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Necklace Options for Keyholders

I am searching for the ideal key to wear on a necklace while my wife is out in public. Do you have any suggestions? The current key for my cage feels too…

member_9b45e170b2 26 Aug 2026 #1

I am searching for the ideal key to wear on a necklace while my wife is out in public. Do you have any suggestions? The current key for my cage feels too large and lacks elegance, especially with its BDSM-style hilt, so she avoids wearing it. She currently sports a delicate silver key on a chain, but it is quite tiny and doesn’t clearly signal that she holds the lock. I need something bigger than hers to catch people’s attention. Ideally, I’d like a design that includes an integrated padlock within the key itself; having the padlock serve as the hilt sounds great. Where can one find distinctive chastity keys with this kind of construction?

member_a02c0c4034 27 Aug 2026 #2

Check out your nearby jewelry shops; they often carry catalogs full of choices. Alternatively, Amazon is a good place to look. Poking around on Amazon just now yielded ... ... +for+women

member_b5e1ee4f3d 28 Aug 2026 #3

Use the search function on DeltaGeorge's link or look up 'key charms' and 'key pendants'. The prices for 'key charms' range from about $7 to over $4,000.

member_f4d8bd2438 29 Aug 2026 #4

My wife has stopped wearing costume jewelry... it's a funny quirk of middle age. We've been considering Tiffany & Co., but haven't bought anything yet. She is undecided between a few different styles.

member_b195396d43 30 Aug 2026 #5

MsM wears a small Tiffany key featuring blue enamel on one side (which way it faces depends on what she's wearing; yes, flipping it is one of my morning tasks). I bought it as a gift some years ago and found an almost-new second-hand piece from a jeweler specializing in estate jewelry. It was pricey, but She is worth every penny. MsM’s ld

member_f4d8bd2438 31 Aug 2026 #6

I also prefer the silver key with those enameled Tiffany blue accents. Naturally, my KH favors the version set with embedded diamonds.

member_b195396d43 1 Sept 2026 #7

Ah yes ..... diamonds ..... lots of Brownie points there lol MsM’s ld

member_208ad55e4c 2 Sept 2026 #8

I'm just a regular girl, I suppose:) I simply wear my mature metal key on a necklace.

member_b195396d43 3 Sept 2026 #9

Unfortunately, most keys designed for barrel locks are massive and unattractive. I even had one cut to be more elegant, but no local shop stocks the right blanks. MsM’s ld

member_b5e1ee4f3d 4 Sept 2026 #10

For those Key Holders who wear their key as a necklace, how long is the chain? For the key to sit between her breasts like my Kitten desires, I think a 24" length works best. Most of the longer chains I've seen are bulky and meant for men. Currently, she has her key and lock suspended from a dog tag chain, waiting for my first cage to arrive.

member_208ad55e4c 5 Sept 2026 #11

I think my chain is 20" long, but it doesn't hang down into my cleavage; that's just a bit annoying lol:)

member_526dfaf3fb 6 Sept 2026 #12

I've been uncaged for several weeks because of a skin issue. I'm nearly recovered and eager to go back under lock. It makes me very happy that my wife has kept wearing the gold chain with its two keys throughout this time away from genital restraints. She wears it as proof she still owns me—not exclusively, but like joint custody. We have two cages we alternate between, so there are two keys. I fixed the issue of bulky keys by drilling new holes and removing the heavy parts. Now only the toothed bit remains, along with enough surface to grip. I get a thrill every time I see it around her neck.

member_eb92b8b625 8 Sept 2026 #13

I feel like I need to go with "proper jewelry" if I want any chance of her wearing it. Maybe not perfect fit, but at least my odds improve. There are some choices just over $100 that she might consider.

member_9b45e170b2 8 Sept 2026 #14

What I really want is a classy silver key in a good size—not too large. As for the design, I was thinking of having the actual lock serve as the hilt and perhaps inscribing the word COCK on the back.