Orgasm Control and Consumption with the Wife

My wife delivers a ruined orgasm roughly once monthly to support my prostate health. Given my age, doing everything possible for a healthy prostate is crucial because I know plenty of guys dealing with issues. Other milking methods aren’t viable options, so this is our approach. After 40 years together, she can read my body well and consistently lets me cum without sensation. She has to confirm whether I came or not. My ejaculation looks like a normal one but lacks feeling. Unlike what some pictures and videos show, I don’t dribble. How much do you shoot out during a ruined orgasm?

My wife’s rule is that if I cum, I eat it, regardless of whether the climax was ruined or full. Full orgasms are off the menu this year—or at least she says so, and she seems serious about it. So ejaculating heavily means there is plenty to consume. It doesn’t bother me too much since I remain fully erect and sexually aroused after a ruined orgasm. In that state, I don’t notice any smell or taste from what has been eaten, which helps my sex life greatly.:)

Does anyone else have to eat their cum every time they ejaculate? How do you feel about it?

My wife doesn't ruin many for me, although she is starting to enjoy the idea. She knows I don't want it after I go, and she pinches my nose (forcing me to open my mouth to breathe) to try getting it into my mouth. Now that we have a strap on ring gag, she finds it much easier to put whatever she desires directly into my mouth.

Initially, my wife considered a ruined orgasm to be an actual orgasm because she wasn't aware of the details. After some time, she learned about the different ways to ruin an orgasm and now enjoys doing it as the ultimate form of control. Personally, I find having occasional ruined orgasms more frustrating than not having them at all. It brings me closer to a full climax than simple edging does, offering just enough hope before ending in sexual disappointment.