Can a Cockcage Assist With Erectile Dysfunction?

My wife and I (both in our fifties) enjoy Long Play, where my penis starts off very firm but loses some strength after a while. I want to avoid ejaculating too early. Would using a Birdlock-style cage help? It would keep me from getting hard during play, preserving my power for the moment when I’m finally released.

I don't see it harming your situation... you might actually find yourself regaining 'staying power' if she limits how often you can cum (while enjoying her own relief much more frequently). On the rare occasions my wife unlocks me—and these days that happens so infrequently I barely remember the last time—I'm always surprised by how rigid my erection is and quite intense in terms of orgasm.

Hello everyone, I'm new here so please bear with my beginner questions! My wife likes to know I can't play around when she's not present. Since I travel for work often, I suggested wearing a cage to keep me in check. Sometimes I'm away for up to a month. I also voluntarily bought a PA lock because I have a pierced penis; this ensures nothing pulls out and guarantees I cannot get any relief or orgasm while away from her. She has one main concern: how strong will my erection be when she decides to release me at her chosen time? Do you think being caged actually leads to stronger erections rather than weakening them? Thanks

Wearing a cock cage might help you maintain your physical arousal and erection for longer. However, keep in mind that we've reached an age where many men must acknowledge the effects of time. Chat with your urologist at your next appointment; it's possible one of the medications available now is exactly what you need. You aren't any less masculine for accepting help from modern medicine. -K

> member_12f6d6ebfd wrote:... Do you think that being caged leads to stronger erections rather than diminishing the ability? > Thanks My experience has been positive. I've been strictly locked 24/7 for the past two years. I get released once or twice a week, solely for penetrative intercourse, and am locked up again right after. The hardness and intensity of my erections have improved over these last two years. This is because there's no masturbation, no self-playing, and no handling by myself. Additionally, Secondly, I get only a few minutes to enjoy all the pleasure from my dick, including orgasm; so when I am finally unlocked, my cock performs at its peak! My KH wife has noted this several times and is reluctant to give me more breaks from being locked.

If you haven't yet, please consult your urologist. I think it would be useful to learn more about your specific experience with ED. How long have you dealt with it? What has worked for you previously? Do you take medication or use devices to help achieve that initial erection beyond just stimulation and fantasy? I've had ED for several years now, though this doesn't make me an expert—just sharing my personal story. I've found that the birdcage device I use does help keep my penis hard within its confines. As my shaft presses more against the metal bars, that pressure becomes quite stimulating. This makes T&D particularly interesting. Intermittent teasing keeps me bulging through the cage until it stops or I expire. To some extent, it also helps prevent ejaculation; once, it prevented mine completely while still allowing for prolonged orgasm sensations. This can be tough on my cock, especially the urethral opening, due to friction from pressing against the cage. On another note...;)

Thanks. I visited my urologist and everything looks fine, but age is catching up with me. I've tried cockrings before and they helped quite well. Now I'm testing what happens with a cockcage. I am now on my second night in this chastity device and it feels good. The first night was tough for sleep because of high arousal; my cock pressed against the cage, creating heavy arousal rather than pain—I nearly came without doing anything but didn't. The second night I slept well. I woke up with a very hard erection; the cage had shifted so there was a light burning sensation in my scrotum from the base ring—but again, not painful, just nice and heavy arousal. It's a pleasant feeling having the cock inside the cage while receiving soft stimulation. Feeling the cage against me as it gets aroused adds more pleasing pressure. I feel like my cock is getting as hard as possible. Maybe tonight I'll take off the cage. My goal is to see if after wearing it for two days and nights, I can achieve a better, harder erection since I have some ED. Right now, it feels like I'm about to explode if released, so we shall see.