Garysmall Exploring Chastity Together With My Wife

Hello, Gary here. I’d like to tell you about the path my wife and I are on together. Let’s call her Sally (not her actual name). I’ve had a fascination with chastity for some time, reading up on it and following communities just like this one. This past Valentine’s Day was when I first brought Sally into the fold. We documented our experience in the Hello World thread (which is now an archived discussion). Honestly, I didn’t expect her to take it so well or with such seriousness. My hope was that it might simply be a bit of evening fun at most. The events since then have unfolded like this:

• We took a trip away for two days; there was no mention of the device and she wasn’t locked up during that time.
• Upon returning, we slept over and I assumed perhaps it had become just a temporary thing.
• But on Saturday morning at 8am, it went back on. Our device is a CB6000s.
• There was quite a bit of tweaking regarding sizes and adjustments, particularly settling in the second largest ring and the second smallest spacer. It feels comfortable now. Sally has welcomed everything with great enthusiasm so far. Meanwhile, I’m working hard to keep my own composure cool while remaining very attentive. The Saturday evening passed quietly before we retired for bed. There was absolutely no discussion about removing it! We cuddled a bit in bed, but Sally was weary and we fell asleep. Sunday morning—this morning—I woke up early feeling quite frustrated. I brought her tea to the bedroom. She explained that she had thought about taking it off last night, but decided she wanted more sleep and didn’t trust me not to put it back on if left downstairs alone!! As though… She did take it off around 8am, and we enjoyed some fun in bed which I prefer as our private time. Let’s just say it was very good. Then we got up for the day, and even then, naively, I thought the game might be over. About an hour ago, shortly after lunch, Sally called me upstairs and locked me back in. So here I am again, confined. It is both bliss and torture combined. The fit seems okay so far—Any tips for avoiding sore spots? Vaseline maybe? It’s only a minor issue though. I’ve used plenty of lubricant and been washing regularly. Showered with it on and it held up fine. I’m very open to suggestions and practical advice as we continue this journey—I hope it will be long, but time will tell. I am trying to proceed slowly and remain highly attentive to her needs, following the advice I’ve already read here. Will update you all soon!

I have now been locked for 24 hours. It is a short duration compared to many others on this site, I know, but it feels amazing to me. Last night, Sally brought up the topic of chastity management during dinner; she was the one who started it, not me. We discussed how it’s affecting our sex life, and she seemed very enthusiastic about everything. After we finished eating, she became quite affectionate. While we sat together watching TV, she played with my testicles and drove me crazy, yet refused to unlock me. Then she went to the bathroom, and when she returned, her bra was off and she insisted I play with her breasts (which is always one of her favorite things). It felt like we were dating for the first time all over again. I stayed locked throughout the night. Sally has clearly been thinking a lot about this, including practical details. She looked ahead to Thursday when we plan to go out for lunch and spend the afternoon with some friends. She asked how I would manage that day. I hadn’t even considered such an extended timeline. She said she would take it off just for that outing, implying that it won't come off before then. It’s still early days. I’m already wondering if I should 'graduate' to a better device than the CB6000s and will read this forum carefully when considering that option. So far, it has been quite comfortable. One issue is finding my foreskin pushes through the slot at the end of the CB tube and rubs against my pants. Any suggestions for solving that would be greatly appreciated.