A Relationship Turning Point

My wife has made her stance very clear: she absolutely despises chastity, hates the idea of me wearing a device, and doesn’t want one in our house…:(:roll: But I am all for it. The attention helps her out, especially as my horniness increases. So, I’ve decided to stick with (the way of the force:lol: ) regardless. The past while has seen me return to wearing my device and honestly, I’m enjoying it. Fortunately, my job is global now, so I travel often; this means I can wear it whenever I’m at work or away from home, but not when we’re together there… As you might know, Valentine’s Day was just past us while discussing gift ideas. I jokingly pointed her to a penis extender on eBay. To my surprise, she told me to go ahead and buy one. She only gets horny once a month, right after her cycle ends. This time it lined up with Valentine’s, so the plan was to give it a try. Honestly, I thought she might back out at the last second—she still could—but this is definitely a big step… Valentine’s Day came around and unfortunately, she caught some bad flu bug, which ruled out sex entirely for now. So we’ll have to wait another month before trying again. But here’s the real twist… I only get really excited when I am exciting and pleasing her. Usually, chastity doesn’t work well for me because during intercourse, I tend to finish quickly. This obviously isn’t ideal for her, which kind of defeats the purpose since it’s supposed to be about her pleasure. But with this new penis extender in place, my sensation levels will drop significantly or even disappear completely. So even if I do cum, I can keep going. If everything goes according to plan… say hello to Mr Chastity Denial Boy:D

Congratulations "Mr chastity denial boy" on discovering something that works for your relationship and keeps you both happy. We see lots of newbies here who believe they *must* adhere to specific rules or routines to have a genuine chastity dynamic. This Forum often reminds us not to stress over what others say is mandatory; instead, focus on finding the approach that suits you and your partner.