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Hello to everyone on the forum! This is my first post here and I would appreciate some advice from members, please. It seems I am in an enviable position where both me and my partner love the idea of male chastity. She has read books and articles and enjoys being dominant, teasing me while also receiving pampering. During times when we have played with chastity she enjoyed it and wants to do more. The problem is that we have tried many devices and none seemed particularly secure; I could get out of all of them. I’ve read that getting out occasionally is fine as long as you can get back in… etc. That’s well enough, but it ruins the fun if I can just bang one out whenever I want. The thrill for me is having to be good and wait, being super horny for her sake too. We have tried many types of trapped ball devices, and I am not worried about getting pierced if that helps secure things. Does anyone know a good device for me?

You can find lots of cheap devices at DHgate. The cheaper options might not hold up well for long term wear but they will give you an idea what it's like being locked up. If you are serious about chastity, I would move to a custom steel device as soon as possible. Comfort is crucial when you want to stay locked in. They cost more but, as with most things in life, you get what you pay for. Welcome to the forums! You should also post over in the HelloWorld thread.

> member_e9d45f0da7 wrote: The problem is that we have tried so many chastity devices and none of which I found to be particularly secure and all of them I have been able to get out of. I have read that its ok getting out but if you cant get back in....etc..... That's all well and good but it ruins the game if I can just bang one out when I want. Did I ever mention that there is no such thing as an inescapable chastity device? Seriously, there are three aspects of a chastity device; comfort, convenience, and security. You can have any two. The devices that are the most comfortable are the least secure. Devices that are extremely secure are generally either uncomfortable, or terribly inconvenient to wear. And none of them will prevent a horny guy from cheating the system and getting an orgasm. Even some of those guys wearing the vaunted Latowski full metal underwear belts can manage to eke out a release, given the right circumstances. A piercing may be your best option to prevent the pullout trick, but it won't stop you from using a vibrator and easing the frustration.

Tom's right. No matter what you wear, if you try hard enough, most can get off while wearing any device. But I do understand your desire for an inescapable device, at least as much as possible. Yes, a piercing with a good device (such as a Lori device) would be practically inescapable without damaging the device or picking the lock.

Thank you for your replies. I think I will go with a piercing and take that route. I know that no device is ever truly inescapable but one that stops me having access to myself would be ideal. We could lock away any vibrators in our toy box, though I don't think I would get a satisfying orgasm that way anyway so would always be waiting for proper stimulation. Does anyone have experience with devices held on by PA (penile attachment) without a base ring? Are those more comfortable?

I consider my cage to be one of the most secure and hardest to escape from. Of course, if the penis size is too small, then escaping becomes easier. The last 2 years my wife tried many padlocks and numbered locks. Finally she has settled on 'one time use' plastic lock that is serially numbered.