Anyone wearing a chastity device while keeping it hidden from their partner?

Greetings everyone, As a newcomer here, I’m curious: has anyone worn a chastity device while keeping it secret from their partner?

> member_c007a0864e wrote: > Greetings everyone, > As a newcomer here, I’m curious: has anyone worn a chastity device while keeping it secret from their partner? Have you checked the forum archives? You’ll likely find around a hundred threads on this topic. The brief answer is yes; it’s quite common.

I’d be happy to add my two cents here. If you are doing this: How? Where? When? Why?

How? My fiancée and I haven't moved in together yet. Where? I wear it at home or when out if I know I won’t run into her. When? Five days a week. Why? Because I don’t want to grant permission for my cock.

Do you feel she might not accept this? I’d suggest that the longer you keep something hidden, the more difficult it becomes to reveal later. Apologies if that sounded like a play on words; sometimes life is just funny.

I think it's easy to forget some of the fears that knowing you have a kink can bring to an otherwise ordinary life. There are plenty of men who know that the idea of not being allowed to pleasure themselves or to be sexually controlled by another excites them immensely but will never act on that fantasy themselves, much less tell a person whose love & respect they wish to preserve. Buying a device is often as far as many men go. It actualises the fantasy, provides an object to fixate on and ironically masturbate about. This is all many will need and presents no complications to the rest of their life. It's just a harmless little kink and its hurting nobody. Some men will never need any more than this. There are different levels of participation in all activities and in all honesty (snobbery aside) their way is no more or less valid than anyone else's.

I would find this extremely hard to do... unless you're pretty much never intimate then it's going to become aparant that you're wearing a device sooner or later.

I was able to hide my home-built and my chastity from my wife for probably 18 months (at least I THINK I hid it from her). It was a real leap for me to "come out of the closet" and tell her about my fetish, then show her what I had made and how it fit. It was within two weeks of that timeframe that we ordered a JailBird from MM to accommodate my desire for a "real" device. Waiting for it currently. I read a lot of Sarah Jameson's *Male Chastity Blog *at Her sentiment that (paraphrasing): "You'll never get what you want unless you ask for it." really hit home for me and gave me the courage to talk to my wife about chastity. Not a plug for her site, and I've never bought anything from her, but she's got some good, practical advice that worked for me.

I do it too, though I'm not strictly going full-time. Just messing about a bit. (And reading all your stories for wank fodder. LOL) But I had a little scare on that first night... The device was on (CB6000) and the lock was OPEN - just to keep everything in place. As I was adjusting it/myself, I accidentally clicked the lock shut. For a split second I thought... CRAP! WHERE DID I PUT THE KEYS?! LOL. Yeah, I found them eventually, but I seriously freaked out for a moment there.

> member_98077f8609 wrote: > And I was adjusting it/myself and I accidentally clicked the lock shut. And for a split second I'm like... CRAP! WHERE DID I PUT THE KEYS?! > LOL. > Yeah I found them, but I seriously flipped for a secodn there. Maybe it's time to hand your key over to a KH and REALLY FLIP.:lol: