Did you find your way to chastity in reverse?

To clarify, I’m asking how many of you started with the goal of boosting your partnership quality through chastity? This is different from those who had a kink first and then realized it helped their relationship (or perhaps just enjoyed the arousal factor). For years while I was sexually active, I never really thought about this practice. When I did hear about it initially, my reaction was to think it was crazy and definitely not something for me. It didn’t even appear on any of my lists of things worth trying. However, many people here mention that they feel a pull toward it. For them, it started as a kink or fetish calling out to them first, which seems to be the common pattern among us. Are there others who approached this in reverse?

I believe you'll discover quite a few of us here—including myself—who brought **chastity** to our partners as a tool to help manage our masturbation habits. I guess that aligns with what you're asking.

i agree with kittensboytoy that most of us have come to **chastity** by that route. MsM’s ld

Not primarily to stop masturbation, but to boost affection. Her libido has always been much lower than mine. It reached a point where she was subconsciously avoiding me if she sensed I wanted sex. Gradually, she got used to having me locked up and actually started enjoying it. She had me locked for two months three times in succession. The last time lasted just over three months. Affectionate interactions increased too, like hugging, kissing, and snuggling in bed. Plus, the **orgasm**s I experienced after being unlocked were intense.

Yes, my wife and I strongly dislike the humiliation and degradation that you see on almost every porn site. Except for couples like Marie Kaefer <- spelling? And others similar to her. Personally, I love how it brings out desire and attentiveness in me. Seeing my wife not just sexually satisfied but completely blissful makes the frustration much more enjoyable!

I thought it seemed a bit odd and not for me at first. However, my masturbation was getting out of hand, which meant I wasn't meeting T’s needs properly. She rarely got attention because I was secretly pleasuring myself three times daily! So I wondered if forced **chastity** would help. I think she was initially surprised when I admitted that I had orgasmed 8 times in the last 24 hours and didn't want to cheat on her anymore. I'm very much like many men here now: locked up whenever she says so, not allowed to self-please, and she always comes first. She never reached climax through PIV before, which usually involved fingers. Now it's almost always with the tongue - and I LOVE IT! My current record is a modest 11 days locked, but I do crave longer periods. I shivered when she suggested two weeks recently. Am I kinky? Perverted? No. Since April, this has been absolutely normal for us. I'd recommend it to everyone everywhere.