Greetings everyone

Hello everyone. I’m the male partner in a couple, and after swinging for several years, we discovered cuckolding—a dynamic that suits us perfectly. Communicating openly on our current swing platforms can still be tricky since many users “don’t get it,” but it works well enough for us. My previous steel cage tended to pinch over time, so I recently purchased the CB3000 and absolutely adore it. Defining exactly what we are is a bit challenging; while caged, I am quite submissive and follow her instructions closely. However, once the cage comes off, my role shifts: I become more dominant, often making her report all her activities to me. It’s somewhat topsy-turvy, but as mentioned, it fits us well. Does anyone else have a similar cuckolding setup? Is this arrangement more common than I realize, or are we rather unusual? Typically, I wear the cage from Friday evening until Monday morning while she goes out playing. Due to my job, I’m not yet comfortable wearing it at work during the day. She also wears an ankle chain; when that is on, it signals me to put my cage back in place. That’s a brief introduction about myself. jadescuck

Welcome aboard, jadescuck! I don't believe there is one single "normal" standard for any of this play. Whatever works for a pair of consenting adults is wonderful, and that's precisely how it should be! I know many men here are attracted to the concept of cuckolding, but fewer actually engage in it personally. We appreciate the traditional model even if it isn't quite our preference; we understand why others like it. Our dynamic differs somewhat from the standard approach yet shares similarities. As I said... your way is right for you! Wishing you both continued happiness!

Thanks lady m. As mentioned, we enjoy it despite it not being the standard norm. Right now I really appreciate receiving texts from her while at work saying "cage on slut" lol. At meets, it's rare for me to get to play; I usually prefer handling cleanup duties and wearing her stockings and knickers. It turns us both on greatly even though I am denied access. We didn't rush into this arrangement but allowed it to develop naturally.

> member_ad51de0034 wrote: thx lady m. As mentioned, we enjoy it despite it not being the standard norm. Right now I really appreciate receiving texts from her while at work saying "cage on slut" lol. At meets, it's rare for me to get to play; I usually prefer handling cleanup duties and wearing her stockings and knickers. It turns us both on greatly even though I am denied access. We didn't rush into this arrangement but allowed it to develop naturally. That sounds wonderful. You're clearly doing exactly what suits you best! Perfect!