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Ups and Downs in Lockup

I've been locked in for day 12 now. Release should happen tomorrow or Sunday. Since my wife is away on business during the week, there's no teasing and she…

member_b22d00cd9c 25 Aug 2026 #1

I’ve been locked in for day 12 now. Release should happen tomorrow or Sunday. Since my wife is away on business during the week, there’s no teasing and she isn’t home yet anyway. For most of that past month and a half since I started locking up, I’ve been riding an incredible horny high! That was until a couple of days ago though. Lately I catch myself wondering what exactly am I doing? It feels like if you unlocked me right now, my cock would just shrug and say “oh well, don’t care whether I’m in or out.” Please tell me this is just a normal phase of chastity. I’ll find out over the weekend for sure. I hope he bounces back up like a young pup (I’m 63) once granted his freedom. Expecting to report back on Monday.

member_7f5b971d37 29 Aug 2026 #2

> member_b22d00cd9c wrote: I'm hoping he springs out like like a young pup(I'm 63) when granted his freedom. I will report back on Monday. Glad to see another geezer here! My arousal tends to shift depending on the time of day and whether or not I feel tired. Maybe it's tied to testosterone levels, but who knows? When locked most days, what happens is I wake up aroused (which isn't unusual) and keep that level until early afternoon. Then things start cooling down a bit. If I exercised more and lost some weight, I suspect my arousal would last even longer. Occasionally she unlocks me for a short while in the late afternoon for one reason or another, and I notice it doesn't get hard nearly as quickly then compared to other times.

member_d99507a7e8 1 Sept 2026 #3

> member_b22d00cd9c wrote:Im on day 12 of being locked. Should be released tomorrow or Sunday. My wife is working out of town during the week so there is no teasing and she isn't there yet anyways. I'm knocking on your age door, but I bet when I get there you'll still be older!:lol: If my wife weren't here with me, I could see it being hard to stay motivated. My wife has been away several times this year for family business and I find that a bit trying although she calls and texts things to keep me aroused as much as she can. I do look forward to her return because my arousal starts winding up several days before she gets back. By the time she arrives, I am almost losing it. > member_b22d00cd9c wrote:Since then I find myself thinking what am I doing? I feel like if I was to be unlocked my cock would just shrug and say "oh well,don't care if I'm in or out". Please tell me that this is just a normal phase of chastity. Highs and lows are normal for any age, with several factors behind it. Someone could have ED, or be a KH (Keeper) who really isn't into it much (Locked and Forgotten), family issues, work etc. Older guys like us also need to keep in perspective that even though we think about sex as if we were 17, our bodies remind us otherwise. Even someone at 17 couldn't be aroused 24/7/365 so we have plenty of work cut out for us. I experience highs and lows constantly. Fortunately, mostly highs because my wife is an incredible KH. My lows aren't that low, but when the highs kick in, it's like being 17 again where I am aroused to madness for days on end.

member_b22d00cd9c 5 Sept 2026 #4

Hope you don't catch up to me too soon grubber!:lol: What a great weekend! The 17-year-old in me came out to play. On my way home from work Saturday evening, my wife phoned for some idle chitchat. I asked her what she was doing and she said she was having a bath. Then she went on to tell me that she noticed how ugly her toenail polish looked and there was no excuse for it now. Next, She told me when I got home to go straight to the shower then grab the large wooden paddle blindfold myself, lie facedown on the bed, and wait for her to finish bathing. The phone call ended and a couple of minutes later I received a text. She stated that I had done several good things during the week so as a reward I could also choose a toy to pleasure her with. I got home, did exactly what she told me, and actually picked out several toys to choose from. Later, she came out of the bathroom and I received a great spanking for letting her polish go bad. She still doesn't hit quite as hard as I would like but hey, baby steps. She asked if I had chosen something to pleasure her with and of course I said she had a choice of three. I had a vibrator, a penis sleeve, and a large strap on hollow dildo. I suggested she might want to have me use the strap on since it would fit over my cage. She said go get it and put it on. I did that, came back to the bed, and she had made up lying face up. The strap on is quite large and she can control the movement and just how deep she wants it. She rode the strap on while I sucked her titties until she reached orgasm. I was surprised when she started talking about the big black cock inside her and asked me if I would like to watch her being fucked by a real black cock? This is a fantasy we have never discussed but one I've thought about before. Just didn't know she had considered it too. Now I know. She came, I of course didn't. Needless to say, I was left straining in my cage and wondering if I would be released since it has been 13 days. She never once mentioned unlocking me so I didn't ask. We went out to dinner that night. I spent a very restless Saturday night because the horniness kept me awake. Woke up early Sunday morning, then later came back to bed when I heard her moving about. I cuddled up and asked if she might enjoy a real cock this morning? Her answer was yes. I showered while she got the key out. Came back to bed and we had great PIV. She left for work this morning and found a Post-it telling me to lock them back up and text her when done. Definitely back in a high state right now. Sorry for being so long-winded, but this weekend turned out to be beyond anything I would have expected.