Self-Locking and the Art of Not Cheating

I’ve had a Chinese steel cage on for over a month, nearly around the clock. It’s comfortable and I enjoy it. However, my scrotum seems to shift in size throughout the day. Usually there is a nice snugness, but occasionally the ring drops so low that I worry about losing it. Today, while the ring was hanging down, I used some string to secure it closer to my body. By attaching two ends of the string to the ring and looping them around my waist, I pulled the cage up tight.

This model features a slot at the front tip which makes urinating very easy. But then something unexpected happened. The head of my penis was poking out through this opening slightly. So I nudged it further out. And again. And once more. Before long, several inches of my penis were pushed through that hole. It became completely accessible for me to touch! That is the essence of “cheating.” Giving myself an orgasm would have been simple enough, but doing so might feel like breaking our agreement. I mean, it’s part of the game, yet not really; it feels a bit dishonest.

So I grabbed the emergency key, unlocked myself, applied lube to slide my penis out, and put the cage back in place where it now sits comfortably. It feels right being here. Sharing this with all you strangers is pleasant enough, but honestly, I feel like I should tell my wife directly. There shouldn’t be any secrets between us.

I just reread what I wrote about the strangers who will never meet me. It might come across as a bit sharp; sorry for that.

Not mean at all! We understand completely, so don't worry about it.

> member_526dfaf3fb wrote: > The tip of my penis was pushing out of this slot a little. So I helped it come out a little more. And a little more. And a little more. Next thing I knew my penis was pushed through the slot many inches. :lol: Been there, done that. I'm not sure which Chinese CD you have, but once I managed to pry apart the bars at the tip of my Watchful Mistress cage using Mature Metal. This helped me stand while peeing more easily. It certainly aided in that regard and also gave me the chance to do exactly what you described:o. The bars snapped back into place quickly enough. This effectively stopped any further escapes from our little jailbird.

We are all capable of giving ourselves an orgasm. That is why I say that unless you can truly restrain yourself, chastity won't last long. This is the main issue for those who self-lock or lock up for a partner they don't live with. Without a loved one right there to keep you strong, you start thinking "why not?" and then masturbate. Here's what we do: after several months without an orgsam, when I am eager waiting for my wife's permission, we follow our usual routine. I use our safe word, she hands me the keys, tells me to lock up once I'm done urinating, and adds that she is disappointed in me. She leaves the room, leaving it up to me whether to masturbate or stay locked. The sight of her walking away stops me most times. I don't want to take an orgasm for myself; I prefer hers because that is what keeps me from masturbating while caged.