Saying Goodbye to the Emergency Key

I had my emergency key encased in the plastic of a business card and stored it inside my everyday carry bag. Two weeks ago, I surrendered that key to my wife. I simply handed it over with a smile, and she tucked it away without much fuss or conversation.

The reason for surrendering it is this: as long as I hold onto the key, I’m not truly locked up. My goal is for the lock to remain in place so that I never feel tempted to retrieve the key or find a way around the device. It feels like mostly a psychological hurdle; now, without that option hovering nearby, I genuinely have no choice and am subject to my wife’s will.

Earlier today, the radio host returned after being off sick for several days, discussing his kidney stone ordeal. While I’ve never experienced one firsthand—neither forming nor passing it—the story has got me pondering…

I hope I can get back in time should a real emergency arise! Has anyone here passed a stone while wearing chastity gear? Considering I have a fixed urethral tube, I suspect that might entirely obstruct the flow of urine.

When you get a kidney stone, chastity and staying locked become secondary concerns. Usually, it develops gradually enough that there is time to return home. Your primary focus shifts entirely to relieving the pain. I have gone through this three times, but in each instance, the stones were too large to pass naturally, leading me to the hospital every single time. If a doctor determines you are capable of passing it on your own, then worrying about using up your unlocked window probably won't even cross your mind.

How do you realize a stone is forming, and what does the sensation feel like?

> member_2b60ec3c16 wrote:I turned it in because if I have a key, then I'm not really locked. ... I think it's just a mental thing that now, I really have no choice and am at the mercy of my wife. I completely agree with you on this point. Understanding that unlocking is impossible feels very different from knowing there is an emergency key available if necessary (or even just desired). Without that backup key, the experience is definitely more intense. I lean toward using a security screw for its reliability, but I often opt for a padlock instead as a precaution. In case of an urgent situation, a padlock can be cut off easily; removing a security screw would prove much harder.