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Large man seeking the best chastity device

Hi everyone! I'm quite large in the penis area, measuring about 5.25" long and 5.0" around when flaccid. I gave the CB-Curve a shot before but struggled to…

member_aa74e449d4 25 Aug 2026 #1

Hi everyone! I’m quite large in the penis area, measuring about 5.25” long and 5.0” around when flaccid. I gave the CB-Curve a shot before but struggled to get it on properly, which made for a real letdown. When I asked different shops about this problem, they mostly suggested “custom” solutions. I don’t mind ordering custom gear at all; however, since that kind of money is involved, I need to be absolutely certain the fit will work. A few other factors:

  • My foreskin is quite long (roughly .5” hangs over past the glans)
  • School environment means a visible bulge above my usual size plus noise concerns
  • Erection measurements are around 8.75” long and 5.75” around (hopefully relevant) I’ve managed to confuse at least two toy shops, maybe even traumatized one clerk permanently (:roll: ). Any advice?
member_25cff16817 26 Aug 2026 #2

If you intend to wear a belt setup regularly, custom is the way. I'm really satisfied with my Jailbird from Mature Metal.

member_56a3d51043 29 Aug 2026 #3

I back up what Aarkey said. Custom seems to be the best route. Your base ring size could also play a part in things too. Take a look at some well-known custom shops like or If you spot something appealing, reach out to them directly about your measurements. They all produce excellent goods and are very approachable with their service and guidance.

member_aa74e449d4 2 Sept 2026 #4

Appreciate the advice! I know MM produces the Jailbird, so I'll check with them and see what they recommend:) I was worried it might cost well over a thousand!

member_aa74e449d4 6 Sept 2026 #5

This has been really useful! Thanks everyone:)