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Looking to upgrade my cage.. ..any ideas?

Evening all.:) Because my current device (this one) is silicone with somewhat rough edges, it becomes quite uncomfortable to wear even after a brief period.…

member_fa5bdef1fc 26 Aug 2026 #1

Evening all.:) Because my current device (this one) is silicone with somewhat rough edges, it becomes quite uncomfortable to wear even after a brief period. My Master and I are still new to this whole setup, but I feel like I’m already in too deep to back out now (thanks mostly to the lock:p) I’ve been browsing online since early this week and have been actively looking for an upgrade since yesterday. Although I checked Amazon, Alibaba, and other sites, many options are metal cages that seem a bit pricey for us given we just started. So, I’m leaning toward plastic. We have already spotted a strong contender called the Holy Trainer because it looks like such a good fit. Initially, I wanted to go with an imitation model; even if the original is excellent, 165€ feels steep. There are many knockoffs available on Amazon, Alibaba, and eBay, though most listings lack size information. This leaves me slightly puzzled: some vendors only list the tube length without clarifying the total length. (If anyone could clarify this for me, I’d be very grateful) Right now, my top pick is this one here, but the sizing gives me pause. A few sellers noted that their small version measures around 8.5cm long, which would suit me perfectly, yet the linked device states it is 48mm in length.. ..but I suspect this refers only to the “full” tube section rather than the overall measurement? I hope my meaning comes across clearly; please excuse any spelling or grammar errors as English isn’t my first language. Thanks for all the assistance, much appreciated!

member_541c83795a 27 Aug 2026 #2

Metal cages like the Peniskaefig look a bit uncomfortable, and I can tell you'd want to get out of one. You might be able to tweak it using very fine sandpaper, but your options for improving comfort are somewhat limited. The Holy Trainer gets good reviews. @Tom Allen recently shared links to four metal devices here that cost so little you could buy all four for the price of a single Holy Trainer. Search for his post; I believe it was in @Kitten's device advice thread. With some sanding on one of those metal options, you might find a satisfactory temporary solution until you're ready to invest in something fully custom.

member_fa5bdef1fc 28 Aug 2026 #3

> Schnoff wrote: ↑Thu Jun 28, 2018 12:48 pm > @Tom Allen recently linked four metal devices here that are so inexpensive that you could easily try all four for the price of one Holy Trainer. Look for that post by him, it was in @Kitten's device advice thread I think. With a bit of sandpaper on that metal device, you could have a good solution until you're ready to buy something entirely custom. Thanks so much! I'll check it out.:3

member_b5e1ee4f3d 30 Aug 2026 #4

It's in this thread: the archived discussion

member_fa5bdef1fc 2 Sept 2026 #5

@Schnoff sorry to bother you, but I wanted to ask if you happen to know if this device is (approximately) the same size as this picture here. I already asked the seller about it because I don't want to spend 50€ on the wrong size, but I haven't received an answer yet. (and that was two days ago) Thanks!

member_541c83795a 4 Sept 2026 #6

@Minou - I'll let someone else answer. While I am trying to be helpful, I don't wear a device myself. Bear prefers focusing on obedience, so I only come with permission even though I have access. That is and has been an ongoing process:).

member_381064b05f 6 Sept 2026 #7

> Schnoff wrote: ↑Tue Jul 03, 2018 9:30 am > Bear prefers working on obedience, so I only come with permission although I have access. That is and has been a work in progress:). We did that for a while. It wasn't as much fun overall.

member_fa5bdef1fc 8 Sept 2026 #8

> Schnoff wrote: ↑Tue Jul 03, 2018 9:30 am > @Minou - I'll let someone else answer. While I am trying to be helpful, I don't wear a device. Bear prefers working on obedience, so I only come with permission although I have access. That is and has been a work in progress:). Aw okay, no problem. Thanks for replying though.:D I'm just slightly confused why different sellers provide varying size information for the same device.