trouble with sleep and the cage

Dear everyone, I need to keep my chastity belt on around the clock when I am not with my girlfriend. My penis is quite large and long, so it only fits the CB The Curve device; no other cage works for me.

We started by trying the largest ring size, but both my girlfriend (who holds the key) and myself felt that the biggest one was too loose. She thinks I could potentially escape from it, which seems correct to us. So we switched to a slightly smaller size with an intermediate spacer added in between. It fits perfectly now, though it feels completely secure.

The only issue has been significant pain over the last two mornings due to night erections waking me up. Tonight, we are going back to sleeping with the largest ring because the current one feels too tight when I have an erection underneath. Last night, I asked her to release me for a short time so I could calm down the erection after just a few minutes before putting myself back into the cage until this morning.

How do you all manage sleeping difficulties? I really need to find a solution because she is going on a business trip next week and will be away for ten days. This gives me two choices: either solve the pain issue or endure it, knowing that she won’t release me while gone and will take her key with her. I can hardly bear the thought of breaking the padlock myself to swap in a similar one before she returns; she has already signed her custom brass padlock to ensure I don’t cheat on her. On top of that, there is also a numbered plastic lock involved.

This is my first time undergoing chastity. She used to submit her previous boyfriends to this kind of torture, and most of them accepted it because they loved her as much as I do, so I have accepted too. How did you fix this problem? Also, how do you hide the curve shape under your pants? Thank you, P.S. She mentioned that my bird belongs to her, and when she isn’t using it directly, it must remain caged.

WOW! I hope you find a good solution so that I can learn from your experience. I am about to go into a cage with an anal attachment within the next day or two, and my flight is scheduled for Monday morning. My Lady says dealing with TSA security is entirely up to me, so I plan to take a picture of my setup as proof. Since we use numbered locks, I can bring some extra ones along; if needed, I will call her during screening and show the lock number on my phone screen. We agreed that I would have ten minutes after passing security to get the cage and probe back in place correctly without it looking like anyone has played with me or satisfied me. Like you, I am almost always erect. If something touches my friend inside the device, or if I dream about it during sleep, it can be tough forcing an erection back down into the Cage based on what others have said. Well, if the standard approach doesn't work for sleeping, what else can I do but handle the problem and face the consequences? I hope you post your solution before I leave! I am anxiously waiting for my package to arrive; it might come tomorrow.