. I even had a frenum piercing done to lock the spiral metal tube from Ms Lori onto, but that grew out when I tried getting a larger gauge put in to stretch the hole somewhat. Trapped ball devices just don't seem to work for me. I work as a chef and am very active during the day; I need a good level of comfort even though I realize chastity shouldn't be solely about my comfort, but hey...there is the practical side too? Anyway, it seems I've come to the conclusion (as has my wife) that really the only relatively comfortable long-term way for me is getting a PA and having some type of tube, whether standalone or attached to a ring at the base. Nothing else has worked. My question is/are......has anyone else gotten a PA because nothing else seemed viable? Is it truly a no-nonsense solution for long term chastity? I like these other devices and know that's partly due to the feeling of being locked up (having that weight), but have any of you who got a PA had issues with locking devices on top? I'm not so worried about the piercing itself...I've read much and am not concerned about pain or healing, but I would like assurance that in the end it really is the way to go. Thanks guys

> member_3803201029 wrote: tried posting some questions on a new thread about getting a PA, but it seems it didn't make it through the spam process......new member here. Sorry 'bout that dude..

not a problem! I understand it's a necessary evil to keep the spammers out.....

Earlier this week I upsized again to a 4mm (19mm diameter) ring. More protracted pain during fitting (maybe 5 seconds) and for the next couple of days the glans felt like it did after a weekend fuckfest. My piercer says that from now on the upsizes will be less 'uncomfortable' due to the weight of the ring doing the stretching. Chatelaine just keeps commenting that 'It's massive' & 'You're not putting that in me now' (Still haven't since getting it done back in December). I think it is starting to look good but will see if we can get to 6mm.

Just got upsized to a 5mm thick ring but took the opportunity to reduce it to a smaller diameter (16mm instead of the 19mm I've been wearing). Also discussed with my piercer the options for a closed ring when I settle on 6mm. I was a bit tighter than he expected given the time span, but since my cock has had no PIV and very little masturbation (maybe 5 mins) since the last upsize, that's to be expected. No real problem, just hurt a bit on the way in.

Nice, thanks for the update. Still on my wish list. What is a "closed ring"?

One without a captive ball to hold it shut. Options appear to be a 'smooth segment' or 'tribal' closure. I might just upsize with a CBR but am also exploring other options. (Still haven't ordered the PA loop yet!)

1st mishap to date. The ball on the CBR came off when I urinated before bed and I put it back in intending to crimp the ring with pliers in the morning. I woke later in the night to find that the whole ring had popped out. I managed to put the ring back in (ouch!) and wrapped elastic bands around the ends. This morning I tried to crimp it all up but overdid it and couldn't locate the ball so bit the bullet & drove 30 mins to the piercing shop. The piercer was mystified but says it may have been that the ball from the old ring ended up being used in the new one. Either way, after 5 minutes of fettling with his HUGE pliers, it is on good and tight.

As time passes, I have to admit I've become more intrigued with thoughts of getting a PA. Like some here, my wife/keyholder is firmly opposed. Maybe someday...

"Oh no! Not me! My junk already has the right number of holes; I don't need any more. I've had plenty of unwanted holes punched in my body, and I absolutely do NOT want to *deliberately* add even one more.:o

> member_1f353e1d87 wrote: "Oh no! Not me! My junk already has the right number of holes; I don't need any more. I've had plenty of unwanted holes punched in my body, and I absolutely do NOT want to *deliberately* add even one more.:o I find the idea appealing: being trapped by the device, wearing that PA as a visible mark of my wife's authority over me.

I fashioned a PA loop from some craft wire. It’s been working great for the last 20 hours—no pinches yet, and my PA is only tender after some 'test' tugs. A nice bonus: the 'foreskin nip' through the Steelheart pee-hole should be history now that the PA loop holds the glans about 1cm from the tube's end. Mentally, it feels like a huge improvement; I’m locked *to* the device itself, not just in it. The cock is held firmly in place with roughly 15mm of latitude before movement turns into discomfort or pain. Very happy!:D

> member_1f353e1d87 wrote: "Oh no! Not me! My junk already has the right number of holes; I don't need any more. I've had plenty of unwanted holes punched in my body, and I absolutely do NOT want to *deliberately* add even one more.:o :lol: While chatting with a shooting friend about how accurate .22 rimfire rounds are over distance, he dropped this great line that seems somewhat relevant here.... " Any hole in your body you ain't born with is a fucking big problem...." PMSL Obviously we were discussing bullet holes.... but TM's comment on the correct number of holes took me right back to that conversation...!!:lol: CQ has confirmed I’ll get pierced, though she hasn’t picked what yet. Her main rule is "it must benefit my orgasm and well-being; it’s not about you." Fair enough....:geek:

> member_6a2b8da741 wrote: >:lol: While chatting with a shooting friend about how accurate .22 rimfire rounds are over distance, he dropped this great line that seems somewhat relevant here.... Didn’t they remove most civilian guns in the UK? Or do people keep them at clubs? I’m an avid shooter myself... mostly handguns.

> member_f74d45782a wrote: > > member_6a2b8da741 wrote: >:lol: While chatting with a shooting friend about how accurate .22 rimfire rounds are over distance, he dropped this great line that seems somewhat relevant here.... > Didn’t they remove most civilian guns in the UK? Or do people keep them at clubs? I’m an avid shooter myself... mostly handguns. To avoid hijacking the thread..... In the UK you can own any rifle provided you justify its use and need, so a 50 cal Barrett is quite hard to defend!! But .17HMR or .22 rimfires are very easy to get. Larger calibre centre-fires work well for big deer etc., though rules on storage and ammo quantity are strict. No handguns unless stored at clubs (I don’t use them).

An unexpected chance to upsize came today and I took it. Looking back, maybe only a month between upsizes was too soon (especially since there’s been no stroking or sex to stretch the piercing). It fit tightly and is the most painful so far since the PA went in. I’ve ordered a 6mm 'tribal' ring (15mm diameter surgical SS) held by an internal screw. I feel this will be more secure during use than a captive ball type, which might get knocked loose by the pressure of the PA loop against the penis.

My poor self; I’ve also struggled with captive ball rings. Aside from the risk of the ball coming off, mine likes to rotate until both the ball and the ring edge irritate the piercing. I switched to using a smooth segment ring instead. No ball to pop out or cause irritation currently at 4mm). Example: ... ing-s.html

I figured the extra mechanical security of the screw would prevent any ring failure. We'll see.