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curioustncpl coming back to chastity

So you might have noticed my earlier posts in another thread. I've been locked up since Wednesday, with just about ten minutes out late that day to…

member_58a491481c 24 Aug 2026 #1

So you might have noticed my earlier posts in another thread. I’ve been locked up since Wednesday, with just about ten minutes out late that day to masterbate while she watched. I didn’t expect jacking off in front of her to feel so humiliating, yet not enough to make me cum faster due to arousal. Anyway, I’m halfway through my five-day lockup; it’s both great and terrible at the same time. Just thinking about the cage or my wife for a moment brings back that tightness. Since it is a cb6000, comfort isn’t its strong suit. More importantly, her hygiene preferences with the closed cage turn her off slightly, even though she was the one who told me to put it on initially. I am praying we will upgrade to an open metal device soon. Hopefully, switching to metal helps with comfort too. During our last time doing chastity, I always kept a key on my person just in case. This round is different because she has taken all my keys away, so 100% of the control lies with her regarding when I get out. It feels more real and harder this way. I doubt she will keep me locked for much longer than a week, but you never know. All I know is that I am locked for five days now, and according to her dice game, my fate rests in her hands. I could roll out, have sex, or jack off; alternatively, the dice might extend my lockup. Denial is something I can handle; it’s the pain and discomfort from the ring around the balls—the pinching—that gets me. It’s the usual complaints everyone makes. Hopefully, I’ll work those issues out without bothering her too much so she doesn’t lose interest again. We are so close to upgrading to metal that I don’t want to mess it up.

member_58a491481c 28 Aug 2026 #2

And honestly, because of the horrible hygiene issues, we've paused with the chastity until I can find a better device. We aren't ready for the MM's just yet, but I need a decent metal device that will hold up until I can look into an MM in a few months or perhaps next fall. I am going to basic training for the army soon, so there is no point spending hundreds on something I won't be able to wear until I return from basic training. Any advice on a good metal device would help. If it fits similar to or better than the CB6000, that's all that matters right now. I can manage the cb6000 with its second largest ring (I believe 1.75"). Since I fill the cage quite well, going for a shorter cage might not work. Here are two options I found; however, I don't think either is stainless steel. That said, I've read spraying them with clearcoat spray paint helps prevent rusting. I just need it to function until I can afford that higher-end device. What do you all think: ... GICVUOLESR or ... NQMBE27L3M

member_75c78a1ec7 31 Aug 2026 #3

My observations. **First one listed;** The base ring size isn't stated. This is crucial for comfort. **Second one listed;** If a 2" base ring works, that's fine. But will a 4" cage be okay? The CB6000 measures at 3". A difference of just 1/4" can matter with custom devices; you are adding an extra inch. Have you considered this one? ... sbs_hpc_26

member_58a491481c 3 Sept 2026 #4

I have considered that one. My concern is twofold. Both options seem prone to pinching. Hinged rings feel risky to me, and there appears to be considerable play between the ring and the cage. That loose fit seems like it would cause a lot of pinching as well. Do you or anyone else have experience with this specific model? I found a few more that interest me, and I am currently waiting for emails back regarding their specs/dimensions.