Beginning Permanent Chastity Today

Yesterday marked one year since we began our chastity play. A year ago, I asked my wife to take charge of my orgasms, and she agreed to a twelve-month trial period to see if the arrangement worked for both of us before becoming our permanent lifestyle.

Yesterday, we officially made it part of our daily lives. She instructed me to purchase a custom chastity cage designed for 24/7 wear that still allows me to feel her touch and mouth during intimacy, which was different from my previous CB6000s models. I had been wearing the CB model around the clock for several months beforehand to test how well it suited me, and things went very smoothly. I presented her with the Mature Metal Jailbird featuring a security screw option. She really liked the design and was delighted that there would no longer be a padlock digging into her during sex.

She gave me permission to order it; delivery will take about eight weeks since they are custom-made for each individual. There is one other feature she likes, though I am slightly apprehensive: the Jailbird is much shorter than my CB6000s, which previously allowed me a partial erection. With this new device, my penis rests against the sides and front while flaccid, meaning no more erections unless permitted. My wife always felt that unapproved ereptions shouldn’t be allowed anyway. She also believes I should never cum again—a point I had vetoed in the past—but as part of our new arrangement, I have given up my say regarding my chastity, so I am a bit worried. I know she has already ordered some bras for me to wear and a new cane for punishment, so life will become quite interesting very soon.

Hi Len51, it sounds like you are just starting on the same style of chastity life that I have been living for about twenty years now. Like your wife, my wife Mandy feels that erections and orgasms should be entirely under her control, so I have remained in chastity under her direct supervision since we married in 1994. The only time I can achieve an erection is during our weekly penis cleaning and exercise session when she removes my device—which is very similar to the metal Jailbird but made to her own design—allowing me to wash it. This usually leads to an involuntary erection, which naturally results in a swift caning to reduce my ardor before being placed back under restraint for another week. I hope you come to appreciate your permanent lifestyle choice as much as I have and continue to enjoy your adventure in chastity. Good Luck.