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Semen leaking out when peeing while chaste

I've been locked for almost two weeks, with a three day break when my wife felt weird about it. Anyway, I'm going on two weeks tomorrow without any orgasms…

member_af8d16a51f 25 Aug 2026 #1

I’ve been locked for almost two weeks, with a three day break when my wife felt weird about it. Anyway, I’m going on two weeks tomorrow without any orgasms or ejaculation. Every 2 or 3 days I have been experiencing a slow steady stream of semen after I go pee. I searched online and found it is common in men who don’t ejaculate frequently. It’s just the prostate being full and the contraction of my pee muscles can stimulate it to empty itself. None of this sounds weird to me, but there is something I want to ask other caged men. Is it normal for it to feel good? It’s not on the same level as an orgasm, but sometimes it feels really nice when it happens. Does anyone else experience this?

member_7f5b971d37 26 Aug 2026 #2

I think what you are describing is normal. When I've been chaste for several weeks, I will experience much the same. If I have had an erection attempt, if I urinate afterward, some clear pre-cum will leak out as well. I haven't noticed any pleasurable feeling with this, but then I am somewhat constantly aroused all the time, and that is a pleasurable feeling in and of itself.

member_218d68eaa6 26 Aug 2026 #3

I cannot see what I am peeing because I have to do it sitting down but when I do look afterwards, I can see that there is semen mixed in. I start leaking in the 3rd or 4th week. I find semen stains in my underwear and sometimes wake up all wet. Its part of the deal and sometimes referred to as chastity tears. My wife will not even consider letting me cum until she sees my tears. If I am lucky she will give me a ruined orgasm, which helps for a while.

member_7a9ab98908 27 Aug 2026 #4

Same here. My leaking after peeing starts at about 2 weeks and increases as the weeks go by until I am leaking pretty much continuously.

member_c5a7c75d7b 27 Aug 2026 #5

Like lockedsteve, I see semen in the toilet bowl after urination, but for me it starts sometime during my 3rd week without an orgasm. I do not have leakage otherwise.

member_f61744a4d0 28 Aug 2026 #6

I'm not locked but, am in long term orgasm denial. I can't remember when the leakage started but, it has not stopped and I don't believe it will. Of course, some days are worst than others.

member_6e35687276 28 Aug 2026 #7

> member_218d68eaa6 wrote:My wife will not even consider letting me cum until she sees my tears. If I am lucky she will give me a ruined orgasm, which helps for a while. She should make you wear hygienic pads. This keeps your underwear clean and makes the inspection easy:D

member_3ae6f16cde 29 Aug 2026 #8

I have been locked 24/7 for a month now. It's the longest I've gone without an orgasm in my life. I suffered blue balls last week. Twice this week I have noticed a little sticky cum-like liquid/gel when I wipe after peeing. I thought it was cum, now after reading this I feel better and know it was. I know I am not getting out any time soon. Will I suffer blue balls again and will I have this pre cum leak for awhile?

member_af8d16a51f 30 Aug 2026 #9

Am I really the only one who experiences pleasure when this happens? It seems so strange to me. I'm not aroused when it happens, but sometimes it rivals a regular orgasm and lasts a lot longer. I just went pee a few minutes ago and I could feel it start. Rather than tensing my PC muscles and trying to squirt it out, I just relaxed and the feeling must have lasted over a minute. Way longer than any normal orgasm I've ever had. It just built up slowly and kept coming. With this kind of pleasure, I may not need penetrative sex anymore.

member_25cff16817 30 Aug 2026 #10

> member_af8d16a51f wrote:Am I really the only one who experiences pleasure when this happens? It seems so strange to me. I'm not aroused when it happens, but sometimes it rivals a regular orgasm and lasts a lot longer. The only pleasure I feel from it is emotional when I realize how absolutely owned I feel. Physically I barely feel anything from it.

member_af8d16a51f 31 Aug 2026 #11

Hmm. Is there something wrong with me, then? What I mean is, could this be a sign of some kind of problem? Have I somehow damaged myself?

member_1f353e1d87 31 Aug 2026 #12

Doubtful. Pleasure is not typically a sign of something being broken...though there may be some who would say our minds are broken for getting off on this kind of stuff...

member_25cff16817 1 Sept 2026 #13

> member_af8d16a51f wrote:What I mean is, could this be a sign of some kind of problem? Have I somehow damaged myself? Based on my extensive medical background, which includes surfing sometimes, I can say without a doubt that you do suffer from worrying too much. Beyond that, I'm not at all sure;)

member_af8d16a51f 1 Sept 2026 #14

> member_25cff16817 wrote: > Based on my extensive medical background, which includes surfing sometimes, I can say without a doubt that you do suffer from worrying too much. Beyond that, I'm not at all sure;) That made me laugh. Thank you. I suppose I do worry too much.

member_cea00715c4 2 Sept 2026 #15

oh wow is this what i have to come (no pun intended) we have only just started this i am currently on my longest stint of 8 days which i know isn't long for most but i'm starting to get desperate after several t & d sessions. how much leakage do you all get?

member_fc32bae7d8 2 Sept 2026 #16

> member_af8d16a51f wrote:Am I really the only one who experiences pleasure when this happens? You lucky bastard;) The only sensations I'm experiencing are frustration and continual wetness.

member_3deaf83d87 3 Sept 2026 #17

"You're odd? Then so am I. That sensation is wonderful to me. By day four, I begin leaking, but once a week passes, I get a sensation lasting about a minute. It's tricky to describe—like a tickle. Not the kind that makes you laugh, though; it’s an erotic tickle. Far from matching up with an orgasm, yet still quite pleasant.", "Glad someone else shares this experience. Unfortunately, it hasn't been happening much over the past week or so. I hope it returns soon.

member_af8d16a51f 3 Sept 2026 #18

> member_3deaf83d87 wrote: > You're odd? Then so am I. That sensation is wonderful to me. By day four, I begin leaking, but once a week passes, I get a sensation lasting about a minute. It's tricky to describe—like a tickle. Not the kind that makes you laugh, though; it’s an erotic tickle. Far from matching up with an orgasm, yet still quite pleasant. Glad someone else shares this experience too. Sadly, it seems less frequent lately over the last week or so. Hoping for its return.

member_84e045a870 4 Sept 2026 #19

I have a similar experience; it only takes me a day to leak while locked. My wife and I are new to this lifestyle, and I’m the kinky one lol. I've been practicing orgasm denial for roughly three and a half weeks.

member_84e045a870 5 Sept 2026 #20

Also last night and tonight have had trouble falling asleep. My wife is at work so I tried to handle it myself. It's only been five days. Both times resulted in a ruined orgasm, though not sure why; just trying to get off regularly.

member_0a6db098fc 5 Sept 2026 #21

Many of us need to wear a panty liner after two or three weeks in the cage without relief. This helps catch small drips of precum so they don't stain our pants.

member_6333426cde 6 Sept 2026 #22

I haven't ejaculated in just under a month. I've never noticed any active leakage but have had small wet spots in my underwear which I assume are precum. Might need to start wearing some kind of pad if it gets worse. My next release is scheduled for Sunday, marking one month. However, my wife canceled it at my suggestion because I need to send the cage back to MM for adjustments. I thought maybe I shouldn't cum until that's returned. Once it comes back and assuming it fits well, I hope to extend by a few more weeks. It would be great if my very first chaste experience lasted two full months! So far it’s been on an honor system as I haven’t yet found a cage that fits perfectly for long-term wear. I'm somewhat disappointed that my cock isn't constantly drooling like the fap captions on Tumblr or Bdsmlr suggested. I was hoping my dick would become something of a precum faucet lol.

member_381064b05f 6 Sept 2026 #23

> Im kind of disappointed that my cock isnt just constantly drooling like the fap captions on tumblr or bdsmlr led me to expect. Very interesting. Do you mean there are things on Tumblr and Bdsmlr that aren't true?

member_6333426cde 7 Sept 2026 #24

> Tom Allen wrote: ↑Fri Apr 17, 2020 1:34 pm > > Im kind of disappointed that my cock isnt just constantly drooling like the fap captions on tumblr or bdsmlr led me to expect. > Very interesting. Do you mean there are things on Tumblr and Bdsmlr that aren't true? I know... who would've thought? When brand new to something, your expectations have to come from somewhere and all i knew of chastity was from the chastity porn. Regardless, i love having been cum free for a month. Just hoping i can get my device dialed in for long term wear.

member_1f353e1d87 8 Sept 2026 #25

> Mikejames wrote: ↑Fri Apr 17, 2020 1:18 pm > Im kind of disappointed that my cock isnt just constantly drooling like the fap captions on tumblr or bdsmlr led me to expect. I was hoping my dick would turn i to a precum faucet lol. I think it partly depends on how much stimulation you are getting, how often and how long you are at [at least] some level of arousal. It doesn't have to be physical stimulation; it can be just mental. The more often, and the longer, you are at least partly aroused, the more likely it is that you will leak preseminal fluid and/or semen. It's been about seven weeks since I last 'got off', and a couple of days ago while reading here and the 'OurHotWives' forum. While not fully aroused—like straining against the cage—I was moderately swollen. Later, while doing something else, I felt an irritation like I needed to pee...and discovered that it was actually semen leaking out...

member_6b15185bce 8 Sept 2026 #26

New to full-time wear and have the same question as it feels like I am gonna pee again but then the pre cum. This time I'm only on day two and already leaking.