Keyholders: Has Male Chastity Changed Your Desire?
I would like to ask our KeyHolders if introducing Male Chastity to the relationship changed their libido? I want to thank our KeyHolders in advance for…
I would like to ask our KeyHolders if introducing Male Chastity to the relationship changed their libido? I want to thank our KeyHolders in advance for providing insight into if / how Male Chasity affects, or doesn’t affect their libido. As with any poll, the options are limited and one size doesn’t fit all, so comments are greatly appreciated!
When my boyfriend is in chastity my sexual desire does go up. Probably because we go from having sex fairly regularly to none at all. Of course, I make him satisfy me with a strap on or orally. But it also has gone up more because he is more attentive and romantic with me. When he is locked up, I get a lot more attention in general, not just kink related. So I find myself fantasizing about him in a romantic way more, especially after massages and after he says nice things.:)
My libido picked up during the time cagedmonkey and I were repairing our marriage. Chastity has opened doors to exploring and that exploring has made me realize that I enjoy and am turned on by a few different things but the main thing that is my "fetish" is control. In a way chastity has boosted things but it was initially repairing us that did it and the communication between us. If chastity were not in the picture I would still have this level of drive, I'm sure.:)