Finally, matters seem to be improving

My wife mentioned that her nipples were hardening in anticipation of me being locked up again. Right before she said this, I had told her that I believed staying in my cage over the weekend was necessary to steer clear of growing temptations. This marks a significant shift from when I first introduced male chastity about six months prior; back then, she showed little interest. Although I explained my feelings and desires, shared article excerpts with her, and bought ebooks for her to read, she barely glanced at what I sent along. I stuck with it because the surge in dopamine and the pleasure of abstinence were incredible, making me crave this deeply. We experienced several cycles of starting and stopping chastity, lasting anywhere from a couple of days to multiple weeks. During these times, my wife reaped real benefits from male chastity. While locked up, I feel an intense urge to hold, touch, and caress her as much as possible. She has come around to the idea that while I am in chastity, she receives all the affection and attention she craves. Now we will see if she transitions into enjoying our intimacy without PIV; I particularly look forward to regularly bringing her to climax through licking, at any time of day.

It is good to hear you two are having a great time. We have also seen a gradual buildup, and I am not entirely sure where it will lead for me personally. Currently, I am in the middle of my longest lock up yet (three days so far), and we enjoyed quite an active night out at a hotel last Friday. I did not get out during the evening; instead, we had a long, slow session in the morning with my hand positioned between her legs. After she reached climax, she suggested that perhaps I should let me out, but I told her to leave me locked so I could extend this longest lock up record. My fingers were still inside her when I spoke these words, and she gushed even more than before. We discussed the duration of my lock up while in bed last night, which ended with me licking her to a quick climax that she thoroughly enjoyed, followed by sleep as we prepared for an early morning start. Since being locked up on Thursday morning, she has cum at least four times and seems much more comfortable with our dynamic. I love how a woman's body reveals her inner thoughts. That gush against my hand made my cock throb within its cage. My wife also overlooked the book I picked out for her. It appears we are finding a way forward, albeit at a slow and uneven pace, which works perfectly well for me.

Stay the course. My wife took eight months to truly embrace it as much as I did. By her twelfth month, she wanted chastity to become our lifestyle and has steadily increased my lock time from two weeks to three months. Continue demonstrating through your actions, rather than just words, how positive impact chastity has on your relationship. Do not wait for her request; take the initiative so she can witness it directly. If your wife is open-minded, you will reach where you want to be. However, watch out carefully regarding what you ask for.

Last night I was swollen nearly to the limit of my device as I licked her very wet pussy after almost an hour of caressing and massaging her beautiful, highly sensual naked body. My desire for her feels insatiable, and it seems I would do just about anything she asks. Afterwards, using her Hitachi, she experienced a most fantastic series of orgasms while I lay beside her, enjoying every motion and sound of her hedonistic indulgence. I am beginning to think that my missing having my own orgasm is fading less each day as I desire her pleasures more so. Is that even possible?

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