Posidonius Going It Alone with Quiet Resolve

Hello everyone! I’m a married man in my forties with a very traditional wife, so I’m giving this a go on my own. First off, huge thanks for creating such a welcoming forum and maintaining its vibe. I’ve checked out other chastity sites but found them leaning too heavily into the fetish side. This place feels like just what I need right now in my journey. I’ve always enjoyed reading about others’ experiences with being locked up. Recently, curiosity got the better of me and I decided to take action. I ordered a steel Chinese-style device from Amazon and it arrived yesterday afternoon. I put it on for part of the day and really liked how it felt. Dealing with work while wearing something like this was certainly an odd experience. It came with a removable silicone urethral tube, but I found the insert slightly too large to wear comfortably for long periods, so I took the whole setup off before going home tonight. Today marks my first full day in it. In fact, I even managed a two-mile run this morning without taking it out! It definitely added some excitement to the jog. I left it on through my shower and am still wearing it now. The sensation is unique—not exactly comfortable, but intriguing and thrilling? The metal weight initially worried me as potentially being cumbersome, but so far so good. I do notice it, yes, creating a sort of constant low-level stimulation. Another milestone today: getting an erection while constrained in the cage! On another note, I’m keen to explore prostate play. I picked up a njoy wand and have used it several times now. It feels nice but doesn’t quite hit that orgasmic peak yet. My plan is to abstain for a few days and then try using the wand again while still wearing the device. That’s my brief intro and first day update! Looking forward to meeting everyone here and swapping stories. Feel free to comment or send me a private message.