Just Starting Out

Alright… I believe I’ve managed to convince my wife to let me give male chastity a try. She doesn’t appear particularly thrilled or deeply curious, but she didn’t object. My plan is to measure up and buy a Queens Keep from Mature Metal — I actually placed the order for the sizing rings today!!

From our four years of standard marriage, what I’ve learned is that oral sex isn’t really her thing.. not at all; nothing at all; absolutely none in her view. “It does nothing for me and feels odd,” she says.

I realize this might be a long shot, but I’m curious if anyone else here shares or has shared this same predicament? Any tips or advice you can offer would be appreciated?

Cheers, Jeff

Yes indeed. I'm in a similar spot - I'd love to participate but honestly it's more about feeding my own ego since giving her something she doesn't enjoy isn't much of a gift really. Contrary to what many claim, not every woman needs this. I recommend beginning with a CBxxx device. Despite their minor drawbacks (honestly very little wrong with them), they let you get your sizing right before dropping significant money. Many people discover after several weeks that they are actually wearing a smaller back ring/spacer than when they began. With the CBxxx, adjusting this is easy and costs nothing extra. You can always opt for custom pieces later... (bracing myself for criticism).

> member_4e3795d05d wrote:I'd counsel starting with a CBxxx device. For all their faults (actually very little to criticise) it'll allow you to sort your sizing out before spending big bucks. Most find after a few weeks that they are wearing a smaller back ring/spacer than they started with. On the CBxxx this is no problem or extra cost to adjust. You can always go custom when it breaks...(awaits flack). I agree!

> member_4e3795d05d wrote:Yep. I have a similar situation - I'd love to be there but in truth it would be more about satisfying my own ego as giving her something she doesn't like is no gift at all. Despite what many will tell you it isn't what every woman needs. > I'd counsel starting with a CBxxx device. For all their faults (actually very little to criticise) it'll allow you to sort your sizing out before spending big bucks. Most find after a few weeks that they are wearing a smaller back ring/spacer than they started with. On the CBxxx this is no problem or extra cost to adjust. You can always go custom when it breaks...(awaits flack). I concur as well.