The Pain Is Gone Now

All of us in devices know what it’s like to be woken up in the middle of the night feeling like your balls are being pulled off. A little lube, going to the bathroom, and walking around a bit usually makes things better. I just assumed that was the way it would always be. However, lately I’ve noticed that those middle of the night erections no longer hurt. I also wake up less from them too. I think I am sleeping through more of them, but even when I wake up it doesn’t hurt. It’s more like it’s just there, and I roll over and fall back asleep. I’m wondering if this is because my balls really have stretched a bit, or is it just that I’m used to it now? Any of you guys experience this? Michael

My balls are high and tight and it was terrible in the beginning when I got the morning wood there was no way that I could ignore it as was said it felt like someone was pulling my sack off. Things improved greatly with time and now that I am in the device nearly full time it is not much of a problem any more. The thing that I do have to do is get up to pee to ease erections sometimes more than once. I was never able to get accustomed to the plastic devices but I do find the metal devices easier to handle. I think the plastic devices just squeezed my balls to tightly but in the jailbird it feels like your balls are secured without putting as much pressure on them.

> member_05cddc2364 wrote: > However, lately I've noticed that those middle of the night erections no longer hurt. I also wake up less from them too. I think I am sleeping through more of them, but even when I wake up it doesn't hurt. It's more like it's just there, and I roll over and fall back asleep. This is exactly what I started experiencing about a month ago. Sometimes when I wake up I have to actually feel down there to know if I have an erection or not. Strangely it has actually become an enjoyable experience. -A

It's funny, I was thinking about blogging on this very subject. I find that whenever I switch devices that it takes a week or so for me to adjust to the new sensations so that I can sleep though the night. Like Atone, there are times when I hardly feel the device I'm wearing even though at an earlier date it would have been very noticeable. I think part of this can be attributed to physical adjustments (i.e., stretched scrotum) but I think a larger part is mental. Your brain starts to understand the feels are normal and stops making such a big deal out of them.

Oh, and yeah, the feelings that used to be uncomfortable become pleasurable. When I'm not locked, I miss the feeling of constraint and the free erection becomes just as distracting as the locked one once was.

> Atone wrote: Sometimes when I wake up I have to actually feel down there to know if I have an erection or not. Strangely it has actually become an enjoyable experience. > -A Is the ejoyable experience the not knowing about the erection or the feel?:lol:

I go thru an adjustment period each time I'm locked up. Usually by day 3 or 4, I'm totally used to the device and get no discomfort. I even enjoy feeling it trying to erect in the device. Guess that's why I am somewhat disappointed when my spouse says it's time to unlock for a while, especially when my spouse says, no cumming for you.

> member_7f5b971d37 wrote: I even enjoy feeling it trying to erect in the device. I can relate. -A

> member_75c78a1ec7 wrote: > Is the ejoyable experience the not knowing about the erection or the feel?:lol: both actually but I was referring to the feel. -A

Atone, I've stated before but, I get a mental satisfaction from stroking my device. LRC tell's me it doesn't bother her and she actually likes it.

> member_75c78a1ec7 wrote:Atone, I've stated before but, I get a mental satisfaction from stroking my device. I don't think I have ever stroked it but I do just hold it sometimes, and yes, it gives a strange mental satisfaction. -A

> member_7f5b971d37 wrote:I go thru an adjustment period each time I'm locked up. Usually by day 3 or 4, I'm totally used to the device and get no discomfort. I even enjoy feeling it trying to erect in the device. Yeah, same here. I'm now at the point where the 4 am erections are *comforting*. Go figure, huh?

I'm not locked 24/7 nearly as much as many here. That said, the strange thing is when I am lock overnight, as I was on Sunday night, I don't get overly painful erections. I do tend to wake, and they can be a bit uncomfortable. But I can only recall one that I would classify as truly painful. As long as I use a bit of lotion on the bottom of the ring, I seem to be okay. It may be partly due to the fact that my wife doen't leave me locked overnight all that often, so my balls get to hang free most nights, allowing them to recoup from any "wear and tear" from the day's lock-up. I'm thankful I don't get the real pain I've often read about here:D

To me, the biggest nuisance of those erections are the ring slipping. When I get up about 4 in the morning to use the bathroom, I have to also pull the scrotum back through so the ring is back in position close to the body. Does this also happen with metal devices?

> member_4a6f85f8a1 wrote:Does this also happen with metal devices? Yes, sometimes. The odd thing is that nocturnal erections used to tug at my balls a bit. Not as much as when I was in the CB-3000 or even the bigger jailbird but still some. Recently, over the last month or so, that has almost completely stopped. I will wake up with a nocturnal erection and my balls are still loose. I have no idea why but I really like it. -A

Atone, The same thing here. No more pulling on the balls. I like it much better. Michael

I think my skin in the area of the base ring has toughened up to the point no lubricant is required and the ring pretty much stays in place. Using a good quality Aveeno moisturizing lotion inside the cage after showering in the morning and at bedtime allows my cock to expand to the end of the CB 6000s which minimizes pulling the device away from my body. Guess I have finally "weathered" into this device. Time to look for the next one. After all, my birthday is just around the corner!!

That's good to hear. I'll be looking forward to that little perk when I go metal on Father's Day. I do not usually wake up during nocturnal erections while caged. Last night, though, I was unlocked and awakened by the fact that I was erect and unlocked. Go figure.

prthomas, Sounds like someone had an orgasm last night;)

> member_f74d45782a wrote:prthomas, > Sounds like someone had an orgasm last night;) Nope. I wish! It's just that I have gotten so used to the cage that I do not wake up with nocturnal erections anymore. However, last night, since I was allowed to be unlocked (only for the night) I woke up with my 4 AM erection. Kind of a nuisance, really, since it wasn't going to get any action.

> member_4a6f85f8a1 wrote:However, last night, since I was allowed to be unlocked (only for the night) I woke up with my 4 AM erection. Kind of a nuisance, really, since it wasn't going to get any action. The 4 AM erection is a problem for me unlocked. Usually, I just lay in bed and rub it, sometimes for hours. But, I have to fight the desire to quietly get up and go to the bathroom for some unauthorized hand-i-work. That's why we are dealing with the issue of when to lock back up after a full blown orgasm. I actually think I get a better night's rest in the device, except when my spouse wants me to spoon her. I think she likes to do that because I have told her it throbs for her in the device and that gives her some satisfaction (my words, not hers).

I woke this morning about 430 with a terrible tugging on my testicals. Only about the Third time Iv'e slept in the device. I wasn't erect per say but maybe semi. It burnt like fire! Walked around a bit, lurked through the forum here and in about 20 min, the pain was gone. Went back to bed and slept fine until about 45 min ago. I am wearing a CB-6000S. Yesterday the MRS. and I took a nap and when we woke she spent a few min teasing and tugging at my cage, I really enjoyed the erection, no pain at all really except some minor tugging. How long has it taken most of you to get to the point of no pain through the night? I know it vary's for everyone, but I was just curios as to the "average"? Thank you in advance.

> member_2d386caa3a wrote:How long has it taken most of you to get to the point of no pain through the night? I know it vary's for everyone, but I was just curios as to the "average"? Thank you in advance. Everyone is different but for me, never got through the night w/o at least a little pain when wearing the CB6000s. Now that I have been wearing the properly sized MM Watchful mistress I sleep right through the night.

Thanks you for the reply Locked4her55 I am currently locked in a CB600S. Naps seems to work out good for me, but we will see tonight. I am feeling way more comfortable then I have been the last few days!

With the CB3000 it takes a week or three to adjust. Until then, I might wake up about every 1.5 hours or so. Then it's just the last one that wakes me up- not so much 'tugging', just uncomfortable pressure that is enough to rouse me. My CB3k uses the old-style thick, hinged ring that has been modified/repaired using JB Weld so that it is even thicker on the bottom half. I *think* that the extra thickness helps distribute the pressure better. I no longer use any type of lube on the ring itself, and it fits tightly enough it doesn't really 'slide' much so it isn't trying to rip my nuts off.

It honestly took me about 2 weeks. I finally found a ring size and spacer that worked really well. Sleeping was no longer a problem even with an erection. No lube. Thanks for the info! I appreciate it. Looka like I'm going to have to start over with another device since mine is broken:/

I love stroking my cage. I have an extreme shoe fetish (hence the name) and what I do is I put my balls and cage inside a pair of platform shoes with laces and a thick 6 inch chunky heel shoe and I tie the shoe around my balls and cage really tight. Then I hold the heel up like it's my erect penis and I stroke that. If I shake it vigorously some times it will feel really good. Almost to the point of orgasm but I've never been able to complete.... Yet

I had the same issue, especially with the 48mm ring; I even started getting kidney pain, so it was just short-term wear for about three days max before switching back to the 50mm. I've been in my chastity device now for almost 100 days as of December 23rd, and sleeping has become much easier since I began lying on my stomach, which improves blood flow and lets my balls hang over the cage. I used to be a CB pumper with saline before entering this phase of life, so stretching helps. Using a ball stretcher can assist by pulling the skin effectively, and applying a good cream or oil also makes a big difference. gregstep427 Austraila