Returning to Lockup

After a brief pause, I’m back in the device. It’s been quite an emotional journey for me. My wife lost interest and dealt with health issues, which meant I ended up locking myself without much sex or teasing from her. It felt right to let my penis go free-range again. I’ve worn some kind of cage for nearly two years straight, so it was nice to have a break where I could stand to urinate once more. My scrotum and testicles also benefited; one had been bruised and the skin was stinging slightly. Now everything feels fine, and my Jailbird is comfortable again.

I think we’ll drop long-term orgasm denial for now. We’d hit three months of it and were approaching four. I start getting irritable after about a month without an orgasm, and by two months, sex and teasing lose all appeal to me—not enjoyable for either of us. I’m not sure what the future holds, but my wife likes having me locked up. I do too, provided she gets pleasure from it; otherwise, I prefer freedom because I like orgasms.:)

That sounds reasonable enough. I hope your wife is doing well.

Is denial a key part for you? Why not just stay locked up without strict denial... perhaps only when she demands it. So day-to-day or every couple of days if she wants, but otherwise acting as if you didn't have a cage on your cock. The main difference would be needing to take it off before intercourse.

For us, teasing and denial are central. That’s how we started enjoying it, and now the chastity cage is just extra fun since I got a very small one that prevents full erections. This has added a new layer to our T&D play because merely achieving a full erection is now quite a treat.

Everything ebbs and flows. It’s somewhat like my posting history here on this forum.

I’m back too. We were losing interest in chastity play, but over winter we discovered some fresh ideas. I found an old blog with concepts that perfectly matched our needs. Now we have plenty of new games centered around chastity devices, punishments, bondage, and the occasional release.

> member_9aed324a4d wrote:I found an abandoned blog, with ideas that exactly fitted our needs. > So now we have a load of new games based around chastity devices, punishments, bondage and the occasional cumming. Could you share the link or tell us the name of the blog?

> member_ede23c467d wrote: Could you post the link or the name of the blog? Found it: It’s not entirely focused on chastity, but as I mentioned earlier, there are several ideas that were new to us.