Returning to round-the-clock locking

The 6000s is arriving this week and I’m feeling a little anxious. For years, we’ve mostly stuck to an honor system with one month of locking per cycle. However, due to some health complications, my partner and our kink time have decreased, leaving me on the verge of self-pleasuring and becoming too demanding regarding genital care from the women in the household. We agreed that returning to full-time chastity would best restore domestic harmony. It might seem mad to willingly reduce intimate attention to just once or twice a month, but it’s our collective choice, so here we go. I chose the 6000s because it has the sleekest profile for wearing under clothing. My natural curve works well during play sessions, though it can be too bulky if visitors drop by while I’m locked up. Being slightly over 7.5 inches when erect makes me worry about splitting the device, but I plan to switch back to the curved model or my old 2000 when sexual activity is near. The updated ring design feels neat and comfortable. It’s taken a few weeks for my testicles to adjust to this cage, with some minor irritation that seems manageable. Now we’ll see if it allows me to sleep comfortably, as discomfort during rest has been the main source of trouble.

I wear a 6000s and find sleeping in it quite okay. Actually, it serves as a useful alarm because the pressure of my small cock trying to get hard helps wake me up each morning! When I'm with my mistress, she doesn't make me keep it on at night since the padlock tends to scrape her - any ideas or suggestions?

When I had my old 3000, I used those rubber bands you find on broccoli. Buy some at the store and usually there are two stalks held together by a thick, strong elastic band. Eat the vegetables and place that elastic over the tube to secure it in place with your lock. I also found them helpful for keeping my skin inside the tube so it wouldn't get pinched.

> member_e0e2087b3e wrote:...and I found myself getting close to masturbating, and being overly demanding of genital attention from the womenfolk in the house. We all decided that going back to full time chastity would restore the balance in the house best. Yup, wearing the device makes a huge difference for me. It stops me from fiddling with my partner's assets *and* keeps me much more manageable. When I'm allowed to hang free, if I start getting too whiny or needy, I'll sometimes even ask to go back inside. It sort of grounds me and helps me handle all that energy better. I doubt I could manage it for long without the device; a few days seems about my limit. We've shifted towards almost continuous lock-up whenever I'm away from my wife, and probably 50/50 when we're together.

> member_f74d45782a wrote: > > member_e0e2087b3e wrote:...and I found myself getting close to masturbating, and being overly demanding of genital attention from the womenfolk in the house. We all decided that going back to full time chastity would restore the balance in the house best. > > Yup, wearing the device makes a huge difference for me. It stops me from fiddling with my partner's assets *and* keeps me much more manageable. When I'm allowed to hang free, if I start getting too whiny or needy, I'll sometimes even ask to go back inside. It sort of grounds me and helps me handle all that energy better. I doubt I could manage it for long without the device; a few days seems about my limit. We've shifted towards almost continuous lock-up whenever I'm away from my wife, and probably 50/50 when we're together. Yes, asking to go back into full-time locking feels crazy (assuming my testicles don't get too inflamed like they have recently), but it's what I need. I was getting edged several times a week before. While I loved that routine, neither me nor my submissive partner had much time for kink activities focused on her now. Going forward, she'll receive attention zero to two times a month, and I just have to deal with the rest of it.

> member_f74d45782a wrote: > wearing the device makes a huge difference for me. It stops me from fiddling with my partner's assets *and* keeps me much more manageable. When I'm allowed to hang free, if I start getting too whiny or needy, I'll sometimes even ask to go back inside. It sort of grounds me and helps me handle all that energy better. I doubt I could manage it for long without the device; a few days seems about my limit. We've shifted towards almost continuous lock-up whenever I'm away from my wife, and probably 50/50 when we're together. This resonates so many bells with me too. This is exactly where I am now as well. I was surprisingly scared yet excited to realize how dependent and addictive being caged had become for me. With firm guidance from my mistress, I can now let go completely and submit entirely to her control. She loves hearing me tell her "I deserve the cage again...please".

Well, it arrived just two days later! It's definitely better made than my older gear. I love the pin design and how they don't pinch like the washers do on the old models. Having the pins face outward is much nicer too. I had ruined my 2000 for long-term wear years ago by shortening the pins too much. The cage fits more snugly when flaccid, which makes peeing less messy and feels more comfortable overall. I swapped out the original lock mechanism for a simple key ring because the standard one sits on top of the cockhead bulge, adding to the visible outline under trousers. With this new ring setup, it remains quite discreet so far. I'm going to try sleeping in it now and see if I incur the wrath of the testicle gods. Fingers crossed. That excessive removal for sleep, peeing, cleaning, and managing inflamed skin was a big part of why I previously stepped away from chastity play.