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Is There Space for Growth?

I've gone through many threads here and noticed people disagree on this point. I'm about to buy a custom Contender and could use some guidance. Many users…

member_3deaf83d87 25 Aug 2026 #1

I’ve gone through many threads here and noticed people disagree on this point. I’m about to buy a custom Contender and could use some guidance. Many users recommend choosing a smaller cage size, one that fits snugly with little extra space for expansion. They claim this is the most comfortable approach. However, others argue that erections need somewhere to go and shouldn’t be completely restricted.

Here’s my specific worry: I’m currently wearing a CB6000S, but it feels loose when flaccid. When I switch to a tighter base ring so the cage doesn’t shift at all, erecting causes discomfort—not in the testicles, but in the penis itself. To fix this, I moved up one ring size and now everything works well. Being hard pushes both the cage and the ring away from my body, creating enough room for expansion while remaining mostly comfortable.

My main question is: if I buy a Contender that fits “correctly” according to standard sizing, will it actually hurt my penis during an erection?

Apologies for any typos; typing on my phone.

member_b6dfe42069 26 Aug 2026 #2

Mine fits perfectly. I looked at the coldest (smallest) option and my standard daily size, then picked a middle ground. For me, that was a quarter-inch difference. My base ring is half an inch larger than the cage itself, leaving a 1/4-inch gap. It stays put during erections without slipping, yet I don't feel like I'm bouncing around in it throughout the day. My setup: MM Pet Trap with a 1 7/8-inch oval base ring and a 1 3/8-inch cage that is 2 1/2 inches long.

member_3deaf83d87 27 Aug 2026 #3

Great. So when you get aroused, the cage stays secure and there's no pain? I used to feel it at both the base of my penis and near the head. I wondered if having a half-erection inside was causing that. So what are you saying is that not having any room for growth is largely painless?

member_e84ec8c43c 28 Aug 2026 #4

I have a Contender and still experience some pain around the base ring due to nighttime erections and teasing, but not in the shaft or head. Those parts bulge out slightly, which is it really. Surprisingly, there's no pain from that area. The section between my testicles and body does swell up, pushing the ring against them, which causes the discomfort. It's all very bearable and much more manageable than with my Chinese-made cages. I doubt any size adjustments would change things for me.

member_3deaf83d87 29 Aug 2026 #5

Thanks for the input everyone. I just want to make sure my measurements are spot on. Common sense tells me to go slightly bigger, but most people recommend sticking strictly to the exact size either way. Thanks again.

member_56a3d51043 30 Aug 2026 #6

I've been here (and elsewhere) for over five years and can't recall ever hearing anyone say they wish their cage had just a little more length. As I've said before and will repeat, you need to "stifle the stiffy." A half-erection isn't ideal. It's all or nothing. You'll feel some discomfort while aroused, but it should be manageable. Good luck.

member_bc87d71103 31 Aug 2026 #7

I prefer smaller cages as they limit movement and reduce the chance of things getting stuck or pinched. It also makes peeing easier. Regarding erections in a tight cage, I don't feel much actual pain on the penis itself, but it does cause an abdomen soreness similar to "blue balls." I'm considering getting a slightly larger ring to see if that helps alleviate some pressure, but overall, go as small as you can tolerate without pain.

member_dacb204492 2 Sept 2026 #8

I'm also in a Contender. Mine fits like a glove too. I agree with the other posters; you really don't want any room for growth if you want to stay comfortable at all times.

member_c5a7c75d7b 3 Sept 2026 #9

My experience is very similar to locked4her55 and warwick. With no room for growth, I really enjoy the sensation of having my erection stifled.

member_3deaf83d87 4 Sept 2026 #10

Thanks everyone. I'll stick with the correct size and stop it in its tracks.

member_b6dfe42069 5 Sept 2026 #11

Yes, all I feel is pressure when erecting. It feels like a club or sledgehammer [lol], and that's with zero slippage. If your member feels like it's being squeezed in a vice inside the cage, you have too much room. I would go 1/8 to 1/4 inch shorter than your everyday length.

member_c5ed06deee 7 Sept 2026 #12

When I sit down, my penis pulls inward toward my body, leaving about a quarter-inch gap between the tip and the end of the cage. But when standing up, it touches the top. Does this mean I should get one shorter, or is what I have good?

member_e84ec8c43c 8 Sept 2026 #13

You'll be fine. A penis naturally changes size throughout the day anyway. As long as it touches the end when flaccid most of the time, I wouldn't bother with extra expense.