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Hello everyone! I've been practicing chastity for nearly a year now and decided to adopt it long-term, so I had a few questions that only someone…

member_4b989c2a50 25 Aug 2026 #1

Hello everyone! I’ve been practicing chastity for nearly a year now and decided to adopt it long-term, so I had a few questions that only someone experienced could answer best. First off, I am limited to plastic or silicon cages; no metal ones for me. So my first question is: which cage offers the most comfort, especially if one plans on being in lock for the long haul? I’ve looked at Birdlocked and it seems nice and snug, though I keep hearing about the CBX6000. Right now I have a cheap knockoff of the CBX (I’m on a budget) and it isn’t very comfortable for extended wear, causing quite a bit of aching pain if worn overnight.

My other question is directed at anyone who is uncut here. I find myself in an awkward spot: when aroused, the cage prevents me from getting fully erect but pushes outward away from my body, making my crotch bulge slightly as it feels like my shaft is being pushed back inside. Any insights from more experienced folks?

member_208ad55e4c 27 Aug 2026 #2

First regarding the pulling away from your body - that's normal. Second, have you checked out the Holy Trainer? They seem to be quite good devices and can last a bit longer. Give it a look!:)

member_1f353e1d87 31 Aug 2026 #3

> I have a cheap knockoff of the CBX (I'm on a budget) and it isn't very comfortable for extended wear and causes quite a bit of aching pain if worn overnight. The el-cheapos do have some defects that make them more uncomfortable than the authentic ones. There are some posts/threads somewhere here with tips on how to modify them to reduce discomfort.

member_4b989c2a50 3 Sept 2026 #4

> Lady M wrote: > second, have you checked out the Holy Trainer? They seem to be quite good devices and can last a bit longer. Give it a look!:) Thank you very much for your suggestion! After chatting with my partner, we both decided to purchase a holy trainer.

member_208ad55e4c 5 Sept 2026 #5

> member_4b989c2a50 wrote: > > Lady M wrote: > > second, have you checked out the Holy Trainer? They seem to be quite good devices and can last a bit longer. Give it a look!:) > > Thank you very much for your suggestion! After chatting with my partner, we both decided to purchase a holy trainer. Congrats and best of luck. Do some reading up on them because due to their material they can become softer at times when exposed to body heat. It doesn't get SOFT exactly, but the warmth does affect it. I think you'll enjoy it though!:)