Locktober and November Together

Hello everyone, with memes migrating to Tumblr as well, I’m curious about how to blend Locktober and NOvember together. It’s a bit surprising that this forum hasn’t yielded many results… For my part, it only makes sense to increase cage time for Locktober. But regarding NOvember—which I view as having absolutely zero spills—I’m wondering what the spill rules might look like during October. Just looking to kick off some conversation…

That's a good question. I haven't thought about it too much, but I might *request* (though she holds the veto power) some additional lock-up time. After taking a break earlier this month, I've been thrilled to be back in almost full-time chastity for over a week now. It was missed. A predominantly locked October sounds lovely. With days still feeling quite summery, chilly November feels like it's far off!

I mentioned Locktober to my sweetie -- she'd never heard of it before. That seemed enough to signal that I wanted longer lock-up times. But I didn't force the issue, making sure it was clear that the final decision rested with her. We shall see!

The inspiration for 'NOvember' came partly from this excellent image on the (now sadly inactive) Male Chastity blog. Image

I doubt LOctober and NOvember will differ much from other months for me....:(

I’ve been locked around the clock for nearly a year now (starting Oct 3). However, my SL allows me to be unlocked when she wishes to use her toy. She hasn't said yet whether I'll remain fully locked during Locktober.

Well, there are those who lock for extended periods and those just beginning, with everything in between. The purpose of Locktober is to allow couples not doing this full-time to experiment with a longer-than-usual lock-up. If you've only done a week or two, a month feels like a massive leap. If you've fallen off the wagon recently, now is an excellent time to return. NOvember naturally follows for those junkies who crave more, while "Decided Not December" signals when things are getting serious. The only rules are whatever you and your partner agree upon, since everyone starts from a different place. I believe the creators intended it as a period of chastity for men under lock; she gets her desires met, while he might receive teasing outside the cage but typically avoids orgasm or ejaculation in the original concept. What truly matters is that your KH remains an enthusiastic participant regardless of your choices.

> There are no rules other than what you and your mate decide it should be ... > All that matters is that your KH is an eager participant whatever you decide to do. Exactly! Both months offer great opportunities for a man to demonstrate his appreciation -- both sexually and in other ways. In my very first NOvember post, within this archived discussion thread, I mentioned how my wife tends to be soft-hearted when denying me. So I asked for a solid month to help ease her pressure and concerns. Well, watch out - it actually worked! (A full month is now the baseline.) It can serve as an excellent way to start (or restart) ejaculation control. However you choose to enjoy it together, I hope it goes well! And if she climaxes often while he holds back, all the better!

I like the concept of doing both months, although my owner isn't keen on fixed external parameters. We seem to be moving in the opposite direction regarding frequency.

Someone my wife chats with introduced her to Locktober last year, and I followed suit shortly after. It turned out to be the longest stretch by far. The new cage is much more comfortable, which helps. My wife went away for a week last time, so I was already locked up. She won't return until past Oct 1st, and she'd already told me I’d have to deal with it. I don’t think she’ll let me out during NOvember either, since she enjoys her toy quite a bit even when going long stretches without.

OK, I was locked up on Sept 27th after a three-day break, and my KH told me this morning that I’m definitely doing Locktober with an option to continue into NOvember. I'm surprised because she wouldn't agree to Locktober last year since our wedding anniversary fell within the month along with a week of autumn holidays. So we did NOvember instead. Both events are happening again this time, so it will be interesting.

> KittensBoyToy wrote: ↑Thu Sep 26, 2019 10:21 am > Doubt LOctober and NOvember will be any different than any other months for me....:( If you read my Journey entry, you'll know that M'Lady has pointed out there is a difference between these months and the others..... "That's very true my pet ... however, the distinction is simply that you KNOW you won't be let out to play this month.:!: There's always NOvember too.:twisted: "

Not quite as many posts on this topic compared to last year. Are we becoming more sensible, or are most of us locked up anyway? She has returned with renewed enthusiasm after a period of "Meh." I've been continuously locked since Sept 29, so tonight marks two full weeks. This includes a romantic long weekend away for our wedding anniversary, which she would never have (and indeed didn't) accept last year. I use a free app called Countdown to track how long I'm locked and the time until unlocking, with Locktober ticking down. She just told me to add NOvember and Christmas dates as options depending on her mood. She's bluffing.

> Steve2059 wrote: ↑Sat Oct 12, 2019 4:12 am > I use a free app called Countdown to measure how long locked/time to unlocking, with Locktober ticking away. She has just told me to add NOvember and Xmas dates - as options depending how She feels. > ***She's bluffing.*** Said the man holding a pair of.......:P

Well, today marked my halfway point since I was locked slightly early. Then she pointed out that my record from last year (though somewhat accidental) stands at 35 days without unlocking. Wouldn't it be a shame to unlock at day 32 when a new record is so close? The new release date: November 5th. Assuming she doesn't move the goalposts again. No jokes about fireworks, please—especially rockets, bangers, or cascades.

I wish I could find a keyholder for November

Hello world. I’ve been living cage-free for over a year. I picked up a cool steel cage and locked it on Tuesday the 22nd. I’m running behind schedule and out of practice, but I intend to make it through the rest of the month. I'm also looking forward to NOvember. 🖤🐰

I just added two days because I fell out of favor for a while. Then I added another two days due to a wet dream.

I’ll hold it for you.:geek: > tiemeupalso wrote: ↑Fri Oct 25, 2019 12:28 pm > I wish I could find a keyholder for November

I’m going to the amusement park and there’s no way I can enter while locked up. I guess I have to add two more days.

I have a question: Since my cage didn't arrive until the 22nd, does that mean I need to do a makeup session and stay locked until December 21? And let’s not forget those extra six days. So what do you all think? Release on November 1st? November 6th? Or keep it on and add the six days to reach December 6th? I’ll leave it up to you.:)

> Bunny wrote: ↑Sat Oct 26, 2019 2:13 pm > I have a question: > Since my cage didn't arrive until the 22nd. **Does that mean that I need to do a makeup session and go until December 21?** > And let’s not forget those extra six days. > I’ll leave it up to you.:) Yes. Christmas looks like a good date.:lol:

11:30, haloweenie. Anyone heading out to celebrate the end of locktober?

M'Lady hasn't brought it up yet, so it's unlikely....

Good heavens! I just had a really nice emission. I squatted to urinate, and out it came. I was expecting this so I had my hand ready. I got a decent little glob; unfortunately, most of it spilled. Still, some sweet goodness remained inside. Things are finally heating up here in the warren. I'm anticipating receiving a new cage today, which has me feeling quite fidgety. It features a solid shaft, which suits my preference better. Solid construction provides another layer of negation that heightens sensitivity. Let's see how this bunny handles the coming days.

How’s NOvember going? I’m hanging in there, but things are starting to get warmer.