Threesome during Lockup in Chastity

Brief history here. Before diving into chastity play, my wife and I were part of a long-term threesome with her girlfriend after we relocated and lost touch with our old g/f. One of my wife’s single friends knows about both our past sex life and current chastity status. She has been widowed for nearly two years and isn’t interested in dating men. During a girls’ night out, she tentatively asked if she could join us occasionally. My wife is open to it since she finds her attractive, but wondered how I would feel about being locked up during a threesome. Is it too much? Good question. I’m unsure how I’d handle a threesome without orgasms.

While I’d love another threesome experience, I worry the sexual frustration might be too high. Previously, my wife and her g/f focused on me. Now, I’d become somewhat of an accessory for their amusement. Has anyone here experienced sex while wearing a cage? Is it rewarding or just frustrating? We aren’t into intense D/s dynamics, so this isn’t about submission to my wife’s will; we’re doing it because it sounds fun.

I can't answer your specific question. Seeing that no one has replied yet, I’ll jump in to give you a high five for being in this position! Wow!

I believe someone named Finn who posts here has been through something similar. You might want to contact him.

> member_0169c7b244 wrote: > I can't answer your specific question. Seeing that no one has replied yet, I’ll jump in to give you a high five for being in this position! Wow! LOCKED HUSBAND sends back the high 5 also. My wife/KH and I have discussed scenarios like this before, but adding another partner remains my fantasy. My satisfaction comes from seeing her happy. GOOD LUCK

I would expect some cuckoldresses to be bisexual and have their husbands present while they are with another woman. My strongest fantasy involves my wife inviting over a woman I used to lust after while I am confined. She apologizes for meeting me in this state but explains that my wife asked her to tease me. That scenario always works well for me. However, what my wife wants is a full threesome rather than an intimate encounter between just the two women. It’s not quite my ideal fantasy; I think it would be more thrilling if she directed another woman one-on-one while I watched.

One fantasy that really excites me is being "teased and used" by other women under my wife's command. Add some CBT and humiliation for good measure, and I am tantalized by the need to please them orally but denied intercourse or an orgasm, leaving me frustrated yet wanting more...

I don't believe there is such a thing as too much arousal to handle. If it gets overwhelming, you will simply leak some fluid to relieve the pressure. If you wish to play a more dominant role in the action, consider getting a strap-on and choosing from various dildos for your guest? The right fit depends on personal preference, but I don't think many men in chastity could resist this opportunity.

Another high five here. From a purely fantasy standpoint, I would embrace it. It might even make for an incredible release day.

I don't think you can go wrong here. If you play while wearing your cage, it probably won't be too different - just more activity:-) High five again!

This is something I know likely won't happen in my lifetime but still find attractive. You have the advantage of already having experienced a threesome relationship that worked out. What the heck. Take the risk and "get it on"! If it happens, remember to add one more icon to your Avatar:lol:

Having had a similar situation myself, I recommend you simply go along with it.

> member_1f353e1d87 wrote: > One fantasy that really excites me is being "teased and used" by other women under my wife's command. Add some CBT and humiliation for good measure, and I am tantalized by the need to please them orally but denied intercourse or an orgasm, leaving me frustrated yet wanting more... I like TwistedMister's idea but it might not suit everyone. If your pleasure comes from hers, then go for it. It sounds like a great time; I would do it too. You'll never know unless you try. Decide later whether to continue or stop.

I didn't plan this out but had my first girlfriend at age fourteen. We stayed together until I was twenty and even got engaged. She sent me a Dear John letter while I served in Vietnam; she is now married to a woman. After leaving the Army, I spent a year with what you could call a roommate with benefits. While she visited her own girlfriend on weekends, I had those days free to enjoy myself. My third girlfriend was a virgin when we married within six months of meeting. She discovered later that she is bisexual. I never really thought about this until recently, but my entire adult life and sexual history have involved women who are bisexual. I didn't seek them out or even know they were bi until after the relationships began. In my era, bisexuality wasn't widely accepted by anyone, not even within gay/lesbian circles. Women tended to keep it hidden, and arranging a threesome with their husband was a safe way for them to be intimate with women without appearing too much like lesbians because back then, enjoying sex with another woman made you seem closeted lesbian in the eyes of others. Times have changed now; everyone kept secrets. Last year I chatted up an attractive lady at our community pool. Within minutes she told me she was a lesbian. I replied that I still won't sleep with her.:)