LockedUp24 Diary of LockedUp24 and Ponytail32

Here is an account of how quickly my KH and I got into the rhythm of Chastity play.

Back in January 2014, I mentioned chastity to My Wife (now KH) and asked if she’d be interested. She hadn’t a clue what it was, so I had to point her toward some websites. However, my wife isn’t exactly an online person; she barely uses Facebook or the like, though she does pop on occasionally from time to time, such as here.

She requested an audio version instead, so I read some of those web pages out loud for her. She appreciated it but suggested that reading them herself might be better next time.

Anyway, the following week we browsed our favorite online adult shop. She picked a shiny chrome device, and a few days later it arrived. As soon as we opened the box, I knew it was too large (I’m more of a grower than a shower). We returned to the device pool, found a CB6000s, bought that one instead, and it arrived a few days later. It fit much better, though it still took some time to find the right combination of rings and spacers. It’s been trial and error ever since (19/2/2014).

It was around this point that I tried it on. My KH said, “Okay, let’s see how it goes for today.” “For the day?” I asked. For the day! I had thought maybe just an hour or two. “No,” she replied. “If this is going to work, you need to be locked up for longer each day. Today is Day One.”

So I wore it throughout the day without issue until she came over and went in for a kiss. Instead of kissing me, she whispered in my ear, “You’re going to regret giving me those keys,” then quickly clipped my cage as she pulled away.

Immediately, I felt pressure building in the device, starting to pulse strongly. She looked at me and laughed at both my facial expression and my predicament; she knew it was hurting but not entirely unpleasantly so.

Later that night, just before bed, I asked if I could be released. She agreed and handed over the keys for my device.

There was a beautiful sense of freedom accompanied by a long “SIGH.” My wife just laughed, turned over, and went back to sleep. I washed up the device, put it away in the top wardrobe, and placed the key beside her bedside lamp before climbing into bed and falling asleep.

The next morning, I woke to the alarm (kids off to school). I turned it off and heard my wife say, “Don’t forget to put your cage back on before you leave the room.”

Not even 24 hours had passed, yet she seemed to be getting into the swing of things. I said, “Already? Can’t I just…” “NO,” she said firmly. “PUT IT ON NOW, then you can leave.”

I did as I was told, taking a few minutes to calm myself down and fit back into the device.

Then I put the keys back by her lamp and got the kids fed and ready for school, doing what I’ve done a thousand times before.

Later on, my wife woke up, and we had breakfast together with our youngest child, who is still too young for daycare.

After eating, she said I had chores to do today before work. I was surprised. “Don’t I always help out at home?” Her reply: “Yes, but normally I help too, and that’s going to change a bit now.” “What like I’ll be doing all the stuff while you just check it over later? Maybe I should get you a clipboard,” I joked. “That is a great idea,” she said seriously. “I was joking!” “I’m not.”

So, given my tasks for around the house, I got stuck in with the cleaning. It helped keep my mind occupied, but I couldn’t shake the thought of her. Right then, I realized it was true what I’d read: those locked up are constantly thinking of their keeper.

It struck me that this felt a bit like FLR or WLR (Female Led Relationship / Woman Led Relationship), though there’s likely some overlap. Regardless, I got on with my housework.

Later, when it was time to leave for work, I went to my KH and asked for release so I could head out. She retrieved the keys from their hiding spot—she doesn’t wear them on a chain or keep them on her person—and handed me the key to unlock myself. Moments later, I gave the keys back, washed up the device again, put it away in the wardrobe, and headed off.

Coming home from work… To be Continued.

Coming home from work... I arrived quite early, and no one was awake yet. It fell to me as the chore to get the kids up and out for school. Walking into the kitchen to prepare breakfast, I noticed a little yellow post-it note on the countertop. It was a message from my KH: "Put your device on before you get the kids up today, and wear it to bed too." Whoa, she’s really getting into this whole chastity play thing, I thought. I did as instructed, retrieved the cage, put it on with some water-based lube to help things along smoothly. After that, I got the kids up and out without major issues, aside from the pressure in my cage while thinking about how KH was enjoying her power trip. Once the school run was done, I climbed into bed beside my KH. I snuggled under the warm duvet (as anyone does) and started to feel that familiar pressure again. However, this time it was very strong because my male brain associates Bed with Sex. Unable to take much more of it, I turned away from her and focused on controlling my breathing to calm down. It worked after a few minutes, though not completely; blood had made its way back to my genitals, so shrinkage would take longer. So I just relaxed, trying to nod off. At that point, KH turned over toward me, snaked a hand around my hips to my now-full cage. I was about to say stop when she interrupted with "Shhhhhh... stay where you are." She started massaging the parts exposed by my CB6000s: my testicles and the tip of the **key**. She only did it for a minute, but that was enough to put me right back in my place—frustrated now more than ever. At this point, KH got out of bed rather quickly and left without saying another word. I knew then that was all I was getting as I heard her start breakfast and make coffee downstairs. Eventually, I fell asleep after repeating slow breathing exercises. Later, I awoke feeling rested enough; I had work later that night anyway. I found myself fine in the device, which is good because I’d been concerned about sleeping with it on and whether any bad effects would occur. Thankfully, none showed up. After throwing on some sweatpants, I went downstairs for coffee and to check emails etc. I noticed my KH happily relaxing on the sofa watching a TV program (not really one of us). As I walked into the kitchen, she shouted out, "I’ll have a coffee too... bring it in when its done." "Yes dear," I said, bringing her cup once ready. Sitting down, I looked at her quizzically. She asked, "How was your sleep all locked up?" "It was fine; no problems so far," I replied. "Good," she said. "From now on, you will wear it to bed as well as during the day until 10 minutes before work." My god, I was really starting to feel restricted in my cage now—so much so that standing upright without bending at the waist became difficult. My KH just laughed and added, "When you’ve calmed down, there is washing to be done, some collecting off the line and folding... oh, and put dinner on. You can have the rest of your coffee after those are done. Now shoo; my program is starting." I was left in awe at how quickly she had issued her commands without a second thought. She gave me that look that said, "What are you still doing here?" So I hurried off to start my duties. Everything kind of repeated itself until I got ready for work again. But tomorrow evening, with no work waiting, I wondered what was in store for me?? Again, just before leaving for work, I asked permission to be released and unlocked myself while she fetched the **key** once more. After that, I washed up, handed back the keys, and left for work. The next morning, I arrived home half-expecting a yellow post-it note... but there was none! So I figured it best to put my cage on just in case. I did so without asking. Then the same routine happened: kids off to school, and I tidied up the kitchen (took no less than 5 minutes). Again, I climbed into bed, snuggled up next to KH, and waited for the pain... Hmm, no pain! But I was starting to fill out my cage. So I turned over again and awaited The Hand... Nope, no hand slipped over my hips. I found myself wanting that pressure-pain just before KH would leave me feeling frustrated. I realized then that she wouldn’t tease me regularly; she was getting used to the idea of me being locked up and unavailable even for self-gratification. I fell asleep shortly after realizing nothing could be done right now, but let’s see what happens later on. This time, I woke abruptly by my wife. Sure enough, it was normal wake-up time. No sooner had she woken me than she left the room. I put on my sweatpants (now more like housework pants) and went downstairs for that beautiful dark nectar called coffee. To my surprise, KH was also in the kitchen making a sandwich and her own coffee. I noticed there wasn’t one for me:o so I made myself a cup anyway. My KH said, "When you’re ready, get the Laptop out and meet me in the living room." It was an unusual request since my KH isn’t big on online activities at all. But this had nothing to do with going online (I found that out soon enough). What was it... To be continued.

Laptop time So I grabbed my coffee and laptop and met KH in the living room. "What were you looking for?" I asked. "I want you to make a printable list for me," said KH. Make it a days-of-the-week list, she added. At this point, I was thinking about whether these would be locked-up days or release days... but I was wrong. Okay, she said, "This is going to be your chore list, and you must do them each day. I’ll inspect the work afterwards; if it’s good, maybe I will give you **release**." "WHEN?" I asked eagerly. "That is up to me AND IF I feel like it," she replied. I was getting so much pressure in my cage that KH could see my discomfort and started laughing/chuckling. "When you’re ready, type these chores into the spreadsheet." A few minutes later, I typed away as she spoke. There were a lot of chores—over 30 per day! Some were simple tasks; some things I already did; others were new duties so KH wouldn’t have to do them anymore. After finishing, I said, "That’s an awful lot on top of my Job too." KH replied, "Well, that’s just the start. I’ll think of more as time goes by. Plus, I know you won’t get all of it done when you have work, but this list is a guide so you don't disturb me... I'll call out if I want something or extra tasks completed." "This is getting serious," I thought. "Now you can start the list from the top," she said before taking a sip of coffee and grabbing the TV remote. I was stunned at first, but all I could muster was "YES DEAR." As I left the room, I looked back quickly... she hadn’t even taken her eyes off the TV. About an hour later, she announced she was going outside to plant some flowers and that I was to watch two of our kids while continuing with the chores. I managed to get through most of the top 7 chores fairly quickly (between watching the two kids) before KH came to check on me. I was folding clothes when she asked how it was going. "Fine," I said, keeping too focused. A little later, hanging up clothes, she told me I could finish and stop for today. She asked me to come into the kitchen where she had the chore sheet out; she’d already ticked them off. She said I did a good job so far but expected better in the weeks ahead, starting right after school. "Yes Dear," I said. She gently patted my cage and left the room, then turned back before entering the living area: "Put dinner on; I’m getting hungry, and later I need a foot and back massage." It was bedtime now, and I didn’t expect much play from KH that night, but I got lucky. She wanted a massage since she was sore from gardening. I started at her feet and worked up the legs, but then she began making sexy moaning noises. It was like flipping a switch... I was immediately hard again; the pressure was killing me! Eventually, I said to her, "Stop it please, or at least return the favor." "Okay," she said quickly. I couldn’t believe she agreed so fast. She put **key** behind my back and told me to lie down (which was tricky without falling over). Then she got up, unlocked me—it took seconds before I felt like steel again—and wasn't long until I was right there... just a stroke or two... She stopped suddenly. "THAT’S IT FOR YOU." "Nooo," I said, "Come on! That’s really unfair; I’m ready to finish!" "NO," she said quite sternly now. "Go wash up." Well, not a happy camper, but what could I do? As I got off the bed, all I could say was... YES DEAR. to be Continued

This is a very hot story, and I'm very interested to find out what happens next. Please let us know if this is real life or fiction. Either way, it is fun to read.

Lol its Real life. Ill be continueing it ASAP... life is getting in the way.

So after washing up I was told to put my cage back on. This proved much harder as I had plumped up even after calming down; I used more cold water and switched to a larger ring and spacer (cb6000s). I eventually fitted into the **lock** and fell asleep soon after. My daily duties were to be continued in the morning with the kids etc. I prepared KH’s breakfast of coffee and toast. I wanted to take a shower and asked if I could get released for a better wash. My KH said yes, but she didn’t trust me enough to stay fully released during a shower—especially after last night—but a quick release for a timed sink wash *after* the shower would suffice. I was nervous about washing with it on since there’s a metal lock in place, but I didn't question my KH's choice and prepared to shower. It was a new experience washing while locked up. Luckily we have a good shower head that can direct flow point-blank or wide-spread, plus it detaches from the wall socket. Lots of soap is best; get the shower head in and around the cage—it worked out quite well. To say I missed showering with no cage on is an understatement. At first, I started to fill out my cage as my body prepared for that familiar freedom in the steam.:mrgreen: *And id say most men find rubbing one out in the shower to be a great way to start the day.* I cleared my mind again and soon the feeling and need went away; I could continue washing. After my initial shower, I informed KH that I was ready for the sink wash. She handed me the **key**. I had the sink ready with warm water and plenty of soap so I washed very quickly, drying off including the cage and parts. It was hard not to think about rubbing one out as now I was free but didn’t want too; I wanted to see where this could go. Plus, I wanted to see what my KH had in store for us regarding this **chastity** play. So soon as dry, I quickly put the cage back on again—it was tricky after all that warm water swelling me out—though cold water helped... but not much. I then left the bathroom and handed back the key to my KH; she was relaxing on the sofa at the time. After getting dressed, I continued duties around home. It was pretty uneventful. Nighttime came—it was time for bed. Again....nothing. No play, no tease (verbal or otherwise), just chaste. As usual, felt that build-up of pressure in my cage as the body expects to play. My KH had already turned over (oh if that isn’t a sign). So I did the same and soon fell asleep. The next 4 days continued much the same: me either going to work or doing my chore list. Unfortunately, there was no teasing or playful interaction involved during this period. Until one Morning... To be Continued...

That morning my KH and I woke up around the same time, hearing the kids playing in their own rooms. We exchanged our usual morning greetings like most couples do, slipping into small talk about daily plans. I was a little distracted because of that familiar morning horn—or rather, strain—in my cage; it stood out there prominently with a lock on top. My KH giggled as she moved her hand over the swollen testicles, which only made things worse for me before she turned over and said, "Go get the kids their breakfast." I told her just one moment so I could calm down first, then turned toward her... BIG MISTAKE... as soon as I rotated, she wiggled her bum in my lap, sending me over the edge. Just as I was about to climb out of bed, she said, "I want some meat inside me. Here are the keys:o" I asked if she was serious and whether I should use a condom (she prefers Skyns ones because they have no latex), and she said no. So I asked if she wanted me to finish too; she replied that she would let me know. Well, I didn't need another word and stripped off so fast Superman himself might be amazed. Unfortunately, it wasn't long before it was over. Yes, it was an intense O—perhaps not the most intense ever had by me, but definitely intense. Afterward, I washed up and used plenty of cold water to shrink back down for my cage, then business returned to usual around the house. I got breakfast ready for the kids and coffee for my KH while starting on household chores as she relaxed either in the kitchen or living room. It was pretty routine again for the next two days or so until I started feeling sore at the bottom of the scrotum where the plastic of the CB6ks was rubbing a bit too much. The rubbing happens when I am very active around the house or walking distances, so I asked my KH for release, explaining what was happening. My KH wasn't overly pleased again (her facial expression said it all) that I would be out of my cage; she already lets me take it off for work which she also doesn't love but wants me comfortable at work too. So I got granted release under the condition of inspection to see if I put my O back into my own hands (literally). It took 5 days before my skin returned to normal, and I treated it with E45 cream for sore and damaged skin; that worked great by day four. On day five, my KH came up to me while I was making myself a coffee. She gently touched my crotch (which got me by surprise too) and said, "I'm sure that's enough time out for healing, and you don't seem to have discomfort anymore, so get your cage on." "Yes dear," I said, going to put the cage back on. When I came downstairs, my KH was sitting in the living room drinking MY cup of coffee. When she noticed me looking, she turned to me and said, "The kitchen needs cleaning, as does the bathroom... today I'm gonna work you like a BITCH...... Instant Cage filler.:shock:" Till next time.

She sure worked me hard (not in a fun way) that day. I cleaned, cooked, fetched her things all day, and dealt with the kids too, all while she relaxed (she did lend a hand for one or two things out of necessity). It was pretty routine again for the next three days; she relaxed while giving me chores to do. I was locked up at all times now, which is becoming normal for us: if I'm home, I'm locked up, unlocking only minutes before work but locking up the moment I come back. We were having morning coffee one day when I asked my KH if she enjoyed Chastity play (can't ask questions too much). She said, "Yeah, it's great. I have my own personal bitch doing whatever I want whenever I want." I asked what would make it better, and she replied, "If you could wear the cage at work as well as home. I've an idea to stop the ring from burning you before we buy the new chrome cage and see how that goes." I just had to get more info... I knew this was fishing for a tease or Topping from the bottom. I asked what's better now than before, she said, "Well, your not on your PC or Laptop as much as you used to be; you just do things when I say so and never question me about it." I told her, "I've noticed you've become more comfortable as a KH and are getting used to her new control." She just smiled at me (it was a very nefarious smile too) before taking a sip of her coffee. The day continued normally with her relaxing for the most part while I did chores; occasionally she chipped in since I had work that day, and would have for the next 4 days as well. My KH will need to do some housework but it won't be much... thank god for dishwashers eh. So each day before leaving, I was handed the keys and put my cage back on (she leaves the lock open so I don't need keys just to open it first). But yet again, on day five, I started getting sore and asked for release to heal. I got granted release once more; she wasn't happy about that either. She took my Cage and made another Mod to it. My CB6000s is a knock-off model with ridged rings that allow testicle skin to fold into the grooves, and she had already filled them with Rubber Draft Excluders (like those used on windows and doors). But this time she applied material to the ring on the inside—the part having contact with the skin. She said, "This might stop the soreness so you can be more active around the house for longer without pain, and we will see how it goes. If all is well, you will wear it in work too." So she is really looking for full-time Chastity sooner than I had thought by the looks of it. It has been a week since that new Mod was applied and it's been fine for most days apart from when sleeping; I've had to apply Water Lube under the ring where the new rubber Draught excluder sits. So it might need replacement, but next week we might be getting the chrome cage?? so it might or might not be needed. To Be Continued.... Frustrated

Frustrated.. Three more days had passed (catching up on real-time now soon), and I was feeling the frustration building much more quickly this week. Already, I was looking at my KH with lust so later that night we were relaxing in the living room watching our Saved TV shows while the kids slept; I just had to ask, "Honey, when can I service you? I'm frustrated as hell and maybe it will help..." "FRIDAY," she said. That was four days away. I asked, "Can't I please satisfy you now while you watch TV?" "NO," she said. "ON FRIDAY!!!" And so I was left in frustration. Friday seemed to crawl on its knees. But eventually it arrived and I was excited... ITS FRIDAY... TGIF (thank god it's Friday). I came home and found my dinner waiting in the microwave with the kitchen to clean afterward when done; My KH had done laundry but left a huge pile of clothes for me to sort, fold, put away, plus other stuff. The second I stepped through the door, my KH said, "Ah good. Now that you're home, I'll have my coffee in the living room while sorting out the kids for bed and handling the clothes." "Can I have dinner first?" I asked. "Sure, right after you make my coffee," she replied. I did as told and ate. Afterwards it was pretty straightforward; soon I sat down to relax myself. I had hopes for tonight but knowing my KH—and Women in general—the headache myth is always lurking. I've done the whole *"Here's some painkillers for your headache... but I don't have a headache... that's great, so you're up for sex tonight"* trick before and it didn't go down well. So I played it cool....and it paid off too. I can proudly say I did my job as Husband and Sub. At first she just wanted relaxing oral play but soon after it became her race to the finish line. Mmmmmm yummy. My KH and I lay there in the quiet dark; she was in that glowing state we all know and love, reaching over to my Locked cage to start playing at the base. She ran her fingers around it and at the slit of the shaft then cupped my swollen Testicles. I was Hard and she could feel the penis muscle inside me like a steel rod somehow impaling me. I asked her to stop (thinking I would have to wait another week). What??? WHAT DID she say? "You can pop now but you do it yourself and I'll supervise," She said. I was lucky as usually it's a week later that I get an O, and recently I already had one too. I was handed the keys and was free.. It took less than 2 minutes before finishing up, yet it was a Powerful O—so much so my shot passed through my T-shirt and hit the side of my face leaving a trail behind. My KH couldn't stop laughing (third time this has happened to me in life); she was in fits of laughter at the sight of me. As she laughed I felt an ache in my pubic area; I had shot that hard it ached, yet still could not help but laugh also. After a minute or so I picked myself up and cleaned my face heading for the bathroom. It took a few minutes before being suitable to get back into bed. My KH left me free without my cage that night. Still feeling the ache I drifted off to sleep, my KH resting her slender leg over my hip as she too fell asleep. to be continued....

The next morning just as I was getting out of bed my KH said sleepily "Don't forget your Cage" *Oh how could I forget...* I put it on went to give the kids breakfast, and after a while my KH joined us. My KH sat down and asked, "Where's my coffee? You could hear me moving around upstairs; you knew I was up. Why is it not here?" "Sorry dear," I said. "I'll get it right away." After making her coffee I got the kids dressed so they could go out and play with other children. After which I cleaned their bowls etc., my KH watched me closely. I asked, "What's up?" She sat silently for a second before saying, "I want you locked in Fulltime including work times." I asked why the rush; her reply was: "You lapse in obedience when your not locked in and that's going to stop, as is this Mercy Pop I let you have last night. You seem to forget your place now." When does my start date begin? I breathed. "Next Thursday but you will not have a POP till I say so; you will remain wearing your cage as I dictate for the rest of this week and when going out for walks too." That day has come and gone (Thursday 13/3/2014). I've been Locked in for about five days now fulltime. My KH hasn't wavered a bit; she takes even less interest in teasing me verbally now, apart from today. My KH had an earlier nap. When she came down I already had her coffee ready and told her I didn't expect to fall asleep but when waking felt a little horny so started playing. Before long, she was Finger thrusting toward the finish line. It took all but a second for me to fill my cage as she watched; it hurt so bad I couldn't even stand straight! My KH just Laughed watching me squirm. She went on saying that most mornings when I wake up getting kids out to school, she would Rub one out..... (I knew it). After calming down we entered the living room and before sitting she muttered "wow I'm still so wet" (*mercy have mercy*). If only for the kids coming in and out of the house... if they were at school I'd sort that woman right there in the living room. Down on my knees buried head-in-there. My KH noticed my wince from pain again but said nothing. I couldn't let it go so a few minutes later spoke up, "You know next time you feel horny like this and we don't have kids home... You do know I'm here to help after all...." "Maybe," is all she said. Till next time.

> LadynMonkey wrote: > Boy, do we ever get the "if the kids were in school" thing. One goes to school, the other I homeschool! She's with me just about 24/7... even if one isn't with us, the other one is! Good luck!

> LadynMonkey wrote: > Boy, do we ever get the "if the kids were in school" thing. One goes to school, the other I homeschool! She's with me just about 24/7... even if one isn't with us, the other one is! Good luck! I know I know.:D It's always left till last thing at night when most people want sleep (except for me Energizer Bunny). I need only about six hours of sleep and am golden for 24hrs... well for a few days anyway then crash.

Cont.. Maybe she said. I needed a shower so went to prepare. I knew the answer if asking to be unlocked for my shower, so just continued as normal; it wasn't the first time having a shower locked in. Afterwards drying under my cage was necessary to ensure no problems arose. My KH was in the living room "Can I be unlocked so I can dry under my cage?" I asked. "Sure," she said handing me the keys. I went to go dry off but my KH added, "Where do you think you're going? You can dry here where I keep an eye on you." I did as told dried there and then locked myself back in, returning the keys. Shortly after that leaving for work allowed being unlocked.

It was the same story for next few days work-work-work so I'll need to skip some days till Thursday arrived with nothing worth mentioning happening.

Thursday. As waking my KH whispered sleepily "Today's the day Hunny." I knew what that meant; it was Day 1 of Fulltime lockin already locked over night. Got up got kids to school usual. My KH rested asleep in bed until getting up a little later. Prepared her Coffee and toast while hearing movement upstairs everything ready minus toast by time she came down into kitchen. After some walking local errands meeting with office clerk this was more or less first walk fair distance whilst lockedup sure went shop locked but no small walk part fulltime lockup. The errands surprisingly well without problems later preparing work KH came said "You know looking forward to wearing cage in work now too, really don't want give key yet think best little while just incase any problems" hands key... asked "Aren't afraid unlock masturbate? Why not put envelope seal then you'll know opened good enough excuse" "Ok," she said. That sounded good. Sealed envelope handed back went work five days ahead no time family life as was work-home-sleep-work order for 5 days. During working found bringing ring front felt better me. By Day three skin tender but not painful could feel rougher too later day way to work temperature dropped Testicle escaped journey had wait sort cage required opening letter. Opened relocked thinking might stay locked KH made quite clear wished happen eventually happened. Arrived home explained what happened; wasn't upset even seemed interest took envelope placed old inside new sealed handed back. Day 5 temperature changed testicle escaped working way work. again opened letter got key relocked skin felt sore applied Vaseline affected area felt better. Only problems during cleaning after toilet managed told KH escape she resealed key envelope. Five day fulltime trial went well yet skin sore Day six release. Day 6 Awoke very sore asked release obliged didn't mention five days lockup seemed uninterested knowing how it went released applied E45 cream worked nicely following two days showed interest locking pressed subject guess knew needed time heal. The post arrived surprise package... new cage chrome (new avater) goes many names like CB6ks wear. C Range Male Chastity M900 Master Series Chastity Cage has hinged ring x3 loved look put on right away show so did very comfortable not too heavy granted time healing next day woke daily duties KH said "three days enough heal get new cage on". Did instructed entire day great single problem until went toilet sat pee ball escaped OOOOHHHH.:o *Im sure know feeling* informed switching smaller Ring just before comfortable BUT noticed Clink Clink noise walking kitchen sink oh love noise making walk kids notice ask questions got rubber band placed cage lock stop clinking. Day continued problems soon children put bed plans tonight find out soon enough to be continued....

> member_b74b9416da wrote: > i know i know.:D > Its always left till last thing at night when most people just wanna sleep. (except for me Energizer Bunny) I need only about 6hrs sleep and im golden for 24hrs...well for a few days anyway then i crash. Yes 80% of our adventures are between 8 & 9pm after the kids go to bed and before hubby goes to work. Though lately the morning before he goes to sleep has become a bit of play time too. Sometimes I think, if my kids ever knew the crazy shit going on upstairs while they're watch Sponge Bob! Haha

Cheers Ladynmonkey > es 80% of our adventures are between 8 & 9pm after the kids go to bed and before hubby goes to work. Though lately the morning before he goes to sleep has become a bit of play time too. > Sometimes I think, if my kids ever knew the crazy shit going on upstairs while they're watch Sponge Bob! Haha Unfortunately our little ones are too young to leave untended and one of them is at home for a few more years so its always late night fun.

My KH had plans for me this night and i was to find out soon enough. After a bit of late night Tv viewing it was bed time yet i had no real idea what my KH had in-store sure there is always hope of some teasing but for most of the time there is only verbal teasing. So there we were lying in bed i asked her if she would like my service tonight (that's our signal for any female pleasure she wishes) but my KH turns to me and said "your getting a massage tonight" *a very welcome massage too* So she handed me a key to unlock myself and i was instructed to get the Water lube from the box in the top of the wardrobe (Box is filled with naughty toys n stuff) Afterwards im lying down and we are in opposite positions she is at the top of the bed with pillows and im lying with my waist between her thighs for easy access to me. She applied some lube to my Head (now quite hard and waiving with every pulsate) and gently goes up and down and swirls with her hands to apply lube to every spot,She then starts swirling on the head and im sensitive and i put my hand out to stop her "GET YOUR HAND DOWN NOW!!! she commands, But... "GET YOUR HANDS DOWN UNDER YOURSELF AND LIE ON THEM" she commands again, So i lie on my arms and she starts again. Swirling,Pulling up and stroking down,stroking fast stroking slow and doing the pepper mill twist on the head until just as im about to cum and this kills it as its too sensitive then she starts again and again and again for 20 min im kept at that state..ready to cum MY GOD ...i was grinding my teeth and head thrashing when all of a sudden she stopped and said that's it your starting to leak quite a bit...go wash up and put your cage back on. It was a long walk to the bathroom and after a wash and cold water applied to shrink down i still had to wait a min and clear my mind to fit back into my cage. I returned to bed and climbed in then went to cuddle into my KH but i got another surprise. You Bitch i said noticing she had removed her bottoms and underwear,her warm skin against my hands and thighs (i dont wear PJs= T-shirt n briefs/boxers) She then giggled and wiggled in my lap,Slightly turning to me she said you have 1 min from 23:15 to 23:16 and it was 23:14. I struggled to find the key that i had only a moment ago..GOT it...I turned to her (still 23:14) she said get a condom..Blast its in the wardrobe in the box but i knew where it was in the box even in the dark Got it and i was in the bed again..packet ripped open with my teeth and on my again Very erect penis i turned and we both were in the spoons position and i was inside in one movement "Time starts now she said 22:16" It was still 23:16 when it was all over holy FCUK 30 sec...30 fCUK1NG SECONDS within that moment i thrashed my head and pulled threads of my KHs top with my teeth as i came Very hard in the condom. She then moved away and re-dressed leaving me to tend to my own mess so once again i went to the bathroom to wash up and dispose of the condom and wrapper. When i returned to bed my KH had already turned over again i took my usual position and cuddled her but i was quickly told to turn over and go to sleep. Since that night some things have changed in our play with chastity. For one my KH has suggested a Boys toy for me she may get to use on me..a Fleshlight. And she no longer requires my to wear my device in work for now as it took alot of days off just to heal after my 6 days locked in during work times and all home times,She wants all my home time locked in as it serves her better and i can heal in work if i need to. She also said she is going to physically tease me more when im off work for extended times so we will see how that goes. To be continued.

Just a Quick Update.. Unfortunately not a whole lot has been going on to write about. If im at home ive to wear my Cage but my KH has been very lenient on me recently and has not enforced her will for me to be locked up so ive been a free man but ive been good i haven't felt the need to Self pleasure in a long time and my KH has massaged me to orgasm once every 14 days unfortunately she hasn't teased me much and i guess that's because of my freedom. Every massage ive had ive been told to lie down on my arms behind my back so i cannot stop her or interrupt her but i will say any orgasms she has permitted me have been outstanding. She on the other hand has forgone any oral services that i suggest i give her and this im concerned about as i think chastity is a two way game after all. One night i was getting unlocked for a massage and my KH said "You have totally shrunk down your not even half filling your cage" I said that ive read that can happen over time as the body gets used to the cage and also retracts for heat just like testicles. "But you've never been this small" "I know you have shrunk over the years as you don't reach inside as far as you used to" she said. Really!!! ive shrunk even when hard i asked, " Yeah you dont hit a certain spot inside any more" she said Ahh but i bet the Dildo did when we used it i said, well of course that did as its way bigger and wider than im used too. But you loooveed it is said, She just smiled at me. I knew this was my chance to get some answers from her so i continued.. So your not worried that with long term lock up and that's IF your wanting long term,your not worried about shrinkage after all you still enjoy me inside, "No im not worried" she said And what about me cumming so fast as that can also become a bit of a problem with chastity in general Its not a permanent problem but its a problem. "No im not worried" she said again. At this point i was already quite hard and my KH was starting to do her thing so i couldn't really focus on talking and 20 min later after all the edging i was allowed release...Oh boy did i release again. The next day i asked my KH if she still wished to continue with Chastity as its up to her if she does or doesn't. She said she does but it just hasn't been on her mind lately but it hasn't been as fun recently as im more comfortable in my cage and not struggling with it. I said well that's kinda the point after a while i get used to it and then it up to you how you wish to proceed, Do you want to stop with chastity i asked and she said NO firmly. There has not been much going on since this chat and still im free as a bird. So untill something happens of note ill leave it here.

It was a few days later that my KH had to go out of town for a medical check up and i was left unlocked. Later that day i got a call from my KH that she will need to stay in hospital for 4 days as they found something unusual and they were going to run blood and scans etc. I was looking after our kids and i had a family member come and help while i was at work and every thing went fine at home. My KH and i were texting and i mentioned that it felt great being free of my cage and she replied that she totally forgot and that overtime will be placed when she gets home. No sooner had she stepped in the door 4 days later when she said "Get your cage on NOW" and i did as i was instructed,I had been good all week and not once did i masturbate and plus i had no time from work to kids to work was my life for 4 days. So i was back in my cage for 4 days and i had to return to work when my KH said "Your wearing your cage in work too again to make up for your free time and you are not getting a emergency key. OH SNAP......me and my big mouth about enjoying being free. Work went as normal until the next day. I was rubbed raw from the ring and luckily i had Baby oil and some natural lip Vaseline. So here i am again unlocked until i heal. My KH said she will be bringing back the chore sheet with some new additions that are behaviour expectations. The chore sheet had not changed much but some of the new stuff is OMG. To give you an idea here is some doozy Do as you are told without question. When called come immediately to her side. No release for holidays anywhere. No release for doctor unless its genital orientated. No release for guest staying duration. Punishment will happen for any reason at all. You must never look at your KH naked body unless instructed. You must ask if you can grope your KH in worship. You must knock before entering your KH's bedroom. There is quite a few new ones too many to list here. That grope one sank deep as my KH has a nice round ass and a hourglass figure that i find irresistible to touch that one is sure gonna cost me. That punishment i just had to ask whats that about and her reply was. "Its mostly just heavy play but i might tie your hands and feet and leave you on the bed naked and lock the bedroom door or put the vibe cock ring on you and leave you there while your trying to get hard in your cage while tied up" OMG i said "isnt that a bit much, No i think that will do for now but in the next few months ill review it and might add more or cut them back she said. Anything else i asked sarcastically. "Yeah you know how last time you lasted like 30 second inside me", " Yeah i was so disappointed i said" Well my goal is to get you to cum even faster, but my main goals is for you to cum before you even get inside me or for you to cum in your cage. I was shocked as this could mean the end of PIV sex if she get what she wants. Not long after the conversation she started to introduce these new instructions. She was getting something from under the sink and i forgot the no grope rule as i touched her Bum. immediately she said firmly "What were you told about groping" "Im sorry i forgot can i..i said" "No, Now get back to what your were doing she said" Shortly afterwards i got an email from a previous client that required some work updated " Right i said ive to do some work on the laptop for a client it should just take 30min" and as i turned around to leave my KH said "Hey aren't you forgetting something" as she sat eating some toast in the kitchen. "What i asked" She stared at me for a second but if felt like quite a while before she said "Tidy up after me ... its on the list" before you do anything else. Just as i had finished and turned she again spoke "Dont forget the dishes into the dishwasher". I slightly sighed to myself. " This is why the list is Back you forget your place when its not here. As much as i try to fight it she has kept me struggling with erections all day and she knew it. Over the next few days it will be training days again with the new list and im sure ill be locked back in my cage too.

Sure enough i was back in my cage yet i hadn't healed fully and my KH showed no sign of interest,She wanted me back in my cage for as long as i could and now that includes work times again. A few days later a parcel arrived it contained two tubs of dental rubber mix this was to be used on my CB6Ks rings my chrome cage is now just for a bit of fun for my KH. My KH instructed me to take off my device and clean it well,So i did just that. The rubber was mixed together and kneaded in her hands and then applied to the entire ring inside and out and a few min later it was set and solid yet still soft to the touch. I was then told to get back in my cage with my modified ring. There was no irritation at all and i couldn't even feel the ring i could feel th cage as normal. I took a shower caged as usual and i was allowed a semi supervised sink wash after when i was unlocked before being relocked back in my cage.* a semi supervised wash is my KH stands outside the bathroom as we have kids that require supervision.*. That night again i slept locked in and a further 3 days n nights but my skin still hadnt healed properly but my KH didn't want to hear it and she had examined the affected area and said you can last a few more days before i let you fully heal. It was Saturday at this point and also it was on the edge of a normal 14 days, My KH normally lets me Cum every 14 days as she says to reset my Clock. That night as we climbed into bed i asked her if she would like some pleasure (Oral) She said No shes not in the mood and turned over and placed her ass in my caged lap not only this but also makes sure that her genitals are aligned with me and wiggles as if to get comfy (she knows this kills me) and my penis desperately tries to escape its confined cage my KH can just barely feel it when confined. After a moment of silence (I wait for her to give permission if she does at all) My KH says "Ok you can go inside tonight, OH ok "I said calmly. "Your time starts now you have 2 min"She said. "Do i wear a condom" i said frantically as i jumped out of bed to get to the wardrobe stash, "Yes" she said and you'd better hurry time ticking. Again she was teasing me...Punishing me as i raced to get my cage off as i sat on the bed and quickly rolled on the condom. I was inside her now. "Hurry hurry"she said "lets try and beat that 30 seconds Cum" "I can Cum" i asked..."YES you've a min left" she said as i started to thrust frantically. "Gooood boyyyy cmon Cum quickly in me she said before starting to count the seconds way and bucking her hips back into my thrusts...... Again it wasn't long before it was all over and it took a bit longer this time about 70 seconds. Awww next time ill just have to edge you hard before i let you inside me to beat that 30 seconds goal now go wash up and get your cage back on. So off i went to wash up and eventually put my cage back on my Penis that was now smaller than ever in its CB6ks. The next day and after all the morning duty's out of the way i asked my KH about her does she not want to have longer sex any more as typically most people do want sex to last longer as i was concerned for her and her enjoyment. She said she is enjoying seeing me desperately scrambling for condoms and getting the cage off and mostly desperately trying to Cum within a certain time. I said then if she is enjoying it then fine but once it becomes boring to her we will quit if she wishes and also she doesn't need to feel obligated to let me Cum every 14 days as all i ask is to be interacted with sometimes to keep me charged up. And she said she knew that already and not to worry. So we left it there as my KH was going to have a shower,I went to sort out her shower when she said she would do it and instead i can go sort out her clothes to wear. Thats also on the new list that i must prepare her shower and sort out her clothes to wear and shoes. So off i went upstairs to do just that. After her shower she was upstairs drying off when i heard her call me. And under the new list i must come when called immediately so i did. Just as i was entering the room i quickly noticed she was naked and exited the room just as quick and closed the door over "Sorry i forgot to knock" i said. "What are you doing out there" she said Im trying to follow your new rules that im not allowed to look at your naked body without permission. "GOOD BOY your starting to learn your place"she said, Im dressed now you can come in. And as i did...She had lied she was only starting to put her top on without her bra and i got a beauty full view She started to laugh as i turned around, Ill have to punish you for that she said laughing. I didn't say anything as again a new rule is she can punish me for any reason at any time for her enjoyment and i must not retaliate but to accept it and take the punishment in silence. "But not now" she said,You've house work to get back to and i want a coffee. Off i went to make her coffee. The next day i had to go to work with the new ring modification. But that will have to wait.

So i had a new Modification to the ring on my CB6Ks it was a dental grade sae rubber that you mix together in your hands and i had already done this and i was wearing it already. Soon i was to leave for work and i was instructed by my KH to test it at work for a few days full-time. It was like a soft glove but i knew i hadnt healed fully and would only be a matter of time before id have to remove it again but my KH didn't care,She wanted me locked away no matter what. The few days passed well and only marginal discomfort from the cage and still needed lube often in work and home. It was day 5 that i started to feel pain underneath and lube wasn't helping at all. Underneath was sore again and i hadn't healed as i knew it wouldn't and requested some time to heal. I was granted healing time but i also found out a day later that relatives would be visiting and may stay for a week (Groan). My KH wasn't happy and not just because of relatives visiting but that i would be fancy free while they stay as one of the new rules is that there will be no release for chastity even if visitors stay. a day passed with our relatives staying over but i was in for a surprise from my KH as later i was subjected to an edging session again (beginning to enjoy these i am) edging after edging after edging up to 7 times until i uttered im going to Cum. I was allowed to again and boy did i, my KHs eyes widened in surprise how much i had cum but i had a delayed orgasm at first there was no O and it almost felt denied then 2 seconds later it hit me. This was a very unusual feeling as ive never had a delayed orgasm before..sure ive been denied an O and ive had post O torture before But DELAYED...that's a new one. Ive been free for about 5 days again and im betting ill be locked back in my cage soon enough. So until the next time.

Day 9 without being Locked up. I asked my KH recently "Im surprised you haven't demanded that i be locked up again" "ah i just haven't on my mind for a couple of days she said" Over the past few days ive felt that submissive side slide away since ive been unlocked for so long with erections and cravings for sex which led to a moment of weakness in the shower a few days ago. Ive noticed ive slipped in my house duty's too but i must put that down to the Extra hours im putting in at work now that ive to do another persons job on top of my own and the fruits of that labour she will enjoy €€€€ Im sure she has started to notice my slips too only she has yet to voice her views and im going to wait until she does say something as this chastity game is also for her enjoyment and also that would be Topping from the bottom i guess. When we do get around to talking about it again ill have to bring up a few questions. But until then Chow...

UPDATE... So my KH and I are taking a break from chastity for a while, For how long i dont know.

Awwww hope it's not too long but just the right amount of time for both of you.

> Lady M wrote:Awwww hope it's not too long but just the right amount of time for both of you. Thanks Lady M. Ill still be around the Forum but probably not as much untill my KH decides if she wishes to play again with chastity.

Its been more of less 3 weeks since my KH decided to take a break from Chastity play so here is a bit of a Update. Ive been missing my cage lately,its a weird feeling more psychological than physical. A few days ago i asked my wife "Was i more obedient when i was locked in?" She said "Yes you were more obedient and you did things for me and around the house without asking" And what about now i asked "Now your back to the way you were before chastity" I didnt get the chance to question her further....... Im starting to feel the need to masturbate again and i did 3 days ago yet i feel the need to do it again and i probably will..ejaculation time in 20 seconds I think my Wife/KH is happy with my premature ejaculation training as she said that she will be stopping my edging sessions in the next 3 weeks or less as im now at 30 seconds or less and at times Instant ejaculation when im allowed inside her. *Im gonna miss those edging sessions* Ive broken all the rules on my Conditioning sheet. No nagging Maintain pubic area Putting her needs first No looking at her naked body Knock on her Bedroom door before entering Groping her without permission Standing behind her cleaning up after her at all times Taking off her shoes Massages Getting her clothes ready Breakfast in bed every day The list goes on and ive broken then all now.Ok so alot of these were new additions to the last list and i had yet to learn them all without checking the list from time to time. So ive Chastity sinned lol. Untill next time.

From my perspective as a relative newbie i think that you should consider going back to doing those things again without being asked to show "willing". Then maybe your KeyHolder might decide to "allow" you to be locked up. d

> From my perspective as a relative newbie i think that you should consider going back to doing those things again without being asked to show "willing". Then maybe your KeyHolder might decide to "allow" you to be locked up. > d Cheers D. Im gonna wait n see and also have a chat with her, Ive been working SO MUCH lately so chats about anything have been very short. For me being locked up gives me no pleasure unless she is involved and that involvement cant be forced on her. Some of the things i wasn't allowed to do *(Looking at her naked body) *was simply to stop my erections and for her control. ive a few day off coming up so ill have to wait n see what she wants.

So im back in my Device now, Not fulltime but mostly at bed time and a few hours during the day at home. Its been about 3 weeks of freedom and ive enjoyed a few Os not many..maybe 5. PE training is on a break as i O roughly about 1 min or less. Edging sessions will cease now as my KH no longer desires to edge me:o The will be no more PIV sex too:o On the plus i will receive a flesh light soon and this will be my only source of edging or PIV like sex under her instruction.

Wow it feels like i haven't posted is quite a while and to be honest not a lot has happened since but here is the rundown. My lock up times were on and off but mostly i was locked up at night and this has changed to fulltime again in my CB6ks and thats true Fulltime, washing,working everything. All sexual activities have ceased including my KHs time with Mr Big Dildo, She will masterbate herself from time to time and when she does she always gives me the full story afterwards just to make me squirm in my cage. Ive yet to receive a fleshlight but still on the fence on what kind and also other brands that are available and within our budget. I haven't been edged or touched or Orgasmed for about a month now,Yes i do miss it all but honestly i just miss her touch. And that wont happen for another 4 or 5 weeks then my KH will start to involve herself with me again and go back to the chore sheet system and behavioural changes sheet and a NEW Intimacy sheet that i caught wind of on her android tablet.:shock: At the moment thats it.

Not a whole lot has changed since my last post but heres the clip notes. There was talk about getting me a flesh light but that never happened in fact my KH has been easy going with me. Ive been allowed some PIV sex and allowed to Finnish also she hasn't edged me in quite a while rather allowing PIV sex. Ive was wearing my CB6ks full-time to the point where i went down a ring size as my body got so used to the ring i had (largest). My KH has been teasing me visually and verbally alot more in recent months and has been making humiliating tshirts and Teasing me with her own printed tshirts and comfortable underwear with a queen of spades symbol among other designs just to tease me.:o BUT last night im in work (wearing my cb6ks as normal) and all of a sudden i felt a snap and then something sharp at the top base of my pubic area. I work alone so i could simply just have a look, And sure enough the loop where the pins fit through had completely broken apart. There wasn't much i could do except just take it off and it was only an hour before i was finished. My KH was asleep when i arrived home so i didn't wake her (We Got kids so we need all the sleep we can get) later on i broke the news to her and she wasn't happy in that silent kind of way. By dinner time she had already bought a new real stainless steel spiral cage to arrive soon. looks like she's dedicated..

It’s been a good stretch of time so I reckon it’s high time to catch up here with a BIG READ. Since my CB6ks broke down, my KH ordered a replacement device. It’s steel and is an A080 Chinese cage. The box arrived after four weeks. When it did, I was taking a nap because I had work that evening. My KH woke me up with excitement in her voice: "It’s here! Finally! Put it on NOW," she said. I was barely conscious and blinking as my eyes adjusted to the light while she left the room, but I knew what had arrived. Like a good boy, I tried to put it on. The trouble? When she ordered it, she forgot about the ring size. So I went to break the news to her. She was in the kitchen shuffling around when I told her. She started cursing at first but then said she’d just buy a spare from a more local website. So I returned to bed. Later, when I woke up for work, my KH mentioned she had found a UK site selling rings and ordered one with express delivery. Sweet Jesus, she was getting dedicated to this game. But as long as she was happy and enjoying herself, I was too. Three days later the ring arrived, and once again I was told to put on the cage. Voilà! It fit like a glove after I had calmed down a bit. The cage is almost spring-loaded with plenty of room for water when washing, so keeping clean shouldn’t be an issue. She picked this one because she doesn’t need to supervise my hygiene; it’s more permanent but has hinged rings. The rubber tube that came with it was handy too. The next week was the test period. I was told I had to wear it full-time for a week (Work/Home/Washing) to see if there were any problems. However, I was allowed an emergency key when leaving for work. It took three days before I hit a problem, and it was the same issue I had with my CB6ks. With my old CB6ks, which had a very small ring with no room underneath for a finger and no Gap (Flush) between the ring and cage, I still managed to escape. Yet my KH refuses to buy a custom one because if I can escape that cheap cage, she reckons I’d probably slip out of an expensive one just as easily. My left ball is much smaller than the other, and being high-and-tight allows it to slip past the ring with a jolt to my system (Ye-ouch). This happened while I was at work, so I simply went to the bathroom, got the emergency key out of my pocket, readjusted myself back into the cage. My logic is: if she wants me wearing full-time, I’d only be fooling myself by not telling her and adjusting quietly, because there will come a time when she holds all the keys. So when I got home, I told her. She seemed happy that I was honest about it. Over the rest of the week, it happened two more times while I was walking outside in the cold. Again, I had to readjust using the key. Damn it, I thought she wouldn’t be too happy about this. Again I reported my ball escape. I noticed that in the morning my balls hang lower over the ring; maybe warmth helps keep them tucked in. So I tried a few of my Boxers and Briefs, even Thermal leggings when going to work since it’s cold at the job site and travelling is chilly too. This worked for the most part, but when seated for longer periods, my ball would retract and slip through the ring again. I asked my KH where she bought the cage from because those rings could be thinner than the spare she’d previously purchased. I was thinking the new ring might be wider than the manufacturer’s standard ones, which might cause more pull on the ball skin, enough to drag it over the edge of the ring. So I got permission to order new rings and a larger one as well since it made sense. The delivery will take some time so I’ll report back after another trial. In the meantime, I’m wearing my cage only when at home. A few days later...... Washing hasn’t been any problem at all, and apart from the occasional slip-out, this is the most comfortable cage I’ve worn to date. The kids were in bed, and I served my KH a cup of coffee. She was watching TV on her android tablet while I handed it over as she enjoyed hers. I went for a shower and face shave (KH likes a smooth face when receiving her nightly oral pleasure). After drying off and getting dressed, I tidied up the kitchen, fed the pets, etc., before returning to my KH. We watched some TV for a while until she spoke. "There is washing to be done before we go to bed," she said without taking her eyes from the screen...I knew what she meant; she was saying SHE HAD WASHING TO DO. As I left the room to tackle the laundry, she handed me her Android tablet: "Put it on charge. I’ll need that later." And here take my cup for the sink while I have a glass of Cola. So I did as directed. Her needs first, then the washing. After putting the washing machine on, I returned to the Living room to find she had gone to bed. So I washed out her glass and turned off all the lights etc. Upstairs, I found my KH in bed with her Tablet. After climbing in, I asked if I could offer some pleasure before sleep. "Go on then," she said gently lifting her bottom from the mattress. I gently pulled down all her garments leaving one leg dressed (as she likes it). It’s been four days since I was allowed to go down on her and I was absolutely drooling at the thought of it. Oh My God, I thought as my mouth met hers...I just needed to satisfy my hunger for her first, then ease off for her pleasure and see where that takes us. As I enjoyed giving her pleasure, I thought "I’m getting addicted to her." Just then, I felt her bear down on my mouth. I could feel the rippled interior wall against my tongue. "She’s enjoying it now," I thought, moving her hand to rest on top of my head (I love that sensation). My cage was straining hard and at times quite sore, but I kept going. Now she is really bearing down on me but moves away slightly enough to whisper, "Use me." She pushed herself onto my mouth and face as I buried myself deep. She held me there with her hand on my head and her legs viceing my head in place until she collapsed and released me. I gasped for breath then calmly licked away any saliva, kissed her labia and finally her thighs before returning to my pillow. My cock was hulking inside the cage, and I knew what had to be done...COLD WATER was needed to bring order to my chaos. So I hobbled off to the bathroom to splash some water on my desperate attempt at an erection. When I returned to the bedroom, my KH was falling asleep so I turned out the lights before joining her. Most nights are similar when I’m not working; I always ask if she’d like some Pleasure before sleeping. Most times it’s a yes, though obviously there are nights we’re just too tired. I might have mentioned this before: my KH has a guide sheet for her Pleasure nights that rolls over on a Monthly basis. Every night when I’m home and not working, Oral sex is offered to me before sleeping. There are also two nights a month where she uses her dildo—aka Mr Big—and all other Nights remain blank as it’s up to her what, when, and where things happen for me. I love the nights with Mr Big; I really can’t say how much we enjoy them. We often speak about him as if he were a real person, joking around. She receives Birthday/Valentines/Christmas cards and gifts from this imaginary entity—obviously I make the cards via Graphic software at home and print them myself. Afterwards they are destroyed for privacy, but she truly enjoys them. It’s been a while since Mr Big visited her which is a shame because she has strong orgasms with him, and I get plenty of pleasure just watching her enjoy it. We tried using a harness for me to wear, but she didn’t enjoy that way as much to my disappointment (as did I; I felt more involved and connected). But she insists that I hand-hold Mr Big instead while licking her at the same time...no problemo Luv. The reason I say all this is because Mr Big had a Night due tonight when I looked at the sheet. There it was, printed in bold: MR BIG NIGHT.... Oh heaven yes! I couldn’t wait to see if my KH would agree. It’s been a long day; you can tell by how much I’ve been straining in my cage. I spent the day going about household chores and reflecting on what had happened in previous nights. I decided to keep quiet until I found a good moment later that day. Once most of my duties were finished, after KH had her breakfast and coffee, and I’d cleared much of my daily laptop workload, I saw her relaxing in her chair. I went over and sat at her feet—a position I sometimes enjoy—which naturally stirred up my desire for her. While sitting there, I realized my legs could fit under the chair’s frame and my face was aligned with her crotch (DING DING DING). Ideas started flying. I asked her to "scoot forward a bit so I can check something." She hesitated at first but then moved closer. Ohhh, she was perfectly flush with my face as she looked down and smiled jokingly, saying, "Stop it; you’ll only excite yourself!" Too late for that, I replied. I felt the cold turkey sensation returning and asked if I could give her pleasure right there and then, even just for a minute. “You must be joking,” she said. “Not now... Tonight.” Awwwww, I pleaded (Jesus, I am addicted). Then I added, "You’ve got Mr Big tonight too." "We’ll see," she replied. "I’m going to have a coffee now." So I had to shaky-legged get up and bring her coffee before continuing with the rest of our routine until the kids came home. Later that night, it was showtime, though I still doubted whether Mr Big would make an appearance. I asked if she wanted some pleasure, and thankfully, she said yes. When I noticed she started to swell, I asked if Mr Big should take over. She said YES. After quickly scrambling for a condom for him, I positioned Mr Big at my KH, who was already soaking wet by this point. I gently rubbed his head around her labia and clitoris, teasing her entrance lightly before she pushed onto him. There was slight resistance as he went in a few inches until the head passed through to the deeper spot; then she took all of him with a gasp and whimper. I slowly worked him using deep thrusts while licking her labia and clitoris for a while, though it became harder to speed up the thrusts without losing that rhythm. Not long after, she cried out FASTER FASTER MORE FAAASSSTEEERRR! Her legs shot straight out stiff as boards with toes pointed hard before slumping back into the bed. I slowly withdrew Mr Big and gently rubbed him around her labia and clitoris again. Then I lowered my mouth onto her once more, licking and sucking softly, giving one last tease to Mr BIG at her opening before heading off to clean up—washing Mr Big and splashing cold water on my poor caged erection that had endured quite enough for one night. When I returned to the bed, KH was lying still, enjoying her bliss. I have more to share but no time right now. Till Next time...

It was likely a night or two later before I got to give her pleasure again, but this time my KH teased me quite severely. As is often the case, I asked if she would let me please her and she said yes. I dove right in like a hungry wolf, but it was afterward that the teasing really kicked in. As I rose from her, she told me to "come up." So I did. She slipped her hand under my boxers and said, "I thought I was getting lucky," but then she took my cage out and started rubbing it against her pubic area. As she rubbed, she began humming and groaning; through the cage, I could only feel sensations on a small patch of my exposed penis. She started bucking slowly against my cage, turning me on even more while all I wanted to do was get inside her uncaged. Then she placed me further inside. I could feel her warmth like a blanket around my penis, but the tactile feeling was mostly null except for a small spot at the tip. This drove me mad with desire. She said, "Push, I want you inside." Then I pleaded to unlock it: "NO, just push," she replied. So I did.... The agony of this teasing became too much and I asked to stop because I was in pain. "Ooooh ok," she said. And she swung her leg over me to rest on the edge of the bed where she quickly put one pajama pant leg back on, and just as fast lay back down and grabbed me by the cage. While looking at me, she sank her mouth around my cage and swirled her tongue... Ahhhh, more torture. My KH hasn't given me oral in a long time, which is a pity because she is very good at it. Again I could only feel anything on that small spot on the tip of my penis. She released her grip and allowed me to go wash up.

It was the next day that I found out about her plans for me. I fetched her coffee and her Android tablet while she relaxed in the living room. She was looking over toys for the kids for Christmas in a catalogue we had on hand. Most of the morning chores were done, so I got my laptop out to prepare for work the next day while I still had time. I made myself a cup of tea and sat down first checking emails etc., and we spoke about the kids' toys and simple homely stuff before we sat silently doing our own things. "My Cup is empty," said my KH as she grabbed the TV remote. My KH doesn't like to be kept waiting, so I took the cup quietly and went to make her another coffee. As the kettle finished boiling, she came into the kitchen: "I'll have some toast with my coffee in the sitting room," she said, taking a pen from the drawer before returning to the living room. I followed her back with her coffee only to return with her toast. I sat down again at my laptop. She was eating her toast when she spoke: "I want you to stay Locked in for 3 weeks but your not going to get anything until the three weeks are up," she said calmly. It was hard to grasp—Three weeks without anything for me? I protested, but my pleas fell on deaf ears. However, I was allowed to service her as usual, and Mr Big will be introduced even more over these coming weeks. How I wished she would accept me wearing a harness with Mr Big, but she won't allow it. Over the course of the three weeks: The first few days were tough, but I always got to give her oral. Also, Mr Big was on hand for her shattering orgasm, but the problem was my balls kept escaping my device due to the cold weather and the ring already has no gap between the balls; any tighter and blood circulation will cease. The second week was much easier, and my KH had her period so Oral was out of the question. I kept escaping with the cold weather issues again. The third week was very simple to get through, and I felt no mood to offer Oral sex which I think my KH noticed but did not say anything about. Three weeks and 1 day came and on this Night I was allowed to be unlocked. My KH decided to treat me to a hand job and I immediately responded to her touch. It wasn't long before I was close to spilling, and I asked for Permission to O but my KH continued quietly allowing me to reach the spilling point and orgasm. But there was no Orgasm..sure there was a spillage but no Orgasm. "Was that good?" She asked. Erm it was Dull as I didn't have an orgasm, My KH just giggled. Afterwards I went and washed up and returned to bed but I couldn't fit into my cage even after cold water was splashed (This happens with me; The Grower). I was allowed to sleep unlocked that night. The next day on waking I put my cage back on as normal, but it was later when I was informed that this time I will be locked in without any contact for 4 Weeks. "That's after New year," I pleaded. "I know you can't wait," she said. "What!! Are you just gonna keep adding weeks on is that it?" I asked. "Yeah until Im satisfied," She said. I always knew she wanted me locked in long term and she told me so when we started to play with chastity play; she would Love me locked in minimum of 6 months and then onwards if it was possible. A few days later it was a 3 month Anniversary of No PIV sex. 3 whole months she has refused me and only allowed Mr BIg inside her. I informed her of the big day. "Really 3 months...it wasn't long enough," She said. Later that evening she came home from shopping with a surprise: 3 of my favourite beers and her own favourite bottle of spirits. Later we sat watching a movie and I decided to get some snacks from the Kitchen. My KH sneaked up behind me and as I turned around she Kissed me very strongly and lustfully. I wasn't complaining, as you can imagine well not before I started to strain in my cage. She gripped me by the balls and started to rub them. "Awww poor baby...maybe a kiss will make it better," as she put her hands down my trousers pulling them down slightly.... She reached for the window where she kept her Keys to my device openly on view to anyone visiting. She whispered, "I'm going to unlock you now." As she did she kept talking: "The key is in... I'm turning the lock... The lock is off." She stopped..."I can't get it off," she said; "you're too hard in the cage." "Can I help?" I asked. "Yeah." I really had filled it out and it only took a second to remove it before my KH quickly Dived down and wrapped her lips around me. My Legs still shaking as she returned to face me: "I want you inside me bare right here NOW." It's been so long since I've been inside; I knew it would be over quickly, and I think my KH knew this too. C'mon Reach in there C'mon REEAACCHHH She cried as I pounded her from behind. And sure enough it was over until we decided to go to bed after returning to the Movie. One final time before Bed again only this time we seemed to really connect when we looked into each other's eyes saying more than words could. The next day she asked me if I enjoyed last night. Of course I did, I said it was really nice and did you... Yeah I did but you will never hit that spot Mr Big can," she said laughing...

The Next day after our wonderful Night I asked if I could remain unlocked until after Winter as I'm escaping too often with the cold, but this will mean her idea of 4 weeks lockup and no penis contact or play won't happen. She thought it over a moment and said OK. I couldn't believe she had agreed to it. And while I was joking about escaping with the cold, all the same she had agreed. Two days later I was still free and we were up in bed; she was on her Tablet playing some Brain Game when I asked her if she would like some pleasure. "No not tonight," she said so I turned over and went to sleep. The next night in Bed I asked again if she would like pleasure. "I'm not in the Mood tonight," she said. Again I turned over and went to sleep. Two more nights passed but I was working so I could not ask. Friday night I was off, and once again I asked if she would like pleasure and she agreed; I put great effort into my oral skill and then those magical words were uttered ...... I WANT MR BIG, No problem Luv im thinking as I get him from the top wardrobe and place a Non latex condom over the Huge head and shaft. (Latex seems to cause a reaction to my wife) Wetting it with saliva on my fingers (She hates water based lubes) just for an extra bit of lubrication even though she probably won't need any. I start to play with it around her clitoris and vulva gently teasing her entrance before gently sliding it inside stroking in and out, further with each stroke until she engulfs it all with a gasp. At first she starts to enjoy it as I move Mr Big in and out and also licking her Clitoris at the same time but soon she asks me to stop!!! and so I stop without question and withdraw Mr Big from her with a sound full Flop!! I quickly lick her again slurping up her juices before handing her some tissue from the night stand before going to the bathroom and cleaning up Mr Big. When I returned she had already turned over and was starting to go to sleep so I didn't question her. The next evening I had a chance to ask her what was wrong last night: "I just wasn't getting there, I guess I wasn't in the mood fully. So I left it there and didn't question her any further knowing if I pushed her for answers she would only get annoyed and I wouldn't get any answers anyway. Later that night in Bed I asked her if she wanted pleasure (I was due to work the next two nights so this was the last chance until then) She said "No, I'm not in the Mood" as she played on with her tablet. The two night shifts came and went and a night off went by but I didn't ask if she wanted any pleasure. Tuesday morning I was making myself breakfast when my Wife woke up and came downstairs to join me. I clicked the kettle again to boil for her coffee. We had Breakfast together talking about this and that before she blurted "My cup is empty" holding it in the air at me while eating her breakfast, but then she raised her eyes to meet mine and there was something in them that screamed **NOW**!!!! So I quickly put my plate down and took her cup as she returned to her breakfast plate. The kettle boiled and I was pouring the water into her cup when she came into the kitchen. I added the milk, turned around, and handed the cup to her. She took it and looked me in the eyes and said Put it back on NOW, I can't stand it... I asked her what's wrong and she confided in me that she didn't enjoy her oral sex when I was free of my device; she needs my frustration to enjoy it, and she definitely needs me locked in when using Mr Big. Looking at me now Free without my device on was eating at her. I said I KNEW there was something up with her over the past few days that I've been free. I went to continue talking but she started to head towards the stairs and I knew she just wanted me to stop talking and just go put my device back on. Those stairs looked so long from the bottom, but I also knew that without my device on she won't be happy. So with the click of the lock I realised that it's quite possible my wife will never want to go back to the way it was before January 2014 and in such a short time she has started to feel this way. There are times I feel it can be worth it, and other times not so much, but I guess time will tell.

It was a few days later that I decided to get proactive with our chastity play especially after her telling me she couldn't stand that I was unlocked in her presence any more. I decided to get some tubing online so I could put it over the hinged part of my device rings. This would allow for more comfort and if things keep going like they are, my Wife will eventually want it on me permanently, so proactive thinking. The only problem I have still is the right Ball escaping too easy but I'll have to think about that at another time as first its comfort modding time. I ordered the tubing on ebay and I was surprised it arrived so quickly and so close to Christmas. I worked the tubing over the rings with a bit of lotion to help slide it along, trimming it when reaching the end. It was amazing; now I had no irritation or itchy feeling any more. After telling my Wife what I had done she just gave me a smile and continued on with her day. It was now Christmas week and I was off quite a lot from work so I spent most of my time locked in my device and with the new tubing it went really well. I was allowed unlock time for Christmas Day n Night but on Stevens day (Boxing day) I was back in my device, allowed unlocked for work only. But it was on the weekend that things changed and it was my own decision that I decided to try once again for Full-time chastity And what a better gift to give my Wife for New years. I knew I still had a small problem of ball escape but I will continue with ideas as they come to mind. One trick I found to help stop escapes was to keep the Boys extra warm so they hang better; With briefs on, I place an extra pair of Boxers over them too. This does help but not as much when at home as Im very active so slippage is easier. It was Monday night when I asked if she would like pleasure. At first she said no but quickly changed her mind: "Aaaahhhh yes," I thought; I slowly took one leg out of her Pj bottoms and gently did the same to her underwear. It was cold this night so I kept everything under the covers to keep her warm. I just melted my mouth on to her, I couldn't get enough and soon she started to respond to my Deep licks and sucking; she started to bare down on my mouth so I placed her legs more over my head resting her legs and feet on my back. I could tell she was getting into it more now so I slowly introduced a finger just teasing her a bit as I licked and sucked, and just to see if she would like Mr Big to be introduced...but not tonight it seemed as she didn't ask for it. I moved the duvet away from my eye line so I could look at her better. "Do you like when I push on to you" She asked. "I love it," I said; "It's what I said before, just do what you want and if it hurts me Ill let you know." I said. And with that she pumped her hips into and onto my mouth for a few minutes and slowly stopped. I decided to come up for air and see if I would be allowed to massage her clitoris with the tip of my penis. Of course Im locked in during all this and my penis is snarling to get out. So I ask if I can massage her with my penis and she agrees. Wow, this is the second time I have had this done and its quite nice in a strange way as you cant feel much but at the same time you can see the expressions of your wife enjoying her massage. I start massaging her clitoris and labia slightly pressing the cage to her entrance; I keep a variation of this going for a few minutes before concentrating around her clitoris. "When do you think Ill be allowed inside again" I ask her... "Ohhh not for a very long time" She sighs. "Like what more than 3 months like last time" I asked (Knowing this is gonna tease me). "Much longer than 3 months," She said. We continued until I had to stop from the pain in the cage I was feeling.

It must have been a week or more since that night; any time I was home I was in my cage yet I was getting tired of my ball popping out unexpectedly. So, in frustration one day, I bent the metal hoop that the rings fit into thus closing the gap even more between the cage and ring in hopes that it may help stop the escapes. It did for the first 5 days; I had no escapes when at home yet now I was getting a little sore around the ring area. So I thought why not try the largest ring for a few days and make sure the gap is tight. After 2 days it was more comfortable, and I had no slips while at home with the largest ring. I informed my Wife/KH of this new development; she seemed happy enough but didn't show a whole lot of interest. It was the following day that she did show interest. I was preparing for work when she asked a question. "So hows the cage today," she asked. "Fine, quite comfortable," I said. "Ah good, so you can leave it on for work from now on." One day I had errands to run and I asked if I had to wear my cage; her reply was... If you take it off I will add another month... but its your choice.... I kept it on and I was surprised it stayed on too. So its started again where Im in it again full-time. I wore my cage for a week full-time with only two ball slip outs, so it could have been the gap had widened enough; I will need to figure out something..maybe a plumbing oval Washer will help keep everything as it should be. But on the 8th day I started to get a sore spot on the pelvic area around at the ring. It must be my posture in work pressing on the ring making this spot. So I was allowed 24hrs to heal as best as I could before having to put my cage back on. So Ive passed a full week and its been a while since my KH permitted myself an O, yet I still have 3 more weeks before I find out if Im allowed an O or if my KH wants to push me further.

I only lasted three weeks, but that wasn't because I gave up. Rather, my Keyholder let me orgasm before the final week arrived, so here is what transpired. After crossing week two and approaching week three, I felt a gradual decline in lust. It didn’t help much that my Keyholder stopped teasing or edging me as she usually does. Normally, she allows me to give her oral sex most nights, but for the past week, that hasn't happened nearly as often. Still, I didn't push the issue with her. A few days passed into what was now week three of four when we were in bed. My Keyholder accepted my offer for oral service, and as hungrily as ever, I got to work on her. Afterward, she ran her hands over my cage and said, "Go get my keys." So, I rushed downstairs to retrieve them (she keeps them hooked up in the kitchen). I raced back to her, and she gave me the signal to unlock myself. My penis—her possession at this moment—had multiple ring-like marks along its shaft; as she ran her fingers down it, I could feel those bumps. It was heaven when she slowly and gently pulled my balls before stopping. "That will hold you for a while," she said. "Go put your cage back on." I was stunned but accepted quickly enough. After all, only another week remained until I would see what else she had in store. So, I quickly tugged up my boxers and went to grab the device when I felt her hands return to my penis. This time, however, she massaged with purpose. Stroking me at varying speeds brought me close to the edge rapidly, especially since it had been three weeks since my last release. I was right on the brink and squeaked out, "Can I cum?" "Yes," she said breathlessly. I gripped her pajama top tightly and held back a roar as best I could so as not to wake anyone. My orgasm was strong, long, and hard—so forceful that I spurtsed across my body past my elbow, with some landing on the nightstand beside me and others covering myself. I felt destroyed while my Keyholder laughed her head off at both the sight and sound of me. After cleaning up, she said I could stay unlocked for sleep tonight after all. The next day, she didn't say a word about re-locking even when I mentioned going for a shower; she expressed no intent to lock back up yet. Later that night, I was treated to a fantastic blowjob (it had been a long time). I rubbed my tip against her entrance and clitoris—she seems to enjoy that—and soon after we made love again until another orgasm. It was quite a lovely evening, and both of us seemed to have enjoyed it. It has been just over two weeks now, yet I haven't been told to lock back up; it appears we are taking a break for the time being. So, until then.

Well I'm back locked in after a short hiatus. it's already been a week.

It has been about eight months since I last posted in the Journal, and a few things have changed—not all for the better. Lately, I've mostly become a stay-at-home dad after my job cut our department's hours by 80%. This gave my Wife an opportunity to return to work (though looking after kids and home isn't exactly leisure; I know what real work is:D). So, my wife now holds financial control over most of our expenses. Most of the time, I handle the Kids and household duties while remaining locked in my device, a Chinese A086 model. However, I haven't managed full-time wear yet. After a few days, I develop a sore spot which often turns into a cut or abrasion, forcing me to remove the device—a move that disgusts my Wife, who believes it should be either Full Time chastity or not at all. Here is my current scenario: The 50mm round ring causes abrasions and ball escapes. The 46mm fits tightly but also leads to abrasion and escapes. The 35mm is too tight. There is a gap of about 6-8mm. I forced the cage down to shorten that gap at the balls to roughly 3mm, yet I can still escape with both rings. That was until the other day when the lock point on the cage broke off just before I was due for a shower. My wife wasn't impressed and suspected I did it intentionally until I pointed out we have an old device available as backup. I was instructed to go put that one on. My spare has a hinge but sits flush, so there is no huge bulge at the bottom. It also features a rubber tube around the entire circumference of the ring, which prevents any irritation, yet allows me to escape if needed while remaining very comfortable. And I managed to enjoy my shower. The funny thing is that just before the cage broke, I ordered a spare 50mm curved ring out of curiosity to see if it would make a difference. With all this in mind, I have been looking for a new device (my Wife won't approve the price of a Custom one). It might arrive too close to Christmas for my liking.

Now trying the A080 chinese device.