Returning to Form

I’ve been a dedicated fan of orgasm denial for quite some time. My wife and I experimented with OD back in early last year, but life got busy afterwards. We’re picking up the pace again now, and it feels revitalizing. It’s interesting how much can still feel fresh, even after years of playing on and off. We usually skip devices mostly because when I first started, CB-xxxx models hadn’t really arrived yet, and belts were pricey for us. About two years ago, we got a JB (jail bird). With her heading out this weekend, she told me to wear the device, which made me very happy. This might seem obvious to many, but I was pleasantly surprised by how much simpler things are with a complete shave down. Hair tends to tangle up easily; I was also worried about metal rubbing against skin that’s used to having hair and is freshly shaved. It went on more smoothly, and overnight issues seemed fewer. For shaving, my preference for baby powder depends on the season, weather, and how my skin feels. It won’t hydrate if you need moisture, but it calms irritation and adds a protective barrier. If your skin gets too wet or damp, it can get irritated more easily. I’m planning to head out this morning since there’s been plenty of discussion about running lately. I feel a bit nervous lacing up with a device I don’t quite know yet and skin that isn’t always smooth from shaving. Maybe I’ll just walk over to the gym instead, do some brisk walking and light jogging on the treadmill before walking back home. Since my house is only one block away, I can shower at home afterward. Let’s see how it goes. During times when OD episodes happen in our relationship, I tend to feel a bit more ‘up’ or energized, which describes exactly where I am right now. My wife suggested we wait two more weeks before allowing an O (it’s been 7 days since the last one inside her) after my upcoming trip with friends. In our dynamic, it’s clear that OD is something I genuinely enjoy. It isn’t just for her benefit. It really delights me to see us finding room for this again in our lives.

> tcs wrote: We've started to play again Welcome back.

Have you ever tried waxing? It leaves everything incredibly smooth without any nasty stubble. For us, it was new; she did the waxing while I was tied to the bed. If you’re not into BDSM, you might consider using a desensitizing spray or cream. We didn’t use either and had a wonderful experience regardless.

> member_56a3d51043 wrote: > > tcs wrote: We've started to play again > Welcome back. Thanks. Life certainly gets in the way sometimes. I’m spending this weekend alone at home with some specific instructions from my wife, and honestly, it’s one of the least anxious I’ve felt in a long time. I even managed 25 minutes of yoga this morning—not that wearing chastity turns you into a sissy or anything (psssh...I can be a little bit of a sissy...shhh).

> member_5ecda0e28c wrote: Have you ever tried waxing, leaves everything so smooth no nasty stubble. New to us she did the waxing I was tied to the bed. If your not into bdsm you might want to use a desensitizing spray or cream, we didn't and it was a wonderful experience in itself. Sounds enjoyable, but I’ve never tried that approach before. Also, I realized during this process that I’m rather sensitive to pain (aside from an occasional good spanking). I prefer using an electric razor. It doesn’t leave the skin perfectly smooth like waxing might, but it’s gentle on my skin so I avoid bumps and ingrown hairs which can last a while. I shaved down from about my waistline to mid-thigh, covering quite a large area for me.