Should there be a punishment after taking Cialis?

Hey everyone, I shared this message in the keyholders chat, but I’m wondering what a man thinks about it, aside from my husband! “We’ve been using a chastity device on and off since May. It’s done wonders for our relationship overall. The one catch is that he can’t stay hard long enough to give me an orgasm through intercourse like he used to. We do use toys, but lately the most intense orgasms I get are from sex. One of our rules is no masturbation for him, regardless of whether he climaxes or not. Yesterday, we tried cialis to fix this issue. This morning, he mentioned he rubbed his cock ‘a little’ while lying in bed. Over these past five months, I’ve gotten used to punishing him when he breaks the rules, so that’s not really a problem here. It feels like a bit of a gray area for me. He enjoys the drug’s effects, but he took it with me in mind. Should I punish him for this? Currently, I haven’t punished him yet. The cialis usually lasts another 24 hours or so for him, so I told him if he touches his cock today, my punishment is coming. What do you think?”

I’d argue that both of you are using the Cialis as an excuse. Try viewing it from another angle. When he could get erections on his own before needing help, what would your reaction have been? I believe this is how we should look at it.

I think the issue isn’t about whether he managed to get an erection (pun intended), but rather his self-control in keeping his hands off it. If your rules state that this action warrants a penalty, then yes, punish him. Of course, I *am* just a bit 'twisted,' and I find the idea of being punished for such an 'offense' to be erotic, even if the temptation was *intentionally* created. (In other words, in *my* world, even if you gave him the Cialis and told him not to touch the resulting erection—knowing he might not resist the urge and thus provide you with an 'excuse' to assign a penalty while blaming it on *him*—it would still be perfectly fine.:twisted: )

We faced a similar predicament over the weekend. We don’t use Cialis or that little blue pill...I actually went to a private men's clinic and got custom ED injections designed for me. I did this last year because of some "performance" issues. The injections are fantastic and usually keep me going longer than MrsL and I need. I woke up about an hour after falling asleep with a slight "injection hangover" (still had an erection). MrsL was fast asleep, and I knew she needed her rest. What a predicament:) . I know the rule: I must not touch myself or face at least 20 swats of spanking plus a minimum stay in the Steelheart for 30 days. So what did I do...I went to the bathroom, soaked a washcloth in cold water, and placed it over my erection. I couldn’t move much nor did I want to. I made a promise to MrsL. Even though most times I have steel-reinforced willpower backing me up when keeping that promise, I won’t use the ED injection as an excuse for breaking it. So, if a rule is broken, whether Cialis or not, I believe punishment should follow.

What? Are you all crazy? Those pills are pricey and you ought to get your money’s worth! I say (as a constantly horny caged man), "go ahead and stroke it, dude! Don’t waste the pill. You (KH) should/could take advantage of those 24 hours of erectile value by using him up, or you could reward his night pleasure with supervised masturbation. Even if you stopped him before he climaxed, it would be great. You’d likely get excited watching him, then go for a ride yourself. Good luck to the now-chaste man in charge.

I have 150 generic Viagra pills at home. I’m locked up most of the time (about 90%), and after a few weeks my erections fade, so I take a Viagra to solve that problem. Cialis lasts too long for me and isn’t ideal since I’ll be re-locked after sex anyway. It’s hard enough dealing with a four-hour Viagra window; I couldn’t imagine being locked up while the Cialis is still active in my system. Ouch. Given your current situation, Viagra would likely be the better choice. I buy mine from India for about $1.27 per pill, and they work just like the name-brand ones—blue tint included. My local pharmacy wants $35 a pop.

I agree with TM. If I were to take Cialis—whether my wife allows it or not—and got caught masturbating, let’s just say 'there would be consequences'.