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Struggling with Device Fit Due to Size

I'm Jonathan from New York State. I've bought three different devices, but since my build is small—about an inch wide—they keep slipping off. Any tips on…

member_946be4c027 24 Aug 2026 #1

I’m Jonathan from New York State. I’ve bought three different devices, but since my build is small—about an inch wide—they keep slipping off. Any tips on finding a good fit would be greatly appreciated.

member_75c78a1ec7 25 Aug 2026 #2

Could you provide some more details? Which base ring size are you currently using? What kind of spacers do they have on them? is the entire device slipping off or just your penis? When we say one inch, is that referring to shaft length or diameter? Which specific devices did you try out?

member_fe4ea3b25f 28 Aug 2026 #3

I can't offer direct advice on which apparatus fits best. However, I have an awkward question that might help those who know the gear better assist you: Do you suffer from a medical condition known as inverted penis (or "buried penis")? When not aroused, your penis may shrink so much into the pubic fat pad that it looks like a button underneath. It's more common than people think and while usually harmless, it can be very frustrating for men dealing with it. It stems from various causes but is often just how some guys are naturally built. More details here: ... penis.html If this sounds like your situation, understanding what happens when you aren't aroused could help experts identify which device stays put regardless of whether you are erect or flaccid.

member_fe4ea3b25f 31 Aug 2026 #4

Jonathan8739, I hope my previous question didn't embarrass you; sorry if it did. I forgot to mention this in the last post: a female dominant friend of mine had a submissive who dealt with an inverted penis. She asked if anyone knew of a device that would stay put when he wasn't erect. One idea was using a jock strap over the device, while another suggested a "belt type" setup. I'm not sure if they actually tried the jock strap method or how well it worked since my knowledge of these devices is limited. However, people who know more about the available types might suggest one with a waist belt attachment. I've seen that style on an avatar here before, so perhaps someone knows where to find them and how they stay in place. Good luck finding something that works; it's frustrating when you want to please but your body gets in the way.

member_58a491481c 3 Sept 2026 #5

I'm not exactly a pro at chastity, nor am I totally new. Not sure if you can get pierced though. If so, getting a piercing might help, especially if the cock is just sliding out. With a lock running through the piercing, there's no way it pulls out. If your shaft length becomes too short with that setup, you might need a small chain or cable connecting the piercing to the lock. If piercings aren't an option for you, I don't have much advice since my own knowledge is limited.

member_fe4ea3b25f 5 Sept 2026 #6

I came across these recently and wondered if they might be suitable for your case: ... P2539.aspx ... -P334.aspx We have something similar, though we don't use it for chastity purposes. But I imagine it would work just fine for that too. ... -P336.aspx