"Tragic" Lost Key Leads to Shower Release

I had been wearing my Evotion cage for four days when we departed town two days ago to celebrate Christmas. Roughly an hour into our drive, she remembered that she left the key behind. While many of you would find this appealing—and some keyholders do it deliberately—my partner prefers penile-vaginal intercourse almost exclusively. I give her oral sex about once a week, and I suspect she allows me to perform more often because she knows how much I enjoy it. She enjoys it as well; she is just someone who favors PIV. Additionally, we rarely use toys; she simply wants the real thing. Upon realizing she had left the key behind, she panicked and insisted “we have to return for it.” However, our schedule didn’t allow for a detour, and when that sunk in, her mood turned sour. We won’t be returning until Monday, meaning I will stay locked for more than a week. Typically we have sex twice weekly; I seldom ejaculate, while she needs release once a week—no more, no less. Throughout this period, she has kept calling the lost key incident “tragic.” Last night we attempted intimacy. Rubbing her against the cage felt uncomfortable for her, and she wasn’t keen on using my fingers or mouth after that. After spending some time making out naked in bed, which left me fully aroused inside my small cage, it was time to sleep. The chastity tales I often hear seem nearly inverted compared to our experience. There is plenty of toy usage, denial of PIV, and keyholders who lock up while using their partner’s tongue for hours on end. I am rarely ejaculating and usually locked, so aside from that, I wonder how much my situation aligns with the rest of you here. Any women or men out there relate to our style of play?

Sometimes I wish I could identify with that story, but no, I can't. My wife is the complete opposite. She has always disliked PIV. Chastity brought a much-needed breath of fresh air into our sexual life by giving us something enjoyable together that didn't require penetration.

Here is an update on our accidental tragedy: we just stepped into the shower and my keyholder clearly needed a release. She wasn't willing to wait another couple of days for the key. The head of the Evotion cage I wear has an open design, so everything remains exposed. While I can receive stimulation, I won't get off simply from rubbing. In the shower, she grabbed my caged cock and began pressing the exposed head against her clitoris. "Now that could make me cum," she told me quickly. "Oh yes, please cum for both of us," I pleaded. She said "Kiss" while pulling my head down toward her breasts. Whenever she allows me to lick her nipples, I know an orgasm is coming. What I felt was VERY pleasant, and she was really enjoying herself. As she approached the peak, I held her gaze and said, "look into my eyes while you cum," and then, oh wow. When she reaches that point, I experience a sort of vicarious release as well. So our 'tragedy' has turned into a happy twist until we can retrieve the key.

Welcome to the slippery slope of chastity. If she is like my wife, you will find yourself getting her off while locked quite often in the future. She might even start preferring that method.

> member_d56dfcffce wrote: > So an update on our accidental tragedy: we just got in the shower and my keyholder apparently needed a release and was not going to wait a couple more days to get the key. The head of the Evotion cage I live in has an open head so everything is exposed. I can get stimulation, but will never get off from rubbing. In the shower she grabbed my caged cock and started rubbing the exposed head against her clit. "Now that could make me cum" she quickly told me. "Oh yes, please cum for both of us" I begged her. "KIss" she said as she pulled my head down to her tits. Whenever she lets me lick her nipples, I know she's going to cum. What I could feel, felt VERY good, and she was really getting into it. When she was on the verge I held her head and said "look into my eyes while you cum", and then, oh wow. When she orgasms, I get a type of vicarious release, and so, our 'tragedy' has ended up with a happy twist until we can get back to the key. That sounds wonderful!

Nice going; we have done that too. My wife had the cage positioned about 20% inside her and performed very well indeed. For me though, it was extremely frustrating, which she absolutely loved. So while we play this game occasionally, I honestly try to avoid it because I end up unable to sleep properly. If I do sleep, my dreams are great and wet. But without a doubt, this is definitely one way to raise frustration levels, lol.

My holy trainer is completely enclosed, but my wife enjoys teasing me by rubbing herself against it. It doesn't result in her getting off, but she loves the tension that builds up.

My wife would never be satisfied with just having a caged cock available. That is why when she is around to supervise, I remain uncaged. Even during non-PIV activities, she wants a cock for play while she uses a vibrator or simply masturbates. This serves as a frequent reminder that I am being denied, and it builds frustration much faster than merely wearing the cage.