Cycles

Just wondering if this is the norm for anyone else. I Tend to get a release and orgasm around every three weeks. Afterward I spend the day free and find I have no desire to be locked back up. My KH will tell me to and I comply. I spend the next several days wondering what on earth I’m doing locking my penis in a cage and felling just a little bit stupid. By a few more days, I start to warm up to the idea. I Start to get that horny feeling back and my desire to please my KH starts to build. Any opportunity to massage her back or feet or touch her is taken. I Dream of ways ways to please and pleasure her. I start to think that I never want to be allowed to have an orgasm again because I love the constant high I get from being locked and denied. Three weeks later I’m begging to cum and so far have been allowed to. And the cycle starts again. What a crazy mind I live in.

Totally normal. Sometimes Mrs Edge would have me lock up immediately after coming; that would lead to a day of "Jeez, this is pretty stupid" thoughts. But by the next day I'd be getting back into the groove again.

I am with Tom on this. However if I go more than 3 days unlocked I miss it and asked to be locked again.

Exactly. I go through that same loop and get it completely. A few days in, the urge to be locked up again becomes really strong.

Ha ha yes, I know that "this is stupid" sensation well after my orgasm. But there's some weird magic to chastity because, like everyone else, I find myself asking to be locked up again just a few days later.

I totally understand. When my Mistress allows me a release for PIV along with the occasional orgasm for myself, I usually slide right back into the Watchfull Mistress afterwards.

I always get locked up straight away. It doesn't bother me at all afterward.

You're absolutely not crazy about this; I think it's very normal. I also get that "what on earth am I doing?" moment right after my orgasm. It doesn't take long for me to snap out of it, though.

> member_b22d00cd9c wrote: > Afterward I spend the day free and find I have no desire to be locked back up. My KH will tell me to and I comply. I spend the next several days wondering what on earth I'm doing locking my penis in a cage and felling just a little bit stupid. > member_cb35cb9c4b wrote: > ha ha yup I totally get the "this is stupid" feeling when I orgasm. > member_33cc969733 wrote: > You're not crazy at all. I would think it's pretty normal, actually. I get the "what the hell am I doing?" feeling, too, at first, after I orgasm. Doesn't take long for me to come around, though. I sometimes feel that "stupid" sensation as well. But not necessarily right after an 'O'. Last night had a good one. While we were playing, she told me, "Make it count, because you're going straight back in afterwards." After we finished, we just lay there, neither of us really wanting to get up and move... but the animals needed feeding, and we hadn't eaten much all day either. At that moment I didn't feel particularly "stupid," just very relaxed and happy with no 'down' period. We dozed for a bit before eventually having to rise. While she started making egg sandwiches, I fed the furballs. The animals were eating before she finished frying up the eggs, so I headed back upstairs to retrieve the cage from the bathroom drawer. At that specific moment... I didn't really 'want' to put it on... but I did anyway. I still wasn't feeling "stupid," just lacking the desire to do it right then, so with some reluctance I decided better to get it done before changing my mind. (And thinking of another post somewhere here where I mentioned testing 'escapability' with the POI, I inserted those as well instead of the normal spacer.) A little over an hour later, after eating and watching a DVR'd episode of #H50 (it's almost 2 years old now, LOL, we're sooooo behind schedule), we were back in bed. She began chatting about what she had made me do and how much it turned her on, and the teeth of the POI started to bite; I was swelling up again. So really not much of a 'cycle' at all, nor any real 'drop'. I'm *not* entirely sure how to explain it, but lately being almost constantly aroused with orgasms being so limited (about 1-2 months apart), one single orgasm isn't enough to trigger much of a 'drop'. I woke up this morning fairly swollen and the POI biting hard enough that I was considering wanting out, wondering if my teeth were set on small or medium length.

It's the same for me. My wife prefers an immediate lock up after my orgasm. However, since we negotiate our terms at the end of every year, I'm going to ask for a week free from wearing my Jailbird. The main reason isn't even sex; it's just so nice being able to pee standing up without having to go through the whole cleaning routine. When locked, I tend to hold it as long as possible, but when unlocked, I go as soon as the urge hits.:)