Help with Finding a Suitable chastity Device

First off, I want to say how glad I am to join this site. Secondly, the reason for my post is that I need some advice. My wife and I have experimented with her dominating me—tying me up, spanking using a strapon, and more. Now she really wants to try chastity. We bought a 40mm device but it was too small, so we got a 50mm one which is the company’s largest model; however, that turned out to be slightly too small as well because my balls don’t fit in the ring. Are there other options? She’s quite disappointed since she really wants to give this a go and I don’t want to disappoint her. Any advice would be appreciated.

If you can't find something ready-made off the shelf, you might need to look into getting a custom piece made.

Thank you for your reply. How do I go about doing that?

Is there any other way? Is custom really expensive?

Before purchasing more devices, I would recommend ordering a ring sizing kit from Mature Metal for US$20. It will help you determine exactly what size base ring and cage diameter you need before placing an order for the actual device. With that information in hand, you might find an "off the shelf" device out there that matches those measurements.

Wishful thinking is good advice. I don't recall any off-the-shelf devices (even the ones with larger cages) coming with rings over 2 inches. MM's sizing rings do go a bit past that, so it’s a solid place to start checking if there is something suitable.

> member_d1a0a22fee wrote: > my balls will not fit in ring Getting one's testicles through a solid ring can be quite an issue for some people. If you had handed me the solid ring I wear today when we first started, and told me to put my nuts through it, I would have thought you were "nuts"!:lol: For beginners, you might find that a split-ring design works best. While hinged rings may not be comfortable for long-term wear, one of the CB6000 series models could work well for you. I agree that MM's test rings are a good place to start. Alternatively, your local DIY hardware store might stock some cheap solid welded rings in your size.

Have you tried pulling your sac through first and then getting one nut at a time? Use your index fingers to hold the ring against your body, then use your thumbs along with the rest of your fingers to ease the nuts through one by one. When you are soft, everything will slide through easily. Most first-timers make the mistake of inserting their penis before the testicles.

> Lady M wrote: > ... MM's sizing rings do go over that a bit so that is a good place to start to see if there is something. You could say they go a little past 2 inches. MM offers base rings up to 3 and a half inches.

Wow LbyLRC, I don't think my rings went quite that high lol. But then again, I'm not entirely sure; maybe they did.

> member_b6dfe42069 wrote: > Did you try pulling your sac thu first then one nut at a time? you take your index fingers and hold the ring aginst your body then with your thumbs and the rest of your fingers ease the nuts tru one at a time. Then when you are soft stuff willie through. Most first timers make the mistake of putting their penis in first That's exactly it. I also like to apply a little lotion to the shaft so it doesn't stick to the ring as you try to push or pull it through.